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I messed up.

February 24 2020

The other day I was coming back from a client meeting. I parked the car and noticed we had received a message from a couple. As I'm walking to the office I read their message and by the time I get into the elevator (alone) I'm checking out their pictures. As I flick onto an image of the woman, in a very nice bikini, a colleague gets onto the elevator. I'm not even thinking and look up to say hi to her as I greet the new person she is with. As I'm talking I realise I hadn't locked my phone. As I realise this I notice my colleague's eyes flash down at my phone screen for a second. She obviously saw the pic of a woman in a bikini in what appears to be a dating profile. I know she saw. She knows I know that she saw. Now she thinks I'm a dirty cheater and there's really no way to fix this. At least my partner and I had a good laugh. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MrKentia

6 years ago

It happens all the time if you look at what other people do on their screens (I'm quite observant - and quite curious!). People spend all their time on instagram, tinder, bumble social etc etc. Not sure she's even remember it by now! Be mindful of any kik message you open at work, it can be a naughty pic! It happened to me several time and it gave me an adrenaline rush every time ahahah !

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boxestotick

6 years ago

Just tell the woman that you wife sent it to you asking if it’s the “lady that lives down the road.” A work colleague sent it to her.

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curiousgirl35

6 years ago

😂😂😂 you could always accidentally leave you profile open next time

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MsSuperFoxy

6 years ago

You are dirty cheater? If not just shug it off. There's a lively pick of a cock in a hotdog roll and one on a dinner plate on lettuce leaves, floating around this site. You could always offer her lunch. 😇😈😝😜 Ms Foxy

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RHP User

6 years ago

How do you actually know she thinks you’re dirty cheater? Even if she actually said something, why do you even care about someone else’s opinion when your private life needs no one else’s consent or blessing other than the two or more consenting adults that it affects?? Mr Dragon

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MsSuperFoxy

6 years ago

Ms Foxy

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Sawadee

6 years ago

That only focus'es unwanted attention back on it. The more you try and explain yourself ' the deeper the hole you dig and you may as well have a neon sign on your forehead flashing ' liar ' liar ' ... Don't worry or mention it again and it will just fade away...

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boobsandbusted

6 years ago

People often think the worst of things and think people are far more interested and care about the goings on in other people’s life’s ,fact is she prolly isn’t and just shook her head on the inside , and even if she is ,she can’t do any real harm if your wife knows what’s up and can fix it all up if she does get involved , and says she knows about the other women it’s her Friend and she is just getting in the dating game and you were just haveing a giggle at her profile and Wishing her luck , problem solved , if it goes around the office or whereever ask the women to speak to your wife ,so your wife can clear it up ,easy peasy Mr b

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RHP User

6 years ago

Turn it up to 11. Confirm her suspicion (yes, im having an affair with a woman) Then ramp that up to the ridiculous (I have a goal to have an affair each month to break my personal best of 11 and then my husband gives me a gang bang prize for being a bad baaaaaaad girl) She wont ask again 😂

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nightingale8

6 years ago

Similar thing happened when a mutual friend (male) was looking at pictures on my partner’s phone with the both of us there. My partner received a bikini pic that previewed on his phone just as the friend was looking. Apparently he said something like, “nice bikini” before handing back the phone, no discussion. I found this out later. I suppose he didn’t want to be involved in the fall out 😂

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BungCpl

6 years ago

I worked in an office a few years back where one lady found out someone in a regional office was in an open relationship, the conversations I (and many others) heard in the kitchen for the next few weeks were very judgemental to say the least. Most people wanted to ignore the info and give the person in question the respect they deserve, but some were just toxic critics, gossiping like 50+ year old immature school kids. Probably one of the biggest reasons I wouldn’t want people I work with knowing about our lifestyle choices....

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RHP User

6 years ago

Getting unsolicited cock pics on kik and opening at the lunch table on a construction site. Word gets around quick in a lunch shed with a 100 + guys

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RHP User

6 years ago

Obviously she was just showing you how small her husbands dick was.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Of course.... And all the muscle heads in the lunch shed believed it...

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RHP User

6 years ago

Bloody hell Envoy. Lunchtime banter on construction sites is a dangerous occupation in itself! I can only imagine, lucky the scaffolders aren’t the brightest. Mr PF.

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fitcouple_75

6 years ago

it must be confronting for others but I am sure they will get used to it I wish I could discuss with others at work. Slowly but surely.

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