How much contact do you have?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  What do you want ? You are in charge. If you want to be friends with your friends then seek those types out. Ditto with people who are essentially booty calls only. For me, I enjoy being intimate and personal with my friends, but that's what I seek... That's who I am... Who are you ? Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If we are 'friends with benefits' or even fuck buddies who are having sex with each other on a reasonably regular basis then I'd say weekly contact is a minimum. Sometimes it's multiple messages in a day but not like that every day. Everyone is different. If I don't hear from a lover once per week then I presume they're not terribly interested and that I'm 'just a root' to them. But that's for a one on one situation. With couples occasional but regular contact is good... Just checking in to see how everyone is ... Saw this and thought of you .... How's your week going??? Probably not daily unless leading up to a get together, not even weekly but a few times per month... Everyone is different and, at risk of sounding like an old fashioned sorta girl, I let others lead. Especially with couples... And men- let them do the chasing... 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Awesome, whilst i agree with letting couples lead, as a 40 yo woman who is in charge of her life surely you must at least meet your prospect 1/2 way down the road ? Don't you think that he might be thinking "gee I haven't heard from awesome for a while... I guess she's just not into me..." Surely you owe it to yourself to encourage the contacts that you want?.. Or are we essentially back to the "masochistic equilibrium thread" whereby we shoot ourselves in the foot by "not chasing" ? I believe that if we see something we like, then we owe it to ourselves to communicate that, to see if it is reciprocated... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The op was asking about people you're having sex with. If a woman has slept with a guy, she's interested unless she says that she's not. The ball lands in his court ... Especially on here where there seems to be so many men who have this 'thing' about women getting emotionally involved and/or clingy after sex... That said, lots of women love to chase, not me, though I do let the person know that I'm interested if I am.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Are men the ones scared ? No doubt some are. In my experience there are plenty of women who are on the run also... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I guess it kind of depends on both parties.. I have people i message a few times a week because there is a connection and is fun, some that only when there is a horny element involved and some just to ask about next meet. I guess it kind of becomes obvious quite early on what works for each person by the contact they initiate as well as by their responses. And there are always those you never hear anything back from lol

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