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Genuine Swingers - where?

February 25 2014

DueKudos came together through another swingers site. When apart we both had plenty of experience in the scene, whether it be with couples or singles, which left us many fond memories, a few good friends and plenty of naughty fun!Now that we swing together (and loving it) we have noticed that we get plenty of attention i.e:- flirts and messages, and we have met and had fun with some lovely genuine sexy people however...what is leaving us scratching our heads, is... the couples that show interest and like to chat but are never actually keen to meet!My question is...is this common with other couples on here?We want kinky sex - lets make it happen people!! DueKudos.

Comments

  • rootratandlady

    rootratandlady

    12 years ago

    We love to chat and also meet. The only excuse I can give is sometimes it is hard to find a time that works for all 4 people. Other than that I have no idea why you wouldn't want to meet the people you chat with.

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    12 years ago

    We have exchanged messages with quite a few couples on rhp and phone numbers with about half of those but as we live a very busy life we are guilty of chatting to couples then dropping off the radar for months at a time simply because Mr works full time, I study full time and we just get so busy we forget about swinging, until we have a weekend free and then we can never seem to find a couple who is free the same weekend as us lol Taby xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It usually comes down to timing, work, kids, friends. When it all comes together there are plenty of smiles though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes ok...life does get in the way of play dates, sure!! I understand that, and we both lead busy lives too! However, if you chat with us and exchange numbers...chances are we have already made up our minds and want to get into your pants and will make the time to host / meet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We meet ppl for drinks and chats in person rather than spend too much time chatting on line...sifts out the fakes. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • rootratandlady

    rootratandlady

    12 years ago

    The more time goes on without meeting face to face, the more it is going to end up a negative.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They're just not That into you..... or they take longer to evaluate people than you might ?! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Regional living takes a little more coordination. It is 2 hours to get to a major centre and the like minded people who live there.

  • Sugar7263

    Sugar7263

    12 years ago

    It all about timing we guess, kids & work are things that control usBut it does work sometimes & againWorking through the fakes is also hard

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    We have been focused more to having a guy for a threesome, an all together thing and Tara the centre of my life and attentions. we have invites from couples and not committed to anything yet, nor that we won't. Truth is from myself, is I'm unsure that in a couple situation we are only interested in all together play and that has little boundaries, though off to other rooms, or full swap each end of the book shelf is not what interests us to this stage at present. I get off on Tara getting off and not put to much to me getting another lady off, last night was the first real conversation we had about having another woman join us for a threesome, as there is a cute little blond full of life, that we chatted the idea, she would not know how good a good fuck could be, until she had been fucked for some to what we have learned to it, It's a turn on for sure, and Tara a little curious, but team player is bringing thoughts to it for discussion. So we are bound to having a woman jion us , soon probably, we are not challenging each other too it, we have for better known, agreed we are wanting to do that. and realistically if we are going to have a woman join us, it would be at Tara's invitation from us. and she is ready to invite a woman, we just don'y know who she is, when it happens it will show for it all, again we are not in any hurry, more just the right vibe and the energies to it will guide it to appear, and we are sure, it will be a meaningful time for us all, and that woman will comfortably fuck us as we fuck her, it's what it is all about, eye to eye and all together brings self respect and equally given, no bullshit just care to it, and care goes a long way, I respect women, so that is never going to be an issue. Not too sure how I would commit to another woman be it that we are with a couple and swapping things around even all together, I don't want to let anyone down and I don't know that I would, but it is her thing too, and I see it that it is special to her too, and with Tara in my thoughts I just don't know and it would need to be another lady aware and comfortable to the knowing that and as it plays out, probably just a stepping stone and I'd fuck her the same as I fuck Tara and we would all probably have a great fuck. Just can't promise to something on assumptions and Tara would have her settling to centre thoughts to another man, we don't leave each other to this, so it still has to be an all together thing, we are not experienced, we would need to be trusted is about all we can promise. Mado Tara xx

  • abab1

    abab1

    12 years ago

    My wife and I started our playing as newbies at a swingers party in Brissy and had a great time. When we got back to Townsville we couldn't find any parties so we looked for couples. We found it's a bit like dating except to get a match you have to have two couples happy with each other.We decided to run our own private swingers parties and they've been going great. My wife has a g-rated coffee with everyone that comes (with the exception of some out of towners) as she has a great radar for those that would match in with the existing group. We have a couple that regularly come from Mackay and they love their getaways.The best thing about swingers parties is that you get to meet a whole group of genuine swinging couples, single guys and single girls all at once. Lots of physical testing happens, phone numbers exchanged, etc.Maybe Mackay needs a swingers party, or maybe you both need to get away for the weekend!PS: We don't make any money from out parties, any charge goes into buying play equipment, etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'abab1' My wife and I started our playing as newbies at a swingers party in Brissy and had a great time. When we got back to Townsville we couldn't find any parties so we looked for couples. We found it's a bit like dating except to get a match you have to have two couples happy with each other.We decided to run our own private swingers parties and they've been going great. My wife has a g-rated coffee with everyone that comes (with the exception of some out of towners) as she has a great radar for those that would match in with the existing group. We have a couple that regularly come from Mackay and they love their getaways.The best thing about swingers parties is that you get to meet a whole group of genuine swinging couples, single guys and single girls all at once. Lots of physical testing happens, phone numbers exchanged, etc.Maybe Mackay needs a swingers party, or maybe you both need to get away for the weekend!PS: We don't make any money from out parties, any charge goes into buying play equipment, etc. Thanks 'abab1' - we would love to meet for a coffee and perhaps come to a party! We are always keen to get away for the weekend!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Sugar7263' It all about timing we guess, kids & work are things that control usBut it does work sometimes & againWorking through the fakes is also hard Maybe we could all meet for a drink sometime?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Can I just add; that we are both very polite and are not pushy when chatting with couples. We are easy going and love to have a laugh. Our theory is...that just because we meet, does not automatically mean we all have to have sex with each other, we might just end up being friends, which we are totally happy with or we might end up just having a bit of a chat and swapping some stories. I guess what we are trying to say is that we want real experiences and to meet, have fun and share with other couples!!