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How would you deal with this?
August 27 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
he had no sex for a long time and a women is just soo delicious and when he started he didnt know how to stop.Best think make him calm down after and try again.lolOr did HE go?
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RHP User
12 years ago
...things like this happen that's why I always take the tool box. and I don't "make" him do more work as 10/10 times he wants too. I would never get up and leave..Fook Dat. Much more fun too have until he recovers. Just Sayin
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RHP User
12 years ago
He didn't seem eager to want to do more work...and there wasn't really time for recovery ...so I got myself off with a vibe (which I brought in my purse just in case hehe) ....and then I left...frustrated...I think it was just a bad situation...lesson learnt though... :D- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun :) From what I'm reading I'm not getting any compassion from you for the poor Guy and his embarrassing situation.. If he's a Fuck n Run kind then there's no need He won't be there long enough to care.. But if he's a Guy who was into the act of sex with you and he came. Look at it as the warm up nothing more..You don't make him work as you Put it .. You let him know it's cool, Now you can get down to the serious Fun share Pleasuring with him. Allow him to taste all of your Body as you will him etc. take your time enjoy Frankly I'm not sure you would return the pleasuring ,because from where I stand you seem to be a very self absorbed Lover. It's all about, You not sharing Mutual Pleasure.. It maybe your choice of words If not then an Attitude change wouldn't go astray, so everyone gets to enjoy a very Pleasurable Past time.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
So he Cums quickly . Take it as a Compliment . You Turn him On . If this was the first time you guys got together , he may have been nervous . Judging by what you've written and the options you've suggested , I get the feeling you're pissed off with him . I think Women , being such complex Sexual Creatures , should take a part of the responsibility for their own Orgasms (uh oh , where's the lynch mob ?). Note : I said "a part" not All . If you're lying there like a StarFish and expecting him to make you Cum , well ... It's never gonna be good . All that being said , if he Cums in 5 minutes and then goes to sleep , without having any concern for your Pleasure , you should get up and leave . But finish yourself off first because you don't want to step out in the street with all that unexpended Sexual Tension . And if you're a Squirter , make sure you leave a nice big wet patch on his bed , soaked through to the mattress , so when he wakes up he will be able to think about what he did wrong ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Inspirit, couldn't of said it better myself.. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you guys free on sat night ? Hp xo 💌 I'm just here to get an early night...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
(Extra info: the guy is old enough to know how to stop himself from cumming) ?? you would think but............ Its a shame isnt it...its what we keep saying men and their itchs...can be scratched in a few minutes or hours.....Such a delima especially if you are willing to go the hotel room.....waste of a night and some amazing comapny fun and when you get the chance to spend time with another person all the things that go along with play ( massage/ baths even conversation) As inspirit says never travel without toys.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I usually ask if there will be a Round Two...or three or four. Mostly, its yes and that problem soon disappears...lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dr xknots with his bag of tricks at your service dear..... what a waste especially if there's a couple of bottles still on the table......
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is a experiment conducted on couples over a 6 nth period. The average time for a man to come during intercourse is 5.4 minutes!! Shortest time 40 seconds.... Longest time 40 minutes. http://www.realmen101.com/2010/06/study-what-is-the-average-lasting-time-for-men/
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madotara69
12 years ago
I can easily cum in a few minutes, when it is hot it is hot, but I like to come a few times when it is hot. So does Tara, fair is fair.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You shouldn't have to ask. He should know and be the one asking you. I know some women feel self concious or don't see the point in oral after sex. But if its 5 mins of a premature let down - the guy should know his job isn't done yet. Imo- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
5 mins.. lol really???- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If he cums within 5 mins and I am still horny then I make them play with me until I cum. I have had the situation where they huff at the thought and I just look at them in disgust and say to myself "Next".
