Looking for ideas

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  Nightglider

  8 months ago

  Hope you get lots of good suggestions. Just read your profile. It says you are unable to change to a couples account. This is possible to change to a couples profile and even back to solo profile. Reach out to admin via help (from memory) and they can change it to a couples profile. I’ve done this is few years ago with another profile I’ve since deleted. You’ll look more legitimate too in your profile better representing your current situation.

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  selfless__lover

  8 months ago

  I would suggest doing some reading as to what sort of kinks those in the swinging lifestyle partake in and then discuss with your partner what both of you would be comfortable with and enjoy. Don't feel like there is anything that you have to try or try and tick off someone else's wish list. Keep it between your partner and you as to what you want and often just the discussion about whether you would both be comfortable with certain things can be quite hot. My ex and I would often discuss certain scenarios and even role play it while having some sexy fun, often the fantasy alone is enough to spice up the relationship. Also sometimes something that you think will be super sexy and fun, turns out to not be so fun in reality. Keep communication between your partner high, make sure you are always on the same page and completely comfortable with anything you partake in and discuss well in advance rules and boundaries to make sure you don't impact your relationship. Most importantly, have fun!

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  BlueSpark

  8 months ago

  Have you two been to any socials or events with people that are into kink? My partner and I have found that a great way to get ideas is to meet people and find out (or experience) what they enjoy.

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  RHP User

  7 months ago

  I think maybe your hubby is trying to be a good man and not push you too far into it...maybe ask him what he wants to try? Open the dialogue and you find out together what makes you all hot and bothered :)

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  seekandplay

  7 months ago

  I didn’t know… what I didn’t know… until I started seeing it with my own eyes. Not porn. Parties. SOP venues. Meeting other couples to play with. Meeting new people. Conversations in girls chats. Heck, even the RHP forums at times god forbid 😆 If you’re open to ‘seeing’ then perhaps explore some venues - with absolutely no need to play, but just to see what there is and what builds your curiosity.

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  AJ100

  6 months ago

  Have you been there with MFF or MFM?

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