Help / advice please :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Give it time L2L, be patient and let nature take it's course and you'll definitely reap your reward(s)... Not sure if there's a blue print to this world but I tend to keep my options open and stay chipper about the whole game... Let your SOH or charisma the heavy lifting... happy rhp'ing - Posted from rhpmobile

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  EarthQueen

  9 years ago

  And use that once you have established contact on here. If someone is interested in you they will give you there KIK username and you can talk on that. Then you can send cheeky messages. I don't think it's necessarily true that women are snowed under it's just many are looking for a connection before they meet someone. What that is, is different for each person. Put a bit of effort into your first message if you really are keen to meet a person, keep messaging if it seems she likes you and take the initiative to suggest a meet once you feel a rapport. Personally I like a guy that's confident to do that. Agree with @perishoc humour is good. You need a sense of humour on here. Good luck 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  When engaging in conversation over messages / kik and so on, try to end your messages with something that gives the recipient something to come back to you with. Ask questions or share something about yourself or that you are interested in that they can answer or share their own views. No one likes a conversation that is like trying to pull teeth!! Going forward, once conversation is established and you have received replies, do follow up at other times. For me, if I chat with someone but then never hear from them again I assume they have lost interest. I can't speak for all women, but I love attention and to be pursued, so when I get a message on kik from someone I have been chatting to saying hi or have a great day or whatever it makes me smile :) it also serves to keep that person in the forefront of my mind (and the top of my chatlist for that matter) whenever I get a chance to consider meeting up with someone ;) Hope this helps :) Mrs E

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Patience Grasshoper.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Im shocking at answering messages. Sometimes ill take weeks. Life is very busy for me in more ways than one. Personally I no longer get caught up in the moment. Imstead I prefer to take my time and respond when I feel I'm able too. This allows me to think. Otherwise I dont think and become to spontaneous and ..... the rest is history. Something like that anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Like sailbad said :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweet_cherry69

  9 years ago

  Well I sent you a flirt as I'm only a guest now. You have to make humour in your messages. If i see something interesting in your profile and the photos pique my interest I will always reply. Maybe I'm just polite and a half glass full type of person- always try to see the good in people 😎💋😄🍒 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Any Advive.....yes message me😆😆 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Pleaasse!!!☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

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