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have beaten BOTH those records
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RHP User
12 years ago
if a man cums or not or if I cum or not.IMOE..It's not a competition who cums first/last or how long it takes.I would be highly offended if a guy timed me.Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well usually I like a woman to cum first, but if she was doing something that made me cum very quickly, I would probably take up the challenge. Try to make her cum (hopefully more than once) quickly or in quick succession. To roll over and just stop is ridiculously lazy. That or he just isn't that into you and has no regard for you whatsoever.You shouldn't be having to make him do anything, he should be leaping at the opportunity to give you pleasure, so if you feel you have to make him, I would say....NEXT!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its a bloody curse.I cant help myself when some guys give me oral, its really pathetic, sometimes I cum when I hear the door bell and its one of my hot regular lovers.I guess they make me wired for sound.I know a very hot guy from here and he came so quickly with a girlfriend, she came back to my place and said WTF happened?He manned up, and he then called her and said sorry got caught up in the moment, do you mind if we do it again?Because of this he is doing it again, with her, with me with about four of our friends, so guys if you fuck up then make up for it.You cant help it if you cum quickly, I know as i am a bit of a one pot screamer myself at times.what you can do, is just say , I blew it this time can we have another shot at it.over time things improve and you learn ways to help a guy not cumits called edging ladies, keep them on the edge of pleasure and get them to tell you when its getting to much, then you stop what your doing and lay back a bit till the cock goes down then you tickle it up again and repeat the process.in the mean while, toys are your friendIf a guy is not bothered by a vibrator bring one alone, I always have a little one in my purse.You als cannot help the blow and go guys, you cant spot them till its to0 late and they are zipped up and low running out the front door.Its the nature of random sexual encounters, no matter how much you vet a person, you never know till you are there in the mix.Happy trails..LadyT the ten second wonder
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RHP User
12 years ago
In a male being able to stop himself from cumming??? My understanding is its not age, but experience..... If you've experienced this, and you're pissed off, don't invite him back....no amount of whinging and bitching is going to either change it, or help him for that matter. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
the first time with him I wouldn't neccesarily expect a marathon session.Nerves, excitement, maybe months since he last had sex could all play a factor.If I'm turned on enough and the foreplay is good I'll cum as soon as 's' slides into me. Maybe the problem isn't men not taking long enough, perhaps it is women taking too long ;)As for me, I would start playing with myself and entice him to 'get down there 'ahaha.Once I'm getting close and he is getting hard again it would be straight into it for round 2.I think if you get up and leave you haven't really given it a fair go (unless he is just keen to disappear - but then again he could be embarassed).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Hun :) From what I'm reading I'm not getting any compassion from you for the poor Guy and his embarrassing situation.. If he's a Fuck n Run kind then there's no need He won't be there long enough to care.. But if he's a Guy who was into the act of sex with you and he came. Look at it as the warm up nothing more..You don't make him work as you Put it .. You let him know it's cool, Now you can get down to the serious Fun share Pleasuring with him. Allow him to taste all of your Body as you will him etc. take your time enjoy Frankly I'm not sure you would return the pleasuring ,because from where I stand you seem to be a very self absorbed Lover. It's all about, You not sharing Mutual Pleasure.. It maybe your choice of words If not then an Attitude change wouldn't go astray, so everyone gets to enjoy a very Pleasurable Past time.. Cheers Lu :) Wow, thanks Lu for your insight! :)I probably did choose all the wrong words as I wrote it in the heat of the moment so it probably does make me sound like a non-compassionate person. It was my first time with this person and I haven't done anything like this before (not that you would know) so perhaps next time take it a bit more easy on me...I am learning as I go and yes I was frustrated with what happened but I probably would have been fine if he had made an effort towards me afterwards but alas I was left suggesting that I use my vibe so I could at least have an orgasm...that is the part that mostly frustrated me...Anyways I have taken your points on board and understand that it takes two to tango and perhaps next time I will choose more wisely as I can definitely be passionate with the right person and perhaps we just weren't that into each other in the first place...xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'slickz' You shouldn't have to ask. He should know and be the one asking you. I know some women feel self concious or don't see the point in oral after sex. But if its 5 mins