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Grasscutting
August 09 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fair enough Kaito, but one question...........if they're "committed" or "taken" or in a relationship of some kind, what the heck are they doing in chat to start with???? Trying to build up a harem list or bored with their current squeeze???
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought "Grass cutting" had something to do with samurai for a minute there ;)
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bondage_reality
16 years ago
Gets out Victa n start cutting Kaito's "lawn" hehehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good luck with that :) Ive been into chat twice, and wasnt there long enough to work out the protocol, but I can imagine exactly that. So many people lack so much respect for others :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
Spot on. Just go into WA chat room and youll see its so true...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes I then thought about it and thought about why the guys there in the first place. But like when you do find a nice one and one with all the right things...the vultures still attack lol I guess that was just the point I was making. :|
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kaito, I call it seagulling and ditched some so called friends for it. Tis true its all about respect and does not make u an attractive person. They can live with the way they are, I will keep my scruples and me men to myself and away from them. Anyone got any bicarb??Bondy when u available to do me hedges?xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ahhh Kaito....never were truer words spoken!It seems that the chat rooms have turned into a living, adult (but not grown up) version of Lord Of The Flies ffs...or better still...Animal Farm! People acting like spoilt brats....carrying on...stirring shit. Oh...and don't get me started on the one that was banned but has now returned, even ruder and more crass than ever ffs.Such a lack of common respect....and decency....it's getting so primary school that Im seriously considering leaving all together and taking my friends with me!!Oh and PS....Guys....if you are talking to a gal and wanna pursue something with her....keep her in the loop about other chicks trying to crack on. Guaranteed she will know whether the other chick is a nice girl or a grasscutter.Just my opinion.....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a "newbie" I'm amazed by these postings. I can't even find the chat room!!! Perhaps it's because I'm a guest?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good call BJIt seems that some people need to cock more than friends to me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint' Good call BJIt seems that some people need to cock more than friends to me.I meant THE COCK..LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Totally agree Kaito By no means is it a new occurence, Its unfortunately been going on a Long, Long time and probably always will I would say a lot more but I think you pretty much covered it in your first posting Kaito
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're talking about people that pursue someone even tho they know someone else is already interested in them. Doesn't matter if they are only at the tentative beginnings or further along in getting to know each other. I hate how people say that, 'its the internet not reality'. The thing for me is that the people that are chatting to each other are real people and it is possible to hurt their very real feelings. Barbie gal said it's "By no means is it a new occurence, Its unfortunately been going on a Long, Long time and probably always will" which bought to mind that she is of course right... But I imagine those that are 'grasscutting' online appreciate the fact that it's much easier to get away with it Quoting 'ric939' As a "newbie" I'm amazed by these postings. I can't even find the chat room!!! Perhaps it's because I'm a guest? The chat rooms (State and Adult) can be found at the Webcam Chat tab on the top right, but as a guest you will not be able to enter until you upgrade Cheers MrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks Peachypear for explaining my problem with chat. We are away on a world trip for three months and will upgrade when we return. Always enjoy your comments.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its a funny place this internet environment. People behave in ways that they would not normally if they were meeting other people face to face. For those looking to find a girlfriend/boyfriend/partner it is a competitive place to be so sometimes the knives come out. For swingers it is different - they are looking for friends for sex and friendship and are not driven by the very basic desire to find a partner and procreate the human race. For those people on here who just like to chat - there are all sorts of other competing interests that get in the way as Kaito describes. Chat rooms can be entertaining and a fun way of communicating with others but we feel that it should be viewed as entertainment rather than a good way to get to know people. Nothing like face to face and shaking someone's hand or giving them a hug and a kiss and hear their voice and see their eyes. So no matter what people say or how they behave in chat rooms has any REAL WORLD meaning in our view and too much is made of it. Long live Love, Friendship, Kindness and Understanding best wishes to all - tassieswingers xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok while I agree in some ways.... I also find that one particular person in the chat room seems to think its cool to message guys that I have been speaking with openly in chat informing them that I'm nothing more then a nasty person.... *other words used* Just because Im not in the same town or state doesn't mean that I should not be talking to them. She also told them that until they remove me from their freinds list she will have them blocked .... go figure.... It always gets back to me. Then I am totally amazed to see her whinging cause she can't find that special one... hello stop being an ugly person behind the scenes it doesnt help. I have been guilty of talking with the same people as some of my friends but by know means am I trying to cut anyone out. My view is if they are in an open chat room they are there for everyone to talk to and if they didnt want to talk to more then one person they would chat in private or on msn or even close their profile so they cant be contacted by others. And i know this next comment is gonna cop some flack ..... but !!!!! and this is just my personal feelings ... why do some married or attached people feel that they have claim over other people .... I guess I just dont understand some things that go on but I'm trying to learn the ways of swinging and trying to open my mind to new things..... so sorry if that offended anyone but as BJ says *** Just my opinion ***
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RHP User
16 years ago
All good points Funfunfun. and totally agree with you on all of them."Why do some married or attached people feel they have claim over some people.!!! "They should maybe look at themselves and their relationships first before blaming others for stepping on toes. No person is anyones, single guys are just that single guys, and single ladies are just that single ladies...so peeps, enjoy the chatrooms, stop the fuss and have fun. Married couples might play up in the rooms for their own pleasure or the wife of a couple my have fun for her own pleasure.If all goes well and people meet in person..."Great"..that is what it is all about.But you all must remember this " Is a cock that important", to destroy a friendship over".... I think not.!!!If you are lucky enough to meet someone special from the chatroom then, good on you, as i and Bryan have and are now having the time of our lives.
