M52
I have No clue
September 21 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wasn't there....and it could've just been a drunk moment occurrence..... Only you and her would know her body language and conversation - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
You are 43 yo. Would have thought you would know the body language by now. It's the skill set a young adult is getting familiar with. Still never too late to learn shit. But this is a skill set that you learn from first hand experience, not something someone can sit down and tell you. You would learn most from the embarrassing moments when you get it badly wrong........
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RHP User
8 years ago
The 40years old virgin movie was based on me... Lol... Plus after getting married kinda ended here for me..and like always I just like to read all the different interpretations and suggestions off ppl. It's not about me... It's all about U ...SHINE LIKE A 🌟 I feed on this ...so plz feed the poor lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In a nutshell eye contact is what will tell you if another person is interested. Thats as much advice as Ive got for you, now here comes the brutal part.. Women going about their day in parks and cafes, shops etc are probably walking around with a ton of things on their mind (friends, kids, what to do for dinner, drama at work etc etc) and when in those public places are probably either there with a purpose, to exercise, meet a friend and so on, or to chill. For a guy to catch her eye enough to hold her interest he'd have to be pretty remarkable in some way. So OP, ask yourself, why would a woman out and about with her own agenda suddenly be interested in you? The question becomes not how will I know if someone is interested in me but why would someone be interested in me? What do I have that a stranger in a park would suddenly take notice of me over the other men there? It might not be that you're missing the signs but more that there are none there to read.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I guess but then I didn't put a gun to another head to post a answer... Ppl can roll their eyes and close its eyes... Why pop need to take everything to the letter.. I've seen some nice ppl here and lots of Keyboard warriors as somehow put it nicely... And Sharon'sky... Ur half right... I've heard tons of ppl who met the weirdest way... Just putting those ideas out there... It's internet... Anything can be said and asked.... We all lie and we all can ask anything and again... Yes I amuse myself by seeing who can answer without becoming ass... I agree I got none to offer...dont take everything I say so personal... Chill a bit pls - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm sure there's not enough girls here for the number of guys here.. Some are thinking what ate they doing wrong... Here and out of here.. Some are blaming them for not answering ..some are rude as I heard ... Isn't it good ladies put it out here and say "Guys u need to blablabla" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I assure you I take nothing you say personally.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry misspelled... Someone got me bit boiling and thoughs bit out there - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is that while there are generic signs, everyone has their own way of displaying interest... So what this means, is that unless you know how they act around the opposite sex platonically, you'll always be able to have a huge range of interpretations... Eye contact for example can be just they're an attentive listener like me.... Obviously though the combination of many different signs are a good guess....but there's no real fool proof method apart from a verbal confirmation.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
While I agree with you my point about eye contact was not related to conversation but rather across the room type eye contact.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It depends WHERE you are..... but in general terms... if she's talking to you, and she's looking at you, and she otherwise doesnt know you..... she's interested. Interested to talk.... at least. Only you can observe if her behaviour and attitude towards you is a signal. Unless..... you assume everything is a signal, and test the waters. You'll get an answer ever time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hadn't actually read your post until reading your reply.... But I think I may have inadvertently absorbed the eye contact from your opening sentence without being conscious of why I picked that as an example.... But after reading it I agree with that too... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Most women if they are being "hit on" (I'll most probably get flamed for this, but it's true) will just ignore the guy. I get women who love to chat, but nothing more. MY BIGGEST mistake is that although I am polite(this is mistaken for me flirting and as a direct FLIRT) if a woman asks me about something, I cannot stop talking (usually coz I am shocked that I was spoken too). What I have learn't to help me : 1. Keep your answer short, and try and change the discussion to her. Ask her about , "her". Things like what do you do? > Show her your interested in her, but in a polite way. 2. SHUT the HELL UP and let her answer. (most guys BORE the shit out of a woman), she'll either answer your question or fire a NEW question at you. 3. Don't try and avoid a direct question, answer it politely and honestly. - If she asks are you hitting on me, answer it with yes, you saw her come in and you decided to say hi, so that you could talk to her. (Most guys get either arrogant or SHY) But by trying to be honest, she may initially try and cut you off, but usually will at least say "hi" IF/when she see;s you again. It takes time to build - Dont expect a miracle instantly 4. The worst thing you can do is try and bullshit, she will usually sense your awkwardness, and that will put her on the wrong foot. Just be yourself, most relationships happen when you least expect them, and that is because :YOU are just being yourself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
let them know fairly quickly, noy much left to guess work with me. Had a guy stop and talk to me at the beach the other day, works there so assume he would have seen me before. To illustrate the difference between a generic chat and interest in more, a quick chat would be a bit cool/cold and turning or moving on, not making any attempt to hover and nothing personal in the conversation. So because I was VERY interested in him, hottest thing on 2 legs omg I was drooling lol but my body language was very warm and the convo was warm and open, trust me I wasn't going anywhere, and that would have been obvious. Hoping to see him again 😜 Maybe I will, maybe I won't but I appreciated those few minutes I had with him. Usually I will just come out and tell them what I want, or sound them out to see if they're thinking the same, you only live once, but I wasn't sure with him, whether he was just being friendly or not. If you're reading this and recognise me, yes yes omg weak at the knees is an understatement 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
You are so funny...love it...to me u are a hot chick who talks like (I say this with all respect) one of the guys and the guys u meet are the chicks... Not sure I'm making sense in words... But in my head does make total sense lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes, I am like a guy, I often say that myself. Totally understand what you mean 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP, you'll find plenty of married guys who may not recognize the signs if her advances are in small steps. You weren't looking for it, she may have been but was trying to sound you out without going over the top in case you weren't interested. So you didn't pick up on it. But don't worry, now that you think you might have missed the signs, you'll be looking for them and respond accordingly. If she's really interested in you, you'll find out.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cool TX for the advice... I am a married man but never know if ever need this knowledge - Posted from rhpmobile
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