of a premature let down - the guy should know his job isn't done yet. Imo- Posted from rhpmobile Yes...exactly! :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' So he Cums quickly . Take it as a Compliment . You Turn him On . If this was the first time you guys got together , he may have been nervous . Judging by what you've written and the options you've suggested , I get the feeling you're pissed off with him . I think Women , being such complex Sexual Creatures , should take a part of the responsibility for their own Orgasms (uh oh , where's the lynch mob ?). Note : I said "a part" not All . If you're lying there like a StarFish and expecting him to make you Cum , well ... It's never gonna be good . All that being said , if he Cums in 5 minutes and then goes to sleep , without having any concern for your Pleasure , you should get up and leave . But finish yourself off first because you don't want to step out in the street with all that unexpended Sexual Tension . And if you're a Squirter , make sure you leave a nice big wet patch on his bed , soaked through to the mattress , so when he wakes up he will be able to think about what he did wrong ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile Yes, I was pissed off...and yes I was trying to cum... he was on top of me and I was rubbing my clit moving with him...and then suddenly it's all over... :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
doing the happy dance around the bed - 5 minutes, personal best :D Seriously, you could always take it as a compliment, you turned him on so much he couldn't control himself. Mooka
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' In a male being able to stop himself from cumming??? My understanding is its not age, but experience..... If you've experienced this, and you're pissed off, don't invite him back....no amount of whinging and bitching is going to either change it, or help him for that matter. - Posted from rhpmobile I meant at his age you would think he would have enough experience to stop himself...I'm not bitching...I'm just trying to understand what happened and why it happened so I can learn from the situation (it being my first time doing something like this) and make it better next time :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' In a male being able to stop himself from cumming??? My understanding is its not age, but experience..... If you've experienced this, and you're pissed off, don't invite him back....no amount of whinging and bitching is going to either change it, or help him for that matter. - Posted from rhpmobile Errmmm unless they are a premature ejaculater a man can choose to slow things down a bit so that he doesn't come in 5 minutes. He can stop and attend to the woman a bit till he "calms" down. Hey Magrod........ there are tricks to slow a bloke down a bit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Chasing some bloke down the road brandishing your humongous strap on will slow down his orgasm... But if you don't catch him that orgasm will be lost... Hp xo 💌 Spelling ok meeka ? 😛
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a friend...... we no longer play, but when we did, she would climax within 2 or 3 minutes.... then, she was done.In her mind she had trained herself to come fast, and only once.... ...is that the same as the guy referred to by the authors topic?!hmmmmmDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MagRod' He didn't seem eager to want to do more work...and there wasn't really time for recovery ...so I got myself off with a vibe (which I brought in my purse just in case hehe) ....and then I left...frustrated...I think it was just a bad situation...lesson learnt though... :D- Posted from rhpmobile May of been lacking and as you stated earlier the first time you had done this. I imagine you felt a little used?....However at the end of the day communication is the key. MAYBE ti was his first time and maybe he had never used a toy on a girl before. In saying all that maybe he is just a selfish TWAT. Was he cheating on his wife/partner even. If so says it all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I have a friend...... we no longer play, but when we did, she would climax within 2 or 3 minutes.... then, she was done.In her mind she had trained herself to come fast, and only once.... ...is that the same as the guy referred to by the authors topic?!Yep! Same same. Although how do you train yourself to come only once?? I for one when I play my own fiddle usually stop at around 5 or 6 orgasms, one ever few minutes. Although I have learnt to draw it out a little now.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Put a cock ring on him next time! Or a zapper to zap his balls......... that will slow him down. Guaranteed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couldn't wait to come once, then she could shower and go to sleep... Hp xo 💌 Because she wasn't worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' May of been lacking and as you stated earlier the first time you had done this. I imagine you felt a little used?....However at the end of the day communication is the key. MAYBE ti was his first time and maybe he had never used a toy on a girl before. In saying all that maybe he is just a selfish TWAT. Was he cheating on his wife/partner even. If so says it all. how I felt...used and confused... :(I *think* he may have been in an on/off relationship...Thank you for understanding where I am coming from
