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Is it you or me?
September 02 2018
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luvsilver
7 years ago
Listen very closely, I shall say this only once. It’s Mr Red Liquorice It’s Me It’s the male half of most of the couples. Harsh but true in the majority of these circumstances. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mr Luvsilver...that's a bit bleak. I personally would be happy to jump on either of you or both, so you're definitely not letting the team down. There's plenty of profiles where this is not the case. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Umm Mr Luvsilvers, Hubby just got knocked back by a pretty young girl on another page as she wasn't into me, but she likes him. He chooses not to play without me, so sadly it's another one bites the dust. Guess that dis-proves your theory! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
Tara says looks are just one button, all her other buttons have little to not for looks and the best sex we have had has been with folk who by looks...least attracted too. A smile goes a long way though. Mr and Mrs Luv, you guys are probably too new in the scene to know what's what. Reckon many many profiles are more for interests sakes with the idea of it all in theory, testing the waters, most written up by the guy..I wrote our profile, I read through messages mostly, I answer messages mostly. Tara has a peak when toey and it's a smile catches her curiosity then wants to read everything about ????? arousal guides the way, although looking for the best in folk sure works out better than looking for the worst in them. It never works out as expected, guess for some.. it never works out then. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
The views then no views; flirts and no flirts; messages and no messages. It definitely happens to us. I used to wonder the same thing - what wrong with me/us/our profile.. but you’re not always going to be someone’s cup of tea I figure. When it’s qiet with views on your own profile maybe go look at others, chase them, we all like to feel desired and attractive which is what happens when we log in and see multiple views and flirts and messages so turn the tables and chase someone whom you think might be compatible for you. Don’t wait to be chased, initiate something. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why does it bother people when perfect strangers don’t like them?? To me, it is just what it is, and I’d be shrugging it off as every rejection you face brings one rejection closer to finding somebody more compatible... - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
don’t worry about it ,it’s one of you ,or maybe it’s them ,that’s fine dont over analyse it too much , you will go crazy, mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes Mr b It's best not questioned. Easy for a sexy couple like you to say though. ;) I was more wondering if the average couple experiences this too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don’t take it personally We used to but don’t now Lots of funny things have happened in the last twelve months
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are coming to Adelaide and we swapped messages and we sent the last message and haven’t heard anything from you both so ? You are doing the same as you are complaining about lol It doesn’t worry us at all but isn’t that what you are complaining about here lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
....it will just do your head in😳 Doesn’t matter if it’s the Mr or the Mrs... You come as a pair, so it is what it is...you are who you are, and there’s someone for everyone 👌
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luvsilver
7 years ago
I am not saying there is anything wrong with Mr Red Liquorice or myself or any other male half of the couples out there.Not every one is found attractive by everyone.We have found in general though that if that initial attraction (just going of pics in a profile) isn't there, it is mostly the female not finding an attraction to the male half of the other couple.This of course will not be in every case but a good percentage.If that initial attraction isn't there people will just go to the next profile.Things can be very different in meeting people in the flesh also.We went to a Minx meet and greet night many years ago where Mrs Luvsilver was chatting to a guy that she was very attracted to. She later realised that the same guy was someone she handn't really found an attraction to when he and his wife had messaged us the week before.Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sounds like you dont practise what you preach Red too funny!Its easy to cast dispersions on others while ignoring your own behaviour lolWe all do itI ignore messages if i dont like the look of them but i dont whinge if mine are ignored have you heard of Karma!Have a great day
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RHP User
7 years ago
Apologies to sweetnsensual. I just responded to your msg and my reason for the 3 day delay is explained within. Perhaps msg us privately before jumping to conclusions and making us feel bad on this forum :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The point of this post is about how other newbie couples feel. Please don't be mean...be constructive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousgirl35
7 years ago
