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Fuck Buddies
April 29 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
Only ever meet up for sex with my fukbuddies. no real reason except the long drive
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'd like a girl I can hang out with, go to gigs with or art exhibitions and then turn to each other at the end of the night and go 'Fuck?' 'Fuck yeah!' Basically just a cool friend that we both help each other out :P
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RHP User
17 years ago
They are what the word says and when you look at it its all they should be,we have two guys and we only see them when we are all free.I have heard some horror stories of them becoming to involved in your life and they have or can cause emotional heartache for you or themselves if they are single or in a unhappy relationship,but all i can say is becareful and enjoy.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Just for sex if you first met them for that, but if you were friends before, why not continue??
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RHP User
17 years ago
I used to have one. We would go out for a few drinks or even just hang out at home. weekends only and if the other had plans, no big deal, no questions asked. It was great. We were the same age, similar interests etc but both not looking for commitment. We could enjoy a few drinks together and then have some fun. Any ladies looking for this type of relationship, let me know (Sydney west preferred.)
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RHP User
17 years ago
it depends how you get along , I think the best are ones you can hang out with and have sex yet no tie downs i mean thats why we have fuck buddies because we personally are not wanting to get tied into all the ties of a relation ship and drama especially if we have a lot on our plate or our emotional state ha ha they are the premiuim ones i believe because even with '' fuck buddies '' the more connection the better the sex ha ha but than yes you can just meet sex it up and go as long as you both are happy its all good gee i ramble on thats me done ha ha
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RHP User
17 years ago
fuck buddies are just that for a fuck anything else thats when its friends with benifits.
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jandv
17 years ago
As a couple we have been considering trying to get another couple as Fuck buddies where we meet sometimes all together or the partner goes to the FB house. Has anyone been succesful with that?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I had a couple dat would call me up during day to come over. I would get there say hi and basically go straight to bedroom were they would follow.After few hours of sex would leave it was a perfect arrangement for both of us as they had kids and we had to work around them.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have one female that I play with every 2nd weekend. We hook up with other couples but as yet not with another single female. We chat on the phone and a few SMS through the week but thats it. I also play with a couple about once a month. We don't have any contact other the msn as its all related to playing.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I've had a few fuck buddies over the years. How often we meet up has varied with each but in my case it has always been limited to whatever goes on in home, theirs or mine. We near always spend some time chatting, drink coffee or booze, watch a movie or partake of anything else "homey" but the understanding is always that before, during and/or after we're going to have some sexy fun too.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have always had the same opinion as pinkpussy. It's a pretty straightforward categorisation between fuck buddies and friends with benefits but I think some people confuse the two. Wouldn't mind either myself.
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RHP User
17 years ago
We have been playing with a single guys for 7 months now. We play together as a threesome or the girl visits and plays separately. We offer each other advice on relationships and chat about general things as well as sex. Is there another level after friends with benefits?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am looking for play friends . love female friend to pair up with to go to play parties swing clubs or anything else. Is there any women or couples or guys that would like the same.
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RHP User
16 years ago
fuck buddies work out excellent if u dont get emosionally attached
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RHP User
16 years ago
This topic ties in with another post called mixed feelings........it is very easy to become over-involved with fuck buddies if they turn into friends with benefits. Happy to receive flirty texts between meetings but if you get too involved in their life dramas it can get out of control. Things work better if both parties have the same level of committments so one isnt seen as 'desperate', 'needy' and constantly needing contact.
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usm79
16 years ago
Great if you find a nice one. Scary if you hook a goldfish sushi, bunny boiler, Slow Talker type.
