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Ladies.. Does height matter?

March 31 2026

A question for the ladies.. does height matter when it comes to finding potential playmates in the bedroom? I’m not that tall in the grand scheme of things and always tend to contact ladies and/or couples where the lady is either my height or shorter. I may at times go for someone who is a little taller, but that is a rare occurrence. I don’t have a problem with taller girls, though I know that some guys who are shorter can feel a little emasculated by the idea of a girl who is taller than them. Do you automatically exclude, or not really consider a guy if they are shorter than you? Or are there levels to this? How short is too short?

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Sawadee

2 months ago

Only a problem if you allow it to be... a healthy personality is a great leveller ..

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Nightglider

2 months ago

For some yes. For some no, We all have preferences. It’s about finding the right match, As @sawadee says it’s only a problem if you make it one. In the right environment with the right people aligning with you then it certainly is not.

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Notice_Me

2 months ago

I'm tall for my height but have a cool trick for improving height ratios: bend over :)

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Blueflamingo

2 months ago

To me, height has never mattered. Personality and connection is much more important. I find it a bit shallow and a sign of insecurity if you cut people off for being 'too short'.

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Unbecoming

2 months ago

Some of the best experiences have been with shorter men x

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Temptress_T

2 months ago

A lot of people have a 'type' and that is totally fine as long as we are not yucking someone elses yum or berrating them for their choices. There are lots of different kinks out there and height can actually be a kink too.

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selfless__lover

2 months ago

Of course people have height as a preference, the same as age, body shape, race, religion, gender or sexual persuasion It's just a matter of personal taste and nothing wrong with having preferences as to what you like and enjoy. My height preferences are from five eight to six foot two and I usually look for more athletic body types, similar to mine. Does that make me shallow or insecure? I don't think so as it's just a personal preference and the next person is going to have different preferences to me, which they are entitled to as much as I am to mine.

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queen1983

2 months ago

For me yes.

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TheMinx

2 months ago

I think the line is we're all the same height laying down ☺️

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SugarSugar69

2 months ago

For me yes it matters.

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PandaAndBri

one month ago

I generally prefer a taller guy than me. Maybe it’s just the hardwired female brain looking for the Alpha male? I don’t know. But it’s not too much of an issue for me as I am only 5’1 LOL but hubby is 6’1. Bri.

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RHP User

one month ago

To me it does matter.

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