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Put a cock ring on him next time! Or a zapper to zap his balls......... that will slow him down. Guaranteed HAHA Love it Meeka! Thanks for putting a smile on my dial!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gee should only take a few mins to be good to go, maybe get his fingers and tongue to do some work and keep you purring until he is good to go again? If he rolls over and goes to sleep get a new bloke? lmao good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
This did happen to me years ago but it was 12 minutes. She can then try to build him back up and at the same time he could play with her body and use toys that's if he is a man. Last of all he went out knowing he did not have sex for a long time so stop and see a hooker for a blow...LOL...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would just leave. This sounds harsh but I find a man cumming too quickly to be a huge turn off. When I have experienced something like that, the guy is usually "done" and doesn't even bother trying to do anything for me just cleans himself up and pats himself on the back. I end up waiting until I'm alone and finishing off manually. However, just from reading through the forums etc I'm starting to realise that this isn't a normal thing for a guy to do. It seems that most guys who cum quickly make sure their partner gets off too. If I had experienced this I would be a lot more forgiving when it come to guys cumming too quickly. God, I've never even been with someone who cums quickly then gets hard again soon after which is a fucking shame haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MagRod' Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Hun :) From what I'm reading I'm not getting any compassion from you for the poor Guy and his embarrassing situation.. If he's a Fuck n Run kind then there's no need He won't be there long enough to care.. But if he's a Guy who was into the act of sex with you and he came. Look at it as the warm up nothing more..You don't make him work as you Put it .. You let him know it's cool, Now you can get down to the serious Fun share Pleasuring with him. Allow him to taste all of your Body as you will him etc. take your time enjoy Frankly I'm not sure you would return the pleasuring ,because from where I stand you seem to be a very self absorbed Lover. It's all about, You not sharing Mutual Pleasure.. It maybe your choice of words If not then an Attitude change wouldn't go astray, so everyone gets to enjoy a very Pleasurable Past time.. Cheers Lu :) Wow, thanks Lu for your insight! :) I probably did choose all the wrong words as I wrote it in the heat of the moment so it probably does make me sound like a non-compassionate person. It was my first time with this person and I haven't done anything like this before (not that you would know) so perhaps next time take it a bit more easy on me... I am learning as I go and yes I was frustrated with what happened but I probably would have been fine if he had made an effort towards me afterwards but alas I was left suggesting that I use my vibe so I could at least have an orgasm...that is the part that mostly frustrated me... Anyways I have taken your points on board and understand that it takes two to tango and perhaps next time I will choose more wisely as I can definitely be passionate with the right person and perhaps we just weren't that into each other in the first place...xxx wow I don't know how I missed this when i first read the thread... Lu makes a good point about sharing the pleasure however I think it's super unfair to say that you're a self absorbed lover. To me it seems to be the total opposite... This guy fucked you, came and then left you high and dry (lol). Sharing pleasure means both parties experience some pleasure... Not just one. You're not self absorbed for wanting an orgasm when the guy has cum... You're the one who missed out here, not him and its a bit sad that he didn't help you out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me personally I love it best when she cums, so whether I cum first or not, I'm always going to keep going through some method until she's had her fun. At the start, mostly through foreplay I make sure she's either cum at least once or very close to it before I start worrying about whether I am going to orgasm or not. Sometimes if I get asked to cum for her excitement first, I'll happily oblige, but totally of the understanding that it's not finished when I'm done. I thought the whole point of all of this is that everyone involved has fun?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Go again for a second time ? How do you cum from penetration alone anyway? I can't cum from penetration alone and I also can't cum with 1 night stand guys or guys I don't know well
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I took the time to meet up with a guy for some fun and he fucked for all of 5 mins, came and then rolled off because it was all finished, I would be insulted and pissed. If he came and then kept touching, caressing, licking etc in an attempt to give me pleasure, that would be a different story....you have a right to feel used, because essentially by using you for just long enough to get what he wanted from the situation without reciprocating at all, thats exactly what he has done. Def cross him off the list.
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