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September 13 2018

What’s best? Do you want your lover around the corner, in the next suburb, across the city, or across the globe. Or are you not fussed? My perspective is as a busy working single dad I’m ok with a bit of distance. I was in a FWB with a single mum for an extended period and we lived over an hour from each other. It worked well for an extended period. It meant play dates had to be planned a head of time but it also meant we didn’t run into each other at the shops with our kids. Interested to know other peoples thoughts? - Posted from rhpmobile

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K_I_T_T_Y

7 years ago

I love the distance thing. I very much need my own space and when someone lives close I find it suffocating. My ideal relationship even would be someone who is FIFO or in another state or over an hour away from me.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

I live in Cairns so regularly see/run into lovers past and present while around town, gym, school etc. It has never bothered any of us. If we're there with our children its just a simple polite smile and morning/afternoon (as you'd say with anyone on the street). If were both alone, we will stop and have a proper little chat and quick catchup. Nothing to be weird about. - Posted from rhpmobile

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EarthQueen

7 years ago

When the mood strikes it’s good to be able to be spontaneous. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Mrs Farmer lives four hundred kilometres away, fortunately she works off the farm which leads training in Perth. Unfortunately it doesn't happen often and she's got a jealous husband. Anything under one hundred kilometres is fine with me.

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countrytouch82

7 years ago

Out of my hands on this one!

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RHP User

7 years ago

I want close so the itch can be scratched sooner ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you, no matter how far they (or you) wander. Ms Foxy

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

Is perfect for me. Ms Foxy

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usrightnow_Again

7 years ago

When we were looking, we would have been happy with them in the house, but we're increasingly less unusual. Mr. & Mrs. urn. .

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RHP User

7 years ago

I don't have too much free time to go too far. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsJonesy

7 years ago

Is my preference, an hour or so would usually be my limit. Having said that, I've had long term interstate lovers, so that clearly works as well! 😁

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egr2please69

7 years ago

I've had fwb's interstate and within an hours drive. Just depends on where I am and what time I have on my hands that's free. Just takes some organisation, life gets in the way at times but its up to you how much effort you make

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compressor

7 years ago

Everyone is a little different in what they want and what suits them I guess. Also depends on your situation as well

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RHP User

7 years ago

Canberra hmu - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I’m time poor and too lazy to drive more than 20 mins away.

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RHP User

7 years ago

My freedom is important to me. I much prefer a part time arrangement. He has his life, I have mine and we make the time and effort to be together. A sexy rendezvous over convenience and complacency anyday. Yes I miss spontaneity, but as a Mum I don’t get to have that anyway. I also prefer distance for privacy and safety. I don’t want to bump into someone at the shops or at the school with my kids. Awkward 😬 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I'm not worried about an hours drive, I'd just be happy to get a message back.... 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

you deal with whatever happens. Sometimes we're in the same room, sometimes the same town and other times we're in different countries.

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