M29
Is it normal?
March 16 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Everyone is different mate. What floats your boat is certainly not going to float others. While I do enjoy getting sucked I can't say I have ever been sucked really well so I mostly find after a while I initiate a change of activities. Like you I get great satisfaction of pleasing my partner. If I was honest, it's probably an ego thing that I can make a girl cum.
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RHP User
9 years ago
just haven't been with the right chick 😉 Enjoying giving is fantastic but if you haven't experienced being fully appreciated down there, you deserve that, it's about mutual pleasure in my book 😊
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Yes you are normal. Everyone has different likes and dislikes, you are certainly not the first and only man who is a little 'meh' about receiving oral. Don't worry about it (but NEVER put on your profile you love licking pussy for hours 😉).
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RHP User
9 years ago
Probably being on rhp means you are abnormal as quite a few of us forumites are a bit strange. Would you believe there are even women who can take or leave pussy licking, even if it goes on for hours. So good luck with you normality, abhorance of blow jobs, and advertising.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A lot of guys aren't huge fans of receiving oral. Nothing wrong with that. I'm not a big fan of receiving oral and given the pervasive idea that all women are supposed to love it and have earth shattering orgasms from it, I could easily feel like I'm abnormal. I'm not though, it's just how I'm wired. Definitely agree with MsJonesy though... leave the pussy licking bragging out of the profile, seriously it just makes most of us roll our eyes big time
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have no aspirations whatsoever to be "normal". However I agree with you, recieving is "meh" giving is much more fun, especially the wet wriggling spastic part, I love making that happen.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8' Probably being on rhp means you are abnormal as quite a few of us forumites are a bit strange. I'm perfectly normal....just not what's considered normal on planet earth
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RHP User
9 years ago
By someone that knows what they are doing or by someone thinks they know what they are doing - I know what I prefer 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Cause your here, in the sandpit of the hotel California. Ignore your bragging friends. If they think blow jobs are the bees knees, they have it all wrong. They just haven't met the right pussy. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whilst I don't mind receiving it more for the visual stimulation of seeing it, then pure pleasure. I love giving oral though. Tongue may fall off after hours though, but am willing to risk my mouth for science to find out one way or the other. Of course to be a true result you have to replicate the study over and over .... and over 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
NORMAL is a setting on a washing machine.😜
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madotara69
9 years ago
Chances are...things may change Unless you get some idea in your head that it's normal not to enjoy it so much, then you may be giving too the one who so so much would enjoy giving you a mind blowing blowjob, a negative vibe and miss out all together... Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
God, that was like a light bulb moment reading your comment. Some guys I'm with aren't accustomed to letting themselves go, allowing themselves to indulge and freely enjoy it, without guilt, I don't think they've encountered that kind of focus and 'love' down there before, and being given the green light to dominate as it builds, I have to sometimes get it into their big head lol that I want it, I can't get enough of it, it's not a sacrifice, it gets me off, I WANT it and NEED it to be fulfilled. Once they get that and move into it, into me and see what it does for me, only then do they really let themselves enjoy guilt free pleasure, I don't have words for the difference and guys who have never come from oral, yeah they do with me, role play is a big part though, allowing them to let go fully, the brain does the rest. But a great encounter for me is both getting off getting the other off, both highly aroused seeing the other being so turned on, it builds and each goes all out to please. That can't happen if one person doesn't release/relax properly. Shit, I'll pop my load the way I'm going here, building up a little too much momentum in my bed here 😀 Pleasuring women with that kind of focus is perfect, but don't feel guilty about being on the receiving end, unfortunately, many women just go through the motions, you'll eventually find a few gems and the difference will blow you away, literally 😉 re the bragging thing, believe it, don't believe it, it's either true or it's not, sometimes enhanced, sometimes complete bs, sometimes true, so take it with a grain of salt 😃 sorry in advance for the book 😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is not so much that I don't like blow jobs, it is that I don't get what all the fuss is about. How I would rate lying on my back getting my knob polished is not even in the same hemisphere as, what seems like, every other male appears to rate the experience. I was under the impression that it was just me. For a moment I felt almost normal. Then of course, as I read my way down the thread, i was reminded of where I am and started feeling familiar again. I guess that is my normal. As it has been referred to previously, I am pretty sure you are more than normal in this crowd. I have always felt a little left out when just lying there getting head. Maybe when i have idle hands i get distracted and it takes away from the experience. I do find i enjoy it a whole lot more when it is combined with active participation on my part. There is one other factor to consider, and that is it could be a spin off from some phallic process of centuries past. It may just be that it is all chest puffing and competing and the ones professing it to be the best thing ever do not actually rate it that much either. I can definitely see this concept in there at some level.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has been a great read especially @I_touch_myself2 for that lovely and invigorating read. I do feel a lot better now :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' God, that was like a light bulb moment reading your comment. Some guys I'm with aren't accustomed to letting themselves go, allowing themselves to indulge and freely enjoy it, without guilt, I don't think they've encountered that kind of focus and 'love' down there before, and being given the green light to dominate as it builds, I have to sometimes get it into their big head lol that I want it, I can't get enough of it, it's not a sacrifice, it gets me off, I WANT it and NEED it to be fulfilled. Once they get that and move into it, into me and see what it does for me, only then do they really let themselves enjoy guilt free pleasure, I don't have words for the difference and guys who have never come from oral, yeah they do with me, role play is a big part though, allowing them to let go fully, the brain does the rest. But a great encounter for me is both getting off getting the other off, both highly aroused seeing the other being so turned on, it builds and each goes all out to please. That can't happen if one person doesn't release/relax properly.*Shit, I'll pop my load the way I'm going here, building up a little too much momentum in my bed here 😀 Pleasuring women with that kind of focus is perfect, but don't feel guilty about being on the receiving end, unfortunately, many women just go through the motions, you'll eventually find a few gems and the difference will blow you away, literally 😉 re the bragging thing, believe it, don't believe it, it's either true or it's not, sometimes enhanced, sometimes complete bs, sometimes true, so take it with a grain of salt 😃 sorry in advance for the book 😯 * Oh, I think you have the words for the differance, lol 'Girls Just Want to Have Fun' You've got spirit Itm2,
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
Quoting 'timefortea' Everyone is different mate. What floats your boat is certainly not going to float others. While I do enjoy getting sucked I can't say I have ever been sucked really well so I mostly find after a while I initiate a change of activities. Like you I get great satisfaction of pleasing my partner. If I was honest, it's probably an ego thing that I can make a girl cum. I guess reading through the comments you got the message we are all different and enjoy different things, some more than others. Agree with "time for tea" I think the satisfaction and to some extent the ego boost is more of a kick then receiving oral. The moans, wriggling of the pelvis, thrusting of the pubic bones in the face and and and.................. But I do enjoy partner sliding the tongue up and down and giving a good blow job.My balls are sensitive and do not enjoy ball play during the blow job. I guess its makes me different in other ways.
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' God, that was like a light bulb moment reading your comment. Some guys I'm with aren't accustomed to letting themselves go, allowing themselves to indulge and freely enjoy it, without guilt, I don't think they've encountered that kind of focus and 'love' down there before, and being given the green light to dominate as it builds, I have to sometimes get it into their big head lol that I want it, I can't get enough of it,............................, sometimes true, so take it with a grain of salt 😃 sorry in advance for the book 😯 Itm2 love reading your comments and don't feel sorry for the book. If someone collated all your comments they could release a bestseller. Lets think of a suitable name.... "Diaries of ..."
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