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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I got married at a very young age. He was a workaholic (not an excuse for me at all just a statement) I got bored to easily went looking elsewhere for what I thought I wasnt getting at home. Did this quite regularly for about 3 years out of the 5 we were married for. As he was constantly at work and most of that was at night I would either go out and pick up randoms or have sex with some of his employees (he was a store manager) not right I know he didnt deserve it but cant change what I have done. Oh by young he was 19 I was 20 and yes even at that age he had an amazing work ethic! Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we have both been married before and as best we can tell (nothing for certain) we were both cheated on.In my case i think it was because the marriage was already dead because our sex life was great and in fact even when he was out elsewhere i was still being looked after at home.But what it did do was to make the communication for Mr GC & I all the better we talked about an open relationship very early in our dating life and we decided that it was all ok as long as there was no lies or secrets about it which is why the swingers style is for us. (this is not a judgment on others however)It is sad when people feel they need to cheat and i feel for both parties (the cheated and the cheater) because things are obviously very wrong at home, but i have seen couples who get through it and are all the stronger for it so horses for courses i guess.Mrs GC

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I was with this particular partner for 5 years - Yes! I know! I was young!Anyways our relationship was getting to the point where I was holding on for the sake of not hurting him. We were in a very static spot, where we weren't entirely sure if we were moving forward or not. And I was over the physical abuse, the fines, court fees and overall debt he was costing me. Anyway it was my good friends 21st and I really just wanted to have a night of it and let my hair down. Later that night I'd made the decision that I was going to be with another guy. So I did and it ended up being the messy downfall of us, but I did find out he was consistently cheating on me over the years - even with my "friends". So my infidelity set me free. Ha!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm not going to make excuses for what I did. But it doesn't mean I'll do it again or that I'm a bad person :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Well looks like there ain't too many goers around here:)))

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Cheated on my second husband. NEVER cheated in any past relationship. Don't know why I decided to this time because he certainly didn't deserve it. But I will say it was fantastic.... and I haven't looked back! Sweet

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