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  emmy128

  6 years ago

  As a single female I must agree the facial pic is as important as the connection from text/dialogue exchange, but this unique circumstance like RHP most people are not willing to share face pics straight up. I don’t play with couples but as I have attend as a single/solo female to some bdsm fetish club. I would suggest this as a starting point, I have met respectful people who are willing to answer questions and curiousity, and guide you in a non judgemental environment. I have found some of the nightclubs that RHP host could be an initial starting point. I wouldn’t go straight to a swingers event but perhaps go to a meet and greet, the majority of people are generally not in our age bracket but you will find it’s all ages of curiosity and experience so don’t let that change your mind. Like you have stated here in this forum “express your curiosity eagerness to explore” and you will find majority of people are friendly, very approachable it’s all about respect. all scenes are strict on this rule to ensure at any stage IF you do not feel safe or pressured you can tell someone this and things will be actioned. Age is a number if I’m completely honest, I have had incredible connections with 42 yos so chat and get to know someone, that’s where it all starts ..

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  FlirtParties

  6 years ago

  You can't beat meeting at a social event or a swingers party that allows you to come along just to chat. Our social events get 60-100+ people (some are fir couples only) here in Melbourne and we know there are other hosts in Brisbane that do the same. We hope to see you at one of our events.

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  FredAndGinger2

  6 years ago

  Regarding swingers parties- if you don't want to meet lots of single guys then you should steer clear of "players" parties or those that allow lots of single because those can easily become a very high ratio of dudes to women.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  FlirtParties meet and greets are great. Online is frustrating. You never know who is real. Xanthea is sick of the online games and time wasters. Find what works for you.

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  teamaj2

  6 years ago

  DNO K Welcome to RHP and the world of swing . It’s a great ride and it’s your very own . You get to write the rule book and orchestrate your journey any way you see fit . Each and every one of us was at one time new to all this . Our advice on wanting face pictures and understandably so is to once making contact send your face pics and ask for theirs in return . You can have your face pics in a private gallery and allow access . If you don’t want to proceed with chat or they don’t return their face pics you can simply deny access to the Private gallery . They then can no longer access them. We totally agree face pictures are essential . You want to embark on a intimate encounter and attraction is paramount . Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise . We always ask for face pictures right away . As new members we made the mistake of embarking on chats then after awhile saw face pictures and it was hard to say no thanks . A lot of lovely people on here but not all of whom are what you are looking for . RHP requires patience to find the right fit for you both . No one can advise you if a single is better than a couple to begin with, that’s your personal choice . You ask about parties and events . It’s a great way to meet people . You can always start with a meet and greet. RHP has the event page and most organisers of events are happy to give you information about the event . You could attend New Years Eve Saints and Sinners . It’s a smaller event than the ones during the year . It will certainly give you a feel for the swinging scene . Good luck and have fun . Ax PS apologies for long reply

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Hi Ladys ,Im 30 years old and im not sure if i want to commit im in a relationship but i think i still want to enjoy myself what shall i do .do i need to experiment ,im looking at older women than myself and cant take my eyes off them and i feel they are doing the same to me thats why ive joined this website . I need to know if this website is worth it before i do anything

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  We too have experienced the same frustrations. Even when you meet couples sometimes the pics are a misrepresentation or you just don't connect. We now only meet couples exclusively at parties. It is very rare that we would meet a couple off rhp. Both my partner and I are very picky, him moreso than me even so it is very difficult to get a 4 way match. We have been to parties where we don't match with anyone but we have also been to parties and met people we normally wouldn't match with looks wise but they won is over with amazing outgoing personalities. Parties are the best option if you are willing to put yourself out there. Good luck and have fun!

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Quoting 'bigdickcuming12' Hi Ladys ,Im 30 years old and im not sure if i want to commit im in a relationship but i think i still want to enjoy myself what shall i do .do i need to experiment ,im looking at older women than myself and cant take my eyes off them and i feel they are doing the same to me thats why ive joined this website . I need to know if this website is worth it before i do anything Talk about being off topic.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Had an interesting interaction with a couple (possibly just a single male) from here last night. Their profile only had ONE private pic, which after I messaged them they gave us access to. We exchanged kik details and started off asking the basics, as I usually do. I then asked if they wanted to exchange pics, again a standard question I ask most people we speak to on here just so we can get an idea of their appearance and if there’s an immediate attraction. However I got a pretty heated response basically saying that they had shared their PG, which has a grand total of ONE pic in it, and we didn’t give them access to ours. Keep in mind, our profile has FIVE public photos all with our faces clearly shown. I was then told that I was “rude” and a “charmer”. I nearly fell off the couch with laughter. Why are so many people reluctant and/or make it extremely difficult when exchanging pics? What are some people afraid of?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Because there is a whole heap of no lifers out there who’s only goal is to get pics off people and then disappear into the darkness for a wank. So unfortunately your probably being lumped in with them. Be wary of couple profiles with no pics of both together, if in doubt do a reverse pic search.

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