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RHP User
16 years ago
im sorry but fuck buddies and friends with benefits are the same thing as well as playmate .... a "friend" you hve sex with booty call is the type for just fuck and runs and wham bams ... why doesnt anyone know the meanings behind these lables and my kinda playfriend fuckbuddy friend with benefits is sumone i can hang with have drinks with with the added bonus of uncomplicated hot sex with freedom of fucking other ppl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Both Jen and I had fuck buddies before we found each other. Basically we would contact or be contacted by a FB...go out for dinner, movie, whatever, then home to fuck. There were no emotional strings attached. Now Jen and I are a couple, we no longer have FB's. We agree with PinkPussy_4u, we have friends with benefits. And we also almost exclusively play with couples. Unless we can find single ladies willing to join in on some our group fun. I think its a basic theme....buddies you fuck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
They're awesome if you have that trusting friendship. It's not for everyone, and you do become involved in some way or another - they're friends with benefits mostly! When it gets down to it, I personally won't have one nighters - sex is a very intimate moment and I prefer to know who I'm sharing these moments with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah i have a few of them.. some are real good.. but some want to get into your life too much , and they think there the only one .. I love fuck buddies to the max..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had a long term FB we mainly hooked up for mutual pleasure but occasionally we went out and it was fine. I would still be seeing her had I not left Dubai. FB are great as long as there are no miscinceptions about whats in it for each of you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well seeing as we're a couple we could have FB's... but there would be no interaction besides the sex and a chat. Actually, I'm like that, but I know Mr is happy to have them as a friend and do other activities. I would choose not to as that is why I have Mr I guess, he is the one I want to do other activities besides sex with. But whatever works :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
As has been stated previously FB's or FWB's are exactly that. There needs to a clear understanding from the start. They should leave everything at the door both when they arrive and leave. If they don't they run the risk of stalking, now no one want's that. Let's just keep things simple.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you read our profile you will see we dont full swing BUT my lady knows I have fuck buddies and I am also a pert of Weekday guys (HI DAVE) I have a very understand lady in my life (for once) and it has changed my life also.
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RHP User
16 years ago
love to have a fuck buddie anybody interested?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Same as trafficman33 and jillyryan....would love to meet som FBs, either single females or nice couples. Hard to find, I know but some must be out there.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sure..in theory..brilliant concept....hell Ive had many when I was on the road traveling for work......and they were all lovely....however Can be complicated though when you have a FB and all of sudden you realise that you dont just want to fuck them on a Saturday nite...that you really enjoy hanging out with them on a Sunday morning..and then you think.,.....hell I could actually hang out with them the whole like day !!!...I actually like them....then your stuffed...... cause then your left with that tiny weenie little dilemma...do you fess up and tell your FB that...mmmm I like you...and maybe this could go somewhere...therefore stuffing it all up...because they dont feel the same way...or do you shut the fuck up and hope against hope that they pick up on the signals. ? and you just play it so cool.... agonising while wondering what to do... Bottom Line.... long term...although out intentions are good...most women (not all) cant sport fuck...we just arent wired that way !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've had a few, some I've been friends with, some I didn't see or speak to at all unless we were having sex. The second kind is less complicated
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just wondering does anyone think about the fuck buddies feelings or just our own feelings. Are fuck buddies just people we fuck with no regards to their feelings. Do we care about them or we just disregard them when finished, as this is just how it is a fuck buddy? Sounds cold hearted to me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
with fuck buddies, no I don't give a damn about their feelings, nor do I have anything to do with them outside of sex. It is really cold hearted, that's why I don't like it, and only call on my FB whenever the need is absolutely huge and I don't have anyone else to call on. My preference is for a friend with benefits, in my book there is a difference. I hang out and socialise with a FWB, do other things as well as have sex. I do become attached to my FWB, but I don't get emotional if that makes any sense. I don't get jealous or possessive or needy, but I do enjoy their company a lot and they do become part of my life, introduce them to my friends and family as my FWB, not BF!
