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Is it wrong or offensive

June 18 2012

Ok so we are perves - I will often wander through the garden of profiles on RHP and pick a profile admire it for a while , show Sarah - admire it - we will chat about really nice pics etc then send a message. We simply often send a message saying "hey they are great pics" or "a great profile" or "thats super sexy ......." "nice arse" We really arent looking to score simply admiring (actually we are on a "fucking" sabbatical at the mo) - what amazes us is the amount of people who reply with "sorry but I dont think we click" or nothing at all....... nothing really we just told you how great you look ....nothing to say about that ? .Do you would you reply to a message like that ? A simple "thanks" or "tar" or even just a ?.Have we all lost all our manners ? Should we just accept it's a "fuck or pass" world ? .Brae .........

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RHP User

14 years ago

If I receive a complimentary message I always say "Thank you for the compliment"Nothing wrong with manners.

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RHP User

14 years ago

A message will always get a response. It's the flirts that say "I just wanted to say i love your profile" (or whatever it says) and there's no flirt response that makes sense to send back!A simple "Thanks for the flirt" would be great.I actually messaged back a gorgeous WA guy who sent me that flirt, because I wanted to than him for the compliment and let him know the only reason he wasn't suitable was all those crazy km's between here and there!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Yes, manners seem to have almost vanished from our world these days. So it seems does the ability to read, and by that, I mean, read every word. Either on a profile one looks at, or in the message received. Yes there are those among us who are blessed with receiving so many messages each day that they could not possibly reply to all, unless they quit their jobs. Pity I am not one of them tho.Op, don't let those who suffer from manneritis, ruin your fun tho. Keep on perving, I say, and by all means, message if the moment calls for it.

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RHP User

14 years ago

always return a message....even the grunting on the page messages....being polite costs nothing but a little timexHugs H

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erotictouch4u

14 years ago

I agree ladies...when a message or flirt comes my way about my profile I will always reply with a "Thanks" and if they have enough to spark my interest or curiousity then an accomanying "anything special of interest I can help you with?" ET xox

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RHP User

14 years ago

i do have a problem responding to friend request however, i'm not a friend collector and find it weird to befriend someone i haven't met, or at least spoken to... anyhowi'm a huge fan of manners and find little time is required to respond to a message or a flirt, so yeah, i find it a bit rude to not receive a response... how hard is it, have people become that desensitized to not show some any common courtesy, especially when a compliment has been given. back in the day people use to flash their headlights for one, to warn the oncoming traffic of the cop's ahead... you don't see a lot of these days either... i made eye contact with someone in the street one day and said " G'day mate, how you going"he replied with " do i know you"....... so yeah, maybe it's a changing of the guard, or an example of the times.

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QLDtwo4fun

14 years ago

Happy to respond to compliments, but we are less inclined to respond to meeting requests from single guys who haven't read our profile.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'll generally try to make a point of sending a thankyou note, but if it's a two word, no capitals, no punctuation effort along the lines of 'nice bits' it will really depend on how cheery I'm feeling. That being said though, if someone actually opened with 'nice bits' I'd probably laugh and say hello.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Recently received 2 personal messages from fellow forum members thanking me for comments I made on here... thought that was nice... Jay...

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RHP User

14 years ago

To respond to all messages, but we get so many. Sometimes we take a little while to make up our minds as to whether we want further contact from those who've flirted us. A message that's brief and just a comment on our profile will usually be met with an equally brief thanks...

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RHP User

14 years ago

I will always reply with good manners to a flirt or message. And it would be good to use custom flirts that you make yourself for those you can't afford to pay for paid membership at the point in time.I will always say thanks for replying if they are not interested and they acknowledge that. It does not take long to say no to someone.I always put my heart into what I write in a message, and would if I could on here.

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RHP User

14 years ago

If I am interested I will make further enquiries.I sometimes add that I am not suited to them (if it's a couple) as I don't play alone with couple's but still thank them for the compliment :)Cass xxx

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RHP User

14 years ago

@ looking2try3I couldn't agree more , its not hard to show a little respect and manners....we are all on here in the pursuit of fun and not all profiles/pics will appeal to ones tastes. But to be flat out ignored is unnecessary Doug xx

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