How soon is too soon?

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one year ago

  I like to met within a week, on my RDO's. Anything longer, it lingers on like a boring novel that has no end. I get bored at that and then just let it fizz out. That's just me tho. Ms Foxy

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  Thesunlovingsub

  one year ago

  I’m the same as you, I like to have time to get to know people and build a bit of connection and sexy anticipation first, but I am definitely in the minority there and have to balance this against other people’s communication preferences. I genuinely enjoy the process of getting to know people in all parts of my life, so it doesn’t feel like a chore to me, and it helps me protect my precious travel time from being wasted on men I may not be compatible with. So for me maybe a month? That’ll usually be quite a bit of chat initially to establish if theres common ground, chill for a bit and stay in touch sporadically, and then in the days leading up to a date reconnect to plan the sexy adventures. I love the planning part.

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  seekandplay

  one year ago

  2 months is a massive stretch. I connected with someone and due to travel for both of us, shift work and life in general, it took nearly 4 weeks for our first meet. If it were 2 months, I’d start thinking perhaps it were a fake account. That said - if the connection is there and the conversation is flowing really nicely, I’d consider 2 months if lots of boxes were ticked. On a side note, and I truly respect everyone has their boundaries, I wouldn’t be writing to you for 2 months, or probably at all if I knew your wife was reading our messages. I absolutely could not be my true self knowing I was being picked apart. If I were talking to you both as a couple, obviously different but you as a solo, and your bio saying she reads everything, that wouldn’t work for some. I respect it… but would be challenged by it.

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  I bore really easily so usually only need a day or so of the "chit chat" to ascertain a match/interest and will invite you meet. Two months of chatting prior to a meeting would do my absolute head in and that person would fall off my radar real fast.

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  Ex007

  one year ago

  That would depend on the intention and the personalities of those involved. As an introvert I like to text and evolve to talking on the phone and then meet in person without expectation. Then see what happens after that.

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  Blueflamingo

  one year ago

  No real timeline for me. I've met with people I've chatted to for years, but never met. Then our paths crosses a few years later and bang! I have also had hook ups from chat within hours of connecting. I do question with some people... is it ever meant to be? If neither parties is chasing then I don't feel it is probably worth the effort. Better let the cat lie or wherever is it you say 😂

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  A day or two at best

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