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RHP User
16 years ago
if you are in an open chat room. You do not have ownership over some guy just because you like him. It is up to him to decide whether or not he wants to talk to other women. How do you think the guys feel in here. We virtually dont stand a chance to even get noticed so we have no choice but to get "grasscut" LOL.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have known a few women over the years from the chatroom who have openly said they believe that if a man is in the chatroom, (and particularly on cam), then he is open slather (no matter if the guy is single or part of a couple). I couldn't disagree more. It's about respect really.. if you see someone is flirting big time with someone else, there's no need to go and grasscut. Sure, there's nothing wrong with some flirty banter, even if someone else is flirting with him, but it's not the same as grasscutting. There are other ways to get the guys attention, like say, sending him a message, or initiating a private chat. It's like watching those women on "Farmer Wants a Wife" shoveling a bowl of rice into their mouths the quickest to get a kiss from the farmer!!! To me this looks a little desperate and I think ... GAWD girls, have some self respect! Another thing I find funny, are the people who don't realise that if they whisper one half of a couple, THE OTHER HALF OF THE COUPLE CAN SEE IT, even if they are in a different house on a different computer. As long as both halves of the couple are logged into chat, they can see every whisper that is received. Soubi.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think some ppl take this site to seriously. Most guys on here get next to no attention so u think just cause u have spoken to him for 2 mins that u own him. When in the end ull probably not meet up with him anyway. SO he needs to keep his eyes open for other stuff too. I think this rule only takes affect once u have met the person. Dont forget there is a life outside rhp.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been in rhp about 16 months give or take - I came here to perve and cam and chat, not to meet. All along I watched and laughed as men whispered numerous women at once, thinking we wouldn't know, wouldn't tell each other. I didn't realise til recently that women do it to, and are probably worse. Honestly, chat is complicated web of flirting and grasscutting most of the time!I don't often worry that much about how anyone conducts themselves in there, because if I don't like it, or them, I can block them. I figure everyone is there for different reasons, and everyone has different values around monogamy, openness etc - who am I to judge?! Especially given the nature of the site.If I'm talking to / flirting with a guy, and another woman butts in, and the guy I'm talking to switches his attention, surely that's a sign that he's either not that into me or he wants to keep his options open?? No-one can butt in, or cut my grass, unless he lets them, in my opinion. We're all grown up enough to tell someone to bugger off if they butt in - if he's not willing to tell a chick that, it tells ME a lot. If the guy I'm talking to does switch his attention, that's a sure sign for me that he's not someone I want to waste much more time with.Having said all that, it doesn't mean I agree with that kind of behaviour - frankly, it's bloody rude. It just means that when people behave like that, they go on my "f*** off I can't be bothered with you" list :) Yes, it's kind of long lol. Turns out I met someone on rhp that has rocked my world, an awesome man (yay me!). He lives in a different state so we still go into chat to flirt with each other, chat to friends, have a laugh etc. What has STUNNED me is the women who whisper him saying what are you doing with her when you could have me etc. They either don't think he will tell me (duuuuuumb!) or don't care (tacky!!!).Mostly, I think people who are 'grasscutters' don't care, otherwise they wouldn't do it in the first place, and nothing we say here will change that. They still find 'friends' in chat, among the other people who don't care ... and who are equally tacky :)
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