F109
Left feeling foolish.
February 04 2017
Comments
-
RHP User
9 years ago
I'd prefer you showed yourself before I answer that question. It might have been me who made you feel foolish lol Wait, would I do that? Just guessing this is a male could be wrong of course, have been a thousand times before
-
RHP User
9 years ago
You send bizarre messages, (you as a general term) half of which they won't understand, the other half throwing your (another general term) address at them and following that up with the assurance there will be a female housemate there to tell your (same again lol) contact they'll be safe and that they'll have an amazing night with you. How would they know? Adding you don't have any rules, you do what 'you' want to do?? Not saying this is you of course, just an example 😃 but sometimes there is no way of knowing quite how to respond and it pays to take a step back and have an objective look at your own message, the timing and in some cases, crazy erratic way it might come cross, to see how the person at the other end might perceive it, particularly when all that comes in a second message with lots of punctuation and terms like tiered bitch? so perhaps cut them a bit of slack 😉 disclaimer: absolutely none of this is directed at you, I can't see you so that would be silly 😀 just an example of a recent experience of mine 😯
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Hi,i havent felt foolish although i do regret making contact sometimes.either never getting a reply,,,whatever happened to manners,,,or being told off for sending a short introductry email,,havent had many good experiences yet,,wont be renewing my membership
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, OP. I was contemplating your question and kinda wish you had included more details. Were you referring to communication via the msg'ing in RHP? An actual meet-up? Or phone calls? Or was it a veiled reference to a hook-up?
-
MissBishere
9 years ago
More times than I care to count really. Especially in the beginning as I was quite naive about how people portrayed themselves and interacted online. I had no idea people would be so mean and lie about so much. These days not so much as I've learnt to screen so much better the people I engage with and for those ones that do get through on occasion to not let it bother me. Mostly I feel sorry for them that they feel they have to to be that way and resort to lies or trickery or straight out meanness. Their life must be miserable.
-
AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Isn't it the same as outside rhp? No different in here except you can block them and swipe left unless it's in person. We all have regrets of what we should have done or said but hindsight is still good for the rest of your life. Take it on board and get out there for another go.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
nthwstvic. Mate certainly understand how you feel due to lack of responses, but if they can't be bothered then you have been given your response. No need to feel foolish or have any regrets. Simply put it down as a learning kerb. Women are outnumbered here so they can pick and choose. Some will reply from my experience, most won't. They have to many messages m8 so unless your profile stands out and are what there looking for your just another number. (Your not the only one.) Take a break if it gets you down. But get back up dust yourself off then jump on the horse again. No regrets more learning experiences. Good and bad. Foolish ? Only opening yourself up to be hurt.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
It's not just here. To quote a famous philosopher: "I've done all the dumb things" If it's dumb and I haven't done it, I just haven't thought of it yet. Give me some time. lmao... I'd like to think I've learned from those things, but there's always the potential for things to go sideways. What really matters is how, or whether, we pick ourselves up and go on.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
all as a learning experience. That's all you can do.Don't dwell on it, move on hoping you learnt from it and that you've now got a future reference so if it looks like happening again (whatever it was), you can stop it before itbecomes hurtful, regretable or embarrassing to you.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
... and soon learn their cock wombles or twat waffles. ❤ - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
For the grammar police 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Isn't it the same as outside rhp? No different in here except you can block them and swipe left unless it's in person.You can also swipe people left in person. But they call that assault
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Keep trying, and one day you wont regret it. Just i doubt u will find mr right here lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Isn't it the same as outside rhp? No different in here except you can block them and swipe left unless it's in person.You can also swipe people left in person. But they call that assault You made a fool of yourself so you divert attention from that by assaulting them. Food for thought.......
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' For the grammar police 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile In fairness to us grammar obsessives, that was a perfect example of why grammar is important. I was wondering why their cock wombling or their pussy waffling would be a problem, or in fact what either of those actions would look like...
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'houndhunter' i doubt u will find mr right here lol. - Posted from rhpmobile Surely finding someone with a compatible sexual life is an important part of finding mr right. I not only think it's possible to find a great relationship on here, I know people who've done it.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
AHHH the answer is "no" because we have lived a life less ordinary to know the lay of the land.
-
sweetgem
9 years ago
But certainly have regretted initiating the contact back in the early day of my Pie journey. This happened a few of years back when I sent a guy a message and asked if he was interested in opening up a chat line. To my surprise, back then anyway, I received a reply pretty soon which said, and I quote his exact words, "no chance, you look like a panda" and full stop. I was "young" on RHP back then, so I wasn't able to laugh at some dipshittery like that, but now I can 😂😂 some men really 🤣🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
My newsfeed page tells me someone is looking for me in Datefinder, a check of their profile tells me they're looking for 25-40 age group. Not the first time nor I suspect the last time I've felt foolish for even looking.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
only every time ive sent someone a message , not hard to say thanks but no thanks
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Firstly I just wanted to say I am a woman. My story is I meet a man on here we had lots of communication, I saw him as a friend.We decided to meet sometime soon.He suggested a date and time. I really did want to meet him but I was menstrating at the time As we had always been open and honest with each other I explained to him that I really did want to see him but I couldn't that weekend. He did not reply.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Is a tough gig. In life, Rhp or any other dating site. Perhaps wade the waters a little more slowly until you have a real sense of someone. It is bold and beautiful to be open, it is savvy and smart (and necessary) to know who with. Femme ❤💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Honey, when I started here, I answered every message. I had to learn creative ways of saying thank you but no thank you. None of us handle rejection with celebration - but once you've been as polite as you can be and the response is outright abuse...the desire to continually show standard social grace starts running low. I end up in the brace position now, waiting for the cutting remarks about my body, posts, ideals. Hurt people, hurt people and they can be quite cruel. Not all of us are 'up ourselves' - just a little tired of being called everything under the sun for saying, "No thank you." Femme ❤💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for your input femme. I do appreciate it. And wish you all the best.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Wow that's pretty immature of him. You're better off without him. I'm glad you saw this side of him before you actually met. Don't let him fool you or make you settle for less than you deserve. Best wishes to you Seeking time. Hope you find what you deserve,please don't settle.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
The last couple of guys I've met here that I've had sex with left me feeling pretty foolish though. Largely my fault for not walking away when I should have. I would say live and learn, but apparently I don't learn.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15100 Comments: 88163
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1416 Comments: 10243
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11714
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2503 Comments: 9778
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 998 Comments: 5068
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1301 Comments: 5760
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 780 Comments: 1984
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share