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Is swinging the only option?
May 02 2010
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mistakenidentity
16 years ago
I believe swinging does cover a large range of different type of activities... full blown parties / events, couple swapping, three sums, and more sums....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Dr Suesslol you guys could meet people your looking for at the library. Seriously gr8 pics you hve, JUST a very confusing profile to read.....Happy Hunting
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am very confused, your profile says you are not swingers but you are looking for a couple? what are you looking for? What do you think swinging is?
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sexslaves
16 years ago
we have winked you before and no return no even a not interested reply i suppose if not into swinging go to a pub or go to the beach and dream what if i dont know as most people on here you seem like fakes here just to be seen and looking for elle mcpherson or something you wont get it her as most here are average working people here to have fun not put up with the bullshit
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our profile says we're looking for a female or couple (FF). Would you suggest we take off the couple (FF) to save the confusion?
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're also confused.....might be an idea to explain your idea of what a swinger is.......we consider ourselves swingers yet your profile sounds almost exactly what we're after.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
...huh?... that is the most confusing profile i have ever read, you say you are only looking for f or ff couple, but further in all that information it says mf also... way too confusing. If you not looking for sex but just friends then i dont really see a problem, but you need to just say that. it sounds like you changed your mind about 15 different times while you were writing your profile... my advice scrap the one you have n start again. if you want some new friends....put "looking for just friends to share food and conversation with. we are not looking for other people to have sex with" ...its really that easy... i think...or is it ? .... ms c
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for your comment. We didn't think out question would bring up so much contention. All of our attempts to find something suitable has lead us to the standard swinging cenario - couple straight swap. We're looking for a 3some (M or F) and couple when the swing would be sexes (M with M & F with F). I hope this answers your question. Y&P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Apology for the confusing profile. We updated it recently and forgot to change the 'what we're looking for' section. We have attended our fair share of parties and gatherings with almost anything goes. In the end, the majority of people (guys) seem to only want to shag someone else's women - hence our post/question. Where do you go where me (the female) isn't interested in other guys, just women or couple with an open-minded guy. Don't get me started on the quality of guys out there. Thank you comment Yamary.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our apology for the confusion. While we are happy to play with another couple, I (the female) don't find other men a turn on, so I'm not interested in having intercourse with another man. I do like to see my man with another guy and girl, with me playing along; but I'm not looking to shag another guy. To date all of the parties and gatherings we've attended have been just that, hence our posting. Thank you for your comment. Yamary
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're sorry that you seem angry with us. We don't recall receiving a wink from you. Like you, all we ask is a simple no thanks rather than no reply, so we're sorry not to have responded to your wink. Our post/question was to see what other forms of fun we could have than just partner swapping. While we are happy to play with another couple, I (the female) don't find other men a turn on, so I'm not interested in having intercourse with another man. I do like to see my man with another guy and girl, with me playing along; but I'm not looking to shag another guy. To date all of the parties and gatherings we've attended have been just that, hence our posting. We have taken a look at your profile and there are several reasons to why we now say no thanks to your wink. We wish you all the best in your search. Y&P While we are happy to play with another couple, I (the female) don't find other men a turn on, so I'm not interested in having intercourse with another man. I do like to see my man with another guy and girl, with me playing along; but I'm not looking to shag another guy. To date all of the parties and gatherings we've attended have been just that, hence our posting. Thank you for your comment. Yamary
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our apology for the confusion. We’ve recently updated our profile and forgot to check all areas. After reading your comment, we have re-checked our profile and adjusted it accordingly. While we are happy to play with another couple, I (the female) don't find other men a turn on, so I'm not interested in having intercourse with another man. I do like to see my man with another guy (and girl), with me playing along; but I'm not looking to shag another guy. To date all of the parties and gatherings we've attended have been just that, hence our posting. We are determined to find another like-minded couple (as confused as you say we are) and will continue to look despite our set-backs. Thank you for your comment. Yamary
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RHP User
16 years ago
Love the rhyme, thanks for the effort :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
To us your profile reads right as you have not ticked "swap partners for sex" After reading your posts do you really mean "swap partners for foreplay" if other men are a turn off? Any thoughts on "Girls play Guys watch" and maybe a few words about a bit of Bi male play? There are couples out there looking for this, its not us but we have been approached along those lines. Think it would be hard for most males to agree to "your husband cant have sex with me but my husband wants sex with your wife." Just a thought Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow DrSuess do look like a hot couple and we're jealous as hell they don't like getting it all on with another couple but give them a break, it usually takes a while to tweak a profile to perfection.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am flattered Dr Seuss. Wink right back. PS : Your profile looks great, no confusion there! Nada.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok, so they had a little confusion in their profile but it is very clear now. I can assure you though these two are an awesome couple and well worth meeting for a drink and play. P - Awesome body and keep up the trainingY - You are just to damn sexy for wordsChat later guys (yes a new profile)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most parties/ events I've attended, women do tend to become the centre of attention so it can be more difficult for a couple of gals to sneak off together alone. I can't imagine a party where bi mmf is difficgult to arrange but then I don't frequent clubs/ events that are not bi-male friendly. Seems trite and hypocritical for clubs to have a rule like that when they accept ff bisexuality. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for your support.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thank you Puppy, AnnabelleJ, PenniandPound and Stalky for your kind words and support. It's nice to see that empathy is still an option. Good luck to you all. Y&P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Find it difficult to swallow that people want a couple but only want the mrs? So its ok for both to play with the mrs and the mr to what watch and wank?! To me thats not a swinger, its wanting a threesome, but settling on a couple. not a personal issue with DrSuess, just stating in general :) Mrs Fun
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StookyAndChooky
15 years ago
if you aren't into swinging why not try female escort that way you what you are paying for and she meet both of your needs there are also male escorts out there too if you can't find what you are looking online or unsure about it all trust me its the way to explore without having to expose your relationship to full blown swingers I am sure the escort industry is changing with needs of people online who not getting what they are looking for either online or at parties etc and that way you both can explore at the pace your comfortable with of course you both have to set some boundaries first that both feel comfortable with and be totally honest with each other if you feel hurt emotionally in anyway shape or form weather it hurts your partner then sit down again until you both feel 100% sure with it all
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