M63
Getting noticed
July 27 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
But many of us like full stops so that we can take a breath too. Seriously mike1961, this is RHP world and things operate a little differently here. Meeting a woman in a bar is probably easier. The number of men on RHP ridiculously out weigh the number of women. You might just have to work a bit harder to attract you stunner, or your lowly second choice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mike..... please take this in the manner in which it is offered..... positive advice.As miss paintme eluded to....... if you're going to promote yourself as intelligent.... spelling it correctly, and some grammar would probably be a good idea. Spellcheck IS everyones friend. (typos happen... but poor spelling stands out)The written word, and how much you care to present yourself through it IS an important reflection upon a person. If you couldn't be bothered a least spellchecking, you are saying to the world that you dont care about yourself.... and possibly may not care about othersNow I know some people will whinge at me on this and suggest that spelling and grammar aren't important.They're wrong. Life isn't fair, and RHP doesn't owe you anything so it stands to reason that you should present yourself in the best possible light, right?! Also...... phrases suggesting people "give you a go"... present as pleading..... never an attractive or appealing thing, especially to a woman (unless she's a Dominatrix and has your nuts in a clamp )I hope your experiences in RHP are positive ones.DG
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
except you're competing against thousands of others who throw their hat in the ring, not just a handful of potentials. The sad reality is that you've really got to stand out here otherwise your message will just get lost in the constant waves of attention that having a single female profile on here results in. Happens to all of us so try not to take it personally. Maybe try meet and greets or social events as you get More personality across than a few words in a profile can. Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
What are you saying - you only want a stunner??? I'm enjoying this topic.... You need to make an impression of positive energy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women outnumber men greatly here as paintme said. I've been told before by guys I am too rigid with my requirements, and not giving men a fair go. But the truth is, I'm here to find sex with men that I am attracted to, not to find my soulmate. So seeing I receive emails from men who do fit my requirements every day, means I don't have to give the ones that don't "a chance". And I will always choose brains over brawn. Intelligence is hot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My spelling and grammar get a bit overwhelming for RHP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do agree about the spelling and grammar in your profile,you need to correct that. Your profile is not very enticing,if it doesn't reflect who you really are phone a friend,get some help to re-write it.....there are men here who don't have stunning looks Mike, but they contribute to the forums and because they are funny and intelligent women flock to them..well at least that's what they tell me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I understand your frustration Mike. But you have 4 friends and 1 validation already. Times can't be THAT tough! You're doing a lot better than most guys on here.My advice... look for someone who is looking for you, send a polite, interesting message and go from there!(And yes, spell check and punctuation would be a good move too!)
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Mike1961, I seriously lost track of what you tried to say after reading into the 4th line of your thread, and had to go back to re-read a particular sentence to understand it! And like paintme said, please give us some time to breathe too! It is interesting that you try to promote intelligence while you cannot even keep up with using the basic, simple and appropriate punctuation, let alone the spelling and grammar! As a non-native English speaker, it is tougher than sitting through a job interview when I read a piece of writing like yours! Also, everyone signs up to RHP for different reasons, so how do you know if RHP women, who have said no to your messages, are missing out? Unless one's profile matches 99% of mine, I would say I don't think I have missed out much if I was to receive a flirt or message from someone who cannot write properly.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd "Listen to what the ladies are saying". FYI, I don't hop into the sack with any piece that comes along so it works for both genders, apart from that enjoy. May have to touch that CV of yours up maybe - joke
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RHP User
12 years ago
RHP has bruised many a male ego!, I expect you couldn't count the amount of guys that have been shot down in flames. Apply a Teflon coating and don't take it to heart!. I rarely get responses and to be honest I don't send many flirts, I have spoke to a couple of nice people on RHP though so I don't think t's quite the cursed Earth either. I have a pic I wouldn't consider anything more than suggestive but it's been deemed 18+ so perhaps it's my fault?.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm not sure one can have sex with an Intellect, or a personality?.Not strictly speaking of course.