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RHP User
16 years ago
We were always taught - "Do to others as you wish done to you". We would rather FWB over the cold and emotionless feelings of straight FB's. We are lucky that we have some other cpls who we class as our friends and now and then we can get together with no strings adult fun with no bad feelings if it only happens now and then. (You know who you are xoxo). Respect is what makes a good FWB for us.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am having difficulty understaning this whole fuck buddies concept. I try to hook up with a few nice looking girls who say ther only interested in having no strings attached sex but after droppig a line to say I am keen, there always seems to be strings attached. I mean I am a good looking with a good personality and body but the girls all seem to want more. Maybe there are so many potential fuck budies out there they are looking for the Bestest fuck budy they can find. Fucked if I know. All I know that this selling ones self on line as a potential fuck buddy is a little degrading especially if you aint finding any body who wants to fuck. Fuck buies are fuck buddies and mates are mates and never the twain should meet Thats my opinion. My mates are the dudes I playing guitair with get drunk with and ride bikes with. My fuck budies are the girls I take out to dinner watch a movie or a concert get drunk with and then go to the beach and fuck all night long. I woulodn't dream of doing that with my mates. ps. the dinner date is optional.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am here for fun buy won't put my pix. If u want to see my pix, u can send me an email and we exchange pics. I ve hot ones. My yah id is urefo
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RHP User
16 years ago
are you looking for fun with us
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am on here reading all your replies to fuck buddies and I am thinking we love ours....they are nice and hot, comfortable in them selves and not out to hurt or gain out of the pleasure of fucking....and my gorgeous man just came in and gave me a mini magnum.........ha ha I said I feel like putting that on my pussy, he had a laugh my ultimate did....... SO THANK YOU GORGEOUS fuck buddies XXXXX
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RHP User
16 years ago
Pink Pussy sums up this question without wasting a single word. Bless you beautiful......grovel grovel, lick lick, wink wink if you like. Now for my health,sanity and just for the FUCK of it can you please show me exactly what you mean? Ha Ha........ Not, i am serious! Lovers balls and all that Mwaaah!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
My fuck buddies are just that nothing more... Thats the whole idea of it. It works for both. I have friends with FWB`s aswell they are people in my life that are closer to me in some way. Ansd in some way when we need each other ... well it it just happens.
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RHP User
16 years ago
When female emotions are involved, someone always gets attached and someone always gets hurt.Yes, speaking from experience.
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RHP User
16 years ago
fuck buddies dont seem to last long unless they r just casual flings but if u see them to much 1 person always gets attached and it ends badly so my advise wud be to make it clear from the start...hang out mayb once a week or just meet for that 1 reason lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agree with hotazice.. too much time and things can get messy but if everyone knows what they're in for its great - my advice, search for fb's on rhp. It's easier for couples seeking couples as you know what you are meeting for - not to open up or share feelings and opinions or find 'the one' but the physical experiences. If you become fb's with someone that doesn't understand the rhp mentality then they are more likely to develop a different opinion of what the time you spend together means to them. The ultimate is when your fb's also become people you can have a 'real' friendship with, you will find you already feel closer to them, accept them for who they are and enjoy their company more as they are people you can obviously connect well with. My partner and I met as fb's and now we're engaged - things easily develop into more than just play when your single - but as a couple we have many great friends that started out as our fb's and we couldn't ask for anything more X
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RHP User
16 years ago
P.S. to funnwet - my partner and I meet up with couples that we have become friends with from rhp almost every weekend - whether it be drinks, dinner, play parties etc... we just tried being social and have had so much fun doing so. Most of the best times we've had with our play pals is not the physical play but the crazy partying and nights out that accompany it!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i've never had a friend with benefits who didn't end up getting attached so i kind of steer clear of the concept now unfortunately as there is nothing worse than hurting a gals feelings or steering close to breaking a heart. Kind of like my moral duty of care. The only time i'd venture down that road would be if I can see a gal as a potentially partner, not that I want or expect that, but if she eventually wants to sneak a base, id prefer feeling comfortable enough to continue the game rather that chucking my bat and ball in and going home.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'jengirl'I've had a few, some I've been friends with, some I didn't see or speak to at all unless we were having sex. The second kind is less complicated
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RHP User
16 years ago
Call or email if u like what you see
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RHP User
16 years ago
i have a few fb and ive always been stright up with them from the start tell them wat i want an make sure they understand,
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think Fuck buddies are as what most of the replies have said. Just that .. they are people who want the same thing which is to basically fuck. The sad thing is that from all the people I know who've had them, they end up where one of the players gets attached and the whole fun thing falls apart. My wife and I have a male friend who occasionally comes around when invited and plays with us just to spice it up. We have been seeking a girl to change things around also, but it seems local bi girls are in short supply. I guess at the end of the day it comes down the basics that sex is an involvement of feelings and people that can separate those feelings from fun, could sustain a fuck buddy style relationship for a decent length of time. Also being good at it helps too lol. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Look @ my profile and how sexy I am and please reply! Really want one now! ps. girls only
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds so crude,F,BUDDIES.
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RHP User
14 years ago
HiI am so keen to meet, check my profile and let me know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
as a couple, we are each others preferred and best 'fuck-buddy' and really cant imagine why either of us would wish to spend social time with someone we'd met for play........ makes no sense for us......
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