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How many validations is ideal for a woman?
May 12 2026
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Hotpair
23 days ago
How manys yours
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RHP User
23 days ago
I pay no attention to validations. As a guy I’d mainly be seeing validations from men which tell me very little. Would it be fair to say women write more considered validations that are useful to others rather than the stock standard?
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MsSuperFoxy
23 days ago
IMO Best not to display. Because some men want sexually confident women, but then shame them for having the experience that gave them that confidence. Ms Foxy
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OpalRose
23 days ago
Had 18 on my old profile. People assumed I was hardcore. Not one single person I’d been intimate with was on that list. It was all new members who had attended events I hosted. But they wouldn’t say ‘met Opal at an event she hosted’. They said ‘had the best night thanks babe’. I’d message super hot women and couples. Crickets. No reply. Then much later on meet them at events ‘oh you had so many validations it scared us off!’ So now I have one to show I’m real.
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Restlessgirl46
23 days ago
If guys judge me on the number of validations I have …then they aren’t really the kind of guys I’d want to hang with. There’s never any guarantees but the more validations a guy has usually the better lover they are. Experienced and respectful is a great combination
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RHP User
22 days ago
More Validations means she is more real and had play dates. Which is a good thing. That means you wanna invest time on her so you know she is not a time waster
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selfless__lover
22 days ago
Some people might find excessive validations a bit ick, especially if they are too detailed in terms of what actually went down. I limit my validations to around 5 as that's enough to give people an idea I'm real and what I'm like in person. In terms of women, maybe I'm different to most, but I don't judge on the number and just like to see that someone is genuine and a validation proves that.
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Deetsy
22 days ago
Some, none, it doesn’t bother me for the men. I do however, read them if they have them, just for a bit of insight in to the person.
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CallMeV
21 days ago
Validations can be both positive and negative. How much validation someone needs is a personal preference. Having been in the scene for quite a while, I DON’T judge people based on their validations ALONE. I prefer to talk to them, understand who they are as a person, and build a connection before I commit or play. Anyone can play and collect validations. Every individual has a different approach and their own way of engaging. What truly matters is the experience they provide, whether they make you feel comfortable, create space for self-discovery, help you to explore things you may have never experienced before, prioritise your likes and comfort, and respectfully encourage to push your boundaries etc
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Cucknshells
21 days ago
I think you should just do what you want to do. Just do you. I like validations. It indicates that the person is more than likely real and has met other people. Also it might give a general indication that they line up with what you are seeking. I find that rather than validations but more so because I am in a cuck relationship that people have a preconceived idea about me. I do have a question though. How do people feel about validations on a person profile that is from someone that has left or are not on your friends list. I have been thinking about deleting one of mine as recently their profile disappeared. I am in two minds about it. Also I often wonder why someone isn't friends with the person they gave their validation to. Once someone post a validation from you I don't think it can deleted other than from the person that accepted it. In that if you don't agree with the validation you gave previously you can't get it removed. I was once cat fished years ago and gave that person a validation and when I found out I wanted it removed. I ended up deleting my profile and it disappeared. However not sure that is still the case. Sorry off topic. Was just thinking about it all. :-) Shells xx
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NTT111
21 days ago
I see validations as not how many people u have been with but more of this guy/girl will meet aka ur not wasting ur own time on a blank validation that potentially is not going to meet
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Longjohn2026
12 days ago
I think everyone is different. For me personally more is not merrier. Men are visual creatures and validations are not necessary when choosing someone to connect with.
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LightKatana
12 days ago
Madame♡, I think it's more about the Magic achieved and removal of that which unnecessary to me and my wishes♡
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onelastride
10 days ago
Put it this way someone could think someone was really good in bed or in person and they fit then dosnt mean that person is going to give you the same experience as the person writing the validation got so there for validations don’t automatically align with everyone.
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Onehunglow
10 days ago
Great question. I like validations as them the people behind the profile are genuine and real, therefore your wasting time on pic collectors and ghosts. It shows a level of confidence for a woman as well and opens up adventures and the complexity of what’s allowed during playtime. I found that once I had validations it opened up More couples and ladies to a conversation.
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BlueEyesTradie
10 days ago
As long as the validations are positive I don't see that there could possibly be too many.
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Pete10
8 days ago
I really could not care, I never scroll that far, I read their bio and if I like i would send a msg. If a women has a dozen validations, could of only been a date only without sex. Though still waiting for that one, I gonna go back to being honest and nice with msgs and forget to try to stand-up with icebreakers...
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