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sory if you took what i said out of context, but i didnt mean ime only after a stuner,I was trying to say I think some women on here take looks more important than anything else and I do know my spelling isnt the greatest but I dont think that makes me any less of a person or think of any one else that way either thanks for your feed back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A very good friend of mine has a boyfriend who he met at a club, and they have been close for 6 years now. Now, the first time my friend received a text message from this man he realised that there was a bit of an issue, turns out the guy is dyslexic. My friend admitted to me that if had received a message like that from a person on RHP he would never have responded, but of course since he had already met him he knew that it didn't really matter. So the moral of the story, get off your soap boxes people! FFS! There are other ways of being intelligent... doesn't always mean you have to spell well and have lovely grammar. How terribly bourgeois of us all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would go to lots of events that they list in the events section, or just get out there to met people. That is if you don't already. It is really the best and easiest way of meeting people..... for me answering emails and trying to get to know people online is too hard. Not my thing I suppose.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cheekyarses' What are you saying - you only want a stunner??? I'm enjoying this topic.... You need to make an impression of positive energy No, what he is saying that women's expectations are too high and they should get off their high horse sometimes. Do people deliberately misunderstand what people say to may some sort of point here? Did a memo go around or something? Seriously I think I am missing something about the forums at the moment. :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for your feed back, but I allready know ime a bad speller its who I am and yes spell check is everyones best friend, but I dont believe being some one ime not why should I pretend to be perfect when ime not can you see where ime coming from, this is me bad spelling and everything else but thanks again for your feed back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No not at all ime not after a stunner I was refering a lot of women seem to prefer looks over anything else, and yes that does go both ways, what ime trying to say is why not just chat to a person and see what happens sorry if you took it the wrong way thanks for your feed back
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you Meeka that is exsactly what ime trying to say xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunatley men think RHP stands for get me sex now...why the hell havent I got any yet.Its seems totally hypocritical as men have standards too and of the 1300 views I have had in the last month the actual number of men who actually take the time to message me is quite few. I see you want someone in age range from 18+ well you might get lucky but that sends a different message to the women who you do message because they will check your profile out and scrutinise every detail.This site is really no different to a vanilla dating site there is no certainty you will get anything, but if you dont try you wont succeed.
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Wicked2fun
12 years ago
Haha , sorry not laughing at you , it's just that I once Not so long ago , i put up this exact Thread title , it loaded twice too. I learnt very quickly from the advice I was given , though I may have Very possibly worded it wrongly , but meant something else , I felt a bit bad too as I received the wrong attention I was after , but in doing so Received good advice and Realised I was wrong and changed a few things being my attitude to this site and my intentions etc I wish you well and good luck .......!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Welcome to the land of the head spins, judgments, you're personality trial.... I can't really add much here that hasn't already been, except, prepare for the worst, and hope for the best. Oh, and expect nothing :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mike asked for feedback as to why he was not having success,that is what he got.I am sorry Mike if you were offended by the mention of the spelling and grammar in your profile but many people do look at that.....you need to put yourself at your best advantage.....if you are happy with your profile then leave it as is....and poor spelling is no indication of lack of intelligence but your profile is your advertising,make it the best you possibly can.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I too am dyslexic Meeka I work hard on it and tend to have to read it out loud before I send to make sure is correct. But when using a mobile device, it's more auto correct which messes with me than spelling. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My iPhone auto correct is a bitch!!! Arhh! So two guys, who actually seem to be one guy? Are you coming up for Angels & Demon night on Friday night?
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Wicked2fun
12 years ago
Please elaborate on the Angels and Demon night lol What address and time lol please ....!!! I'm game
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jaden007'Please elaborate on the Angels and Demon night lol What address and time lol please ....!!! I'm game Is every first Friday of the month at The Couples Club in Sydney. No single men allowed, so you'll have to find a date.
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Wicked2fun
12 years ago
Thanks Hun xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to admit I almost fell out of bed at Mischeviouslad - tough but fair comment. Witty. What about pictures guys? Take some effort with the pictures you post. I'm only speaking for myself but a crotch shot, while sitting, with pants on really does nothing for me - come to think of it even the crotch shot with pants off! Or better yet, no pics at all, basic filling out of your profile and then you expect a reply. Effort = return. Spelling is not such a big thing, especially with txt talk now days everything is butchered, but wit, humour, positivity do go a long way.............x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do have major problem problem with spelling and grammar , but i am sure people understand what i am trying to say, i hope ...
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