We still are waiting for our first experience in rhp land, so i guess its both of us!! 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
1. Both of you like both of them 2. Both of you don't like either of them 3. He likes the other woman, she doesn't. 4. He likes the other male, she doesn't. 5. She likes the other woman, he doesn't. 6. She likes the other male, he doesn't. It's like winning lotto, you have to be in it to win it, take a chance. Then if you do get to the next stage, and meet, it all starts again! Enjoy the ride. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
thanks for the flattering nice compliment🤪 , doesn’t matter how good you think others are and that they may not have those same feelings ,they do ,we all know our self perceived flaws better than anyone , i agree with mr luv ,one reason mrs b will not participate in here or look at profiles or messages and only interested when we go out and meet people in real life ,she doesn’t feel anything what’s so ever by looking at pics , she says there just pics with nothing else ,to help that pic along ,some people take awesome pics and some take a million to get a couple good ones (us) and some just put up horrid ones that leave your head scratching why why why he actually good looking ,really depends on what your wanting from here as a platform if you want more info is it you or him get to some real life clubs,partys , or meet and greets ,actual real human interaction is much easier to gauge what’s going on ,rather than this electronic medium and clickerty click click style of of a lot people here mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Oh yes I have posted before and been jumped on Just pointing out that red was whinging about being ghosted yet in the same thread they had obviously done the same thing to another couple. There are lots of reasons people don’t reply
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' You know that when you point your finger at someone there are three fingers pointing back at you. Shells. CucknShells, that's a great saying, I'd never heard it before!
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LifeUnscripted
7 years ago
That there are a million reasons someone might not be interested....and that is ok. I might not be there cup of tea, Ms Lifeunscripted might not, the couple might have other issues, we remind them of someone (this has happened to me lol) or a thousand other things. Best thing to do is not stress about it and move on to the next potential fun. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks Shells and Mr b You are both true sweethearts. Perhaps someone needs to change their name? 🤔 Yes I do know what Karma is and the irony is not lost on me here either 😂 Agree about meeting people in person. We've met quite a lot! We are choosy and understand that limits us, but I was talking more about lack of interest in the profile at all. The Adelaide scene is very clicky and hard to get into and there's rarely social events on. When they are on we struggle with family commitments to get to them. We went to one social meet and were very disappointed, so mainly rely on our profile. We've been to switch, but it's mainly for people into kink and again VERY clicky and we visit a little bar that's very open-minded when we can. Youre lucky if u live in a big city with a better scene. Perhaps we should save our fun-times for travel 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting (not so) sweetjen "Just pointing out that red was whinging about being ghosted" if you read the post properly this has nothing to do with ghosting and is posted on the couples forum and directed at couples so not sure why you're commenting at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
Nice photos.. flirty profile good conversation . I believe it’s not personal. Once you’ve had enough experiences you’ll grow confident of your sex appeal and your other half’s. Maybe go to a club to meet some new ppl not everyone is online! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi. For my self I,m just a unicorn. and along with that is I,m a loner in some regards , guys are not that interested in myself as a person even though I,m very out going quite sociable and get on with others yes I can hold a converstion and do know what I,m talking about with in my fields of work and other interests, i enjoy meeting people so no issues there, where I become more of a loner is or standoffish is with in the subject of sexual matters, I,m up front and don't try to be what I,m not . with in the swingers groups and associated aspects of what that involves I,ll say bluntly I,m an out sider, I have tried to get to a place of joining in and find for many reasons why I don't . my age at 71 is a turn off I,m not a hot sexy chic. being single is a turn off as well, my looks are also a turn off, because guys wont some who,s looks are sexy and a lot younger , what I am finding is , is for most guys they only wont a one of = one time with some one and that's it.so I don't get a chance to get experance and be better sexually. Faults of cause I have pleanty,, I don't hide them , So I like to talk with the guy first and ….sorry not the context of how I wont to word this. = I wont . need to feel the guy and spend time getting to know him before I touch or do any thing with him , if he would be willing to . ...noeleena...
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