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Kiss goodnight?

March 12 2013

Just read in the latest mens health that 80% of couples don't kiss good night and 90% don't say "I love you" before slipping off to sleep... Is this true? Or is it just one of those surveys made up to give a required outcome to a specific client... For the record we always end the day with a kiss and a "luv ya babe" before turning the lights out and thought that was the norm. So....Are we normal???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lies, damned lies and then statistics, Benjamin Disraeli (Former English PM)It all depends on the core group from which they took the survey. Ie- were they over the age of 50?, what country was it taken in etc etc..The 80% kiss goodnight overall would be hard to believe.

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    We do both! Even if we have been arguing we still tell each other that we love each other before the lights go out!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    But its usally someone elses husband   ok ok dont get your panties in a twist, it was a joke!   I say good night you old fart to my husband, he goes to his bedroom and me to mine.   aint love grand   but I do tell him every day that I love him, and I thank him for all the acts of kindness , and the work he does around the house and for working his arse of to support me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we begin the day with a kiss and an 'i love you'......finish the day with the same.....in between, its said and shown, multiple times over, by both of us....we see that others around us dont do the same....but hey, our 'normal' suits us...sloppy, sentimental lovesick fools that we are.....

  • Duke_n_Daisy69

    Duke_n_Daisy69

    13 years ago

    definately, kiss good night and "love you babe" after great porno sex or gentle loving, every night. and with a cuppa most mornings too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We didn't even share a bed the last few years. But sure as hell not making that mistake again....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' We didn't even share a bed the last few years. But sure as hell not making that mistake again....  and i shall kiss u good night my love. moohahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Even if one of us is at work and the other at home, we call and say goodnight and i love you before we go to sleep.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    when im in a serious relationship we do

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' We didn't even share a bed the last few years. But sure as hell not making that mistake again....   and i shall kiss u good night my love. moohahahaha Buona sera, kiss me goodnight. Well, Kali nichta in your case.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I`m with you on that! I too sure as heck ain't going down that path again... One thing I always make sure I do is "THANK" and kiss goodnight those who I bed with... LOL its not that many.... I've had some that go "Wow" cause they've never had that said to them- they are lost for words.... Sad but true!! It's only respectful not only that its empowering and just the right thing to do, especially if they are good lovers. So I will kiss you all goodnight...mwahhhh. Foxy XX- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox'I`m with you on that! I too sure as heck ain't going down that path again... One thing I always make sure I do is "THANK" and kiss goodnight those who I bed with... LOL its not that many.... I've had some that go "Wow" cause they've never had that said to them- they are lost for words.... Sad but true!! It's only respectful not only that its empowering and just the right thing to do, especially if they are good lovers. So I will kiss you all goodnight...mwahhhh. Foxy XX- Posted from rhpmobile after i give miss d her kiss goodnight, i will be straight over or urs. moohahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't sleep well if we haven't kissed goodnight - even if I've worn myself out in a fit of passion beforehand. Together 19 years in June and the man is still the love of my life. We kiss whenever we can just because we can (and because it makes the kids squirm ...ewwww, Mum!). And our actions show each other every day that we love each other. As is often the case in published surveys and polls - no bugger asked me!! ;-) Mrs IAT- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'slm114' Even if one of us is at work and the other at home, we call and say goodnight and i love you before we go to sleep. thats us some days too, with me working night shifts....6pm til 6am... i get a text saying 'gnight',,,,so i call and wish my lovely a good night, and tell her i love her.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Finally something I can boast about being in the top 10-20% for :)   I've never fallen asleep next to a partner/lover without a kiss and words of kindness (thankyou or I love you etc etc). (is it weird to kiss your pillow and tell it you love it?)   It is all free... costs nothing... takes only a few minutes and lets the other person know you care.   Also agree that polls and statistics are 99% guff because of the limited scope... include questions like this in the next census and maybe they could be better believed. (wait... did I just do myself out of a percentile boast... bugger! :S)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Both a kiss goodnight and an I Love You...and many times during the day..Top 10% here... OP, yes, you are normal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Seems like we are normal after all... Thanks for all the comments guys, its great to hear that there is some much love out there   (Its the rest of the world that has issues)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I do it twice every night..lol Leesa xxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A kiss good night and a kiss good morning...... I'm not ready to get hit by the fring-pan yet.... GT