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Is sex addictive????

July 04 2010

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Well gotta ask this one???? Can anyone tell me why the more sex you have the more you want????? Wasn't into girl action, and now I am. Never had a 3sum and now more the merrier. Once is not enough these days. Never let my hubby cum in my mouth and now never spill a drop. Never showed off too much and now go to nude beaches and play! My hubby used to chase me but he is just scared these days! Or is this just my midlife crisis!!! Or as one GF said "it's just a phase you are going thru" Love to hear your thoughts on my dilemmena! MRS SRFUN

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  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    15 years ago

    What dilemma?? i don't see the problem, you are having the best sex of your life and you are a little addicted, sign me up sister!!! i am hearing you, having a ball myself and frankly if that means i have a sex addiction then i don't want rehab!! (rehab is for quitters!) lolThey say that some women go through i sexual peak anywhere from their mid thirties to forties, i sure hope that is wrong because ever since i started having sex i have loved it and been rather insatiable and i hope that it never dies down or goes away will be happy bonking away till the day i die, in fact what a way to go have fun i say and to your GF that says 'it's a phase' i hope the phase lasts for you!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    That for women, the more good sex they get the more they lust after. It seems like some sort of drug addiction. For me....i can't speak for other fellas on this one, my libido is inversely proportional to the amount of stress and pressure i am under at work.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I just wanta say for the record I am not scared! Occasional a little worn out but never scared. Bring it on Babe! I love it and as far as addictions go, for the record I'm addicted to you! MR SRFUN

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I find the more sex I have the more I want too. I am not as brave as you Mrs SR Fun cos some of the things you mention are fantasies that I have not been courageous enough to act upon. It sounds like you've got a partner that supports you to explore your sexual self. Lucky you! Go for it! ' Wildly Jealous

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    So where do I meet women like you again?Cheers,Z

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    When i was having alot of sex.. It got really addictive that i either had to have sex or masturbate every day sometimes 2-3 times a day and it seemed like it was all i thought about 24/7. lol. if i wasn't having sex. i was thinking of when i am going to have sex next. lol 3 days without sex or masturbation was a nightmare for me. lol I remember after 3 days of no masturbation or sex i would often just wanted to f*** the next person i saw on the street. lol it drove me insane. my friends even started calling me a sex addict. lol Now I've hit a dry spell. I haven't had sex in a long time. In about over a year nows. Most of it is due to me being too busy and working too much these days that i don't even have time to eat.. Before when i was having alot of sex i had alot of time in my hands. Because of the lack of sex i now have i no longer have the strong urges to have have sex or masturbate on a daily basis like i used to. now it's more like once or twice a week. lol So i 100% agree. it is addictive.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    If there is such a thing as Sex Addiction ? Maybe? But then is that so bad? No! LOL I (Mr.) go to work & listen to all the losers whine about their boring sexless lives & whinge about their uninterested wives. If more couples were swingers there would be more happy relationships (in most cases anyway cos swinging won't improve anything if your relationship has other problems).The last ten plus years for us have been a blast...and we can't get enough..we try to play at least once a week if not more. 3-somes, 4-somes, more-somes, orgies, gang bangs all configurations of sexy fun..so long as our friends have clean bodies & dirty minds we're up for it!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    IF its a middddddde life crisis, then bring on the midlife crisis at 19 I say. hehe. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Welcome to the Horny Club Srfun...The more we get the more we want what a great thing !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just not the man ... and its a damn waste I think.... It tuff when I want more than just the quick thatnk you Maam and out the door he goes... Men just dont realise what they are missing out on ... Sassy..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If its addictive then yep I suffer the same problem. Great sex is addictive and we should ALL be getting more of it. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Does eating three meals a day qualify for an addiction? What about breathing? Addiction we think is something that has harmful consequences against an individual's health, mental state or social life. Hell if sex is what makes us happy and content then let's do it more. Its great for the health, brings out our best mental state and has added some fantastic spice to our social life. Mrs SRFUN your girlfriend has sadly put the word sex and phase in the same sentence lol You're obviously loving the lifestyle your leading so don't stop.....Embrace it, take it by the horns (or horn) and lap it all up! No dilemma love!Mr SRFUN - keep up the delivery mate! A satisfied woman will keep coming back for more.Hands up who loves sex! Good luck to you both and never lose the spark that's ignited your passion. Sex is a necessity for sanity!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Growing up and realising we've got it so it's time to flaunt it. After a certain age we're less inhibited, care less what other people think and realise that sex is fun... not a job. Lay back (or hop on) and enjoy the ride. It doesn't get better than this! Sweet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Does eating three meals a day qualify for an addiction? What about breathing? Addiction we think is something that has harmful consequences against an individuals health, mental state or social life. Hell if sex is what makes us happy and content then let's do it more. Its great for the health, brings out our best mental state and has added some fantastic spice to our social life. Mrs SRFUN your girlfriend has sadly put the word sex and phase in the same sentence lol You're obviously loving the lifestyle you're leading so don't stop.....Embrace it, take it by the horns (or horn) and lap it all up! No dilemma to speak of here love. Mr SRFUN - keep up the delivery mate! A satisfied woman will keep coming back for more. Hands up who loves sex! Good luck to you both and never lose the spark that's ignited your passion. Sex is a necessity for sanity!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'Chemistry is a powerful force... Chemistry as got me before, checking someone out and they were checking me out in bar on a late night, next were we meet on dancefloor no words spoken and we start grooving together touching and feeling packed with other patrons around I'm rubbing my thigh between her wet legs as she sneakly rubs my stiff cocks protruding against my jeans, the chemisrty of passion and lust as got us.... at the end we lock lips and french kiss for ever not care in world that your in the middle of floor kissing hard and feeling each other bottom and brushing my hands past her breasts getting each othjer so wet I can feel my precum on my cock and the wettness in her crutch.... After a a few minutes you come down and realise where you are, out the fire exit and up against the wall, kissing with passion and so the night went on... Its the passioingand kissing before the sex the sex I find additctive the emotion, mmm, yiou never forget those nights its more than sex....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    With the right person/people....YES, VERY ADDICTIVE!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    lolz... you're addictive Chocolate_brown. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    For something to be truly addicitive...whatever the substance or cause, it must have a physiological effect on the mind and body, one in which the "victim" becomes dependant upon the substance or cause...and would find it nearly impossible to quit and/or may be detrimental to one's health whilst withdrawing, hoping to find recovery. | You can choose your own definition, but I for one am happy to say "yes" ...based on all the clinical evidence of course. | Subjectively I suppose one could just say it's just obcessive compulsive behaviour, like gambling...but I am not going to bet on that! I like my addictions...recovery is for those that think they have a problem!