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Frequency???

May 30 2012

How often do you meet others for playdates? Jennylee and I enjoy a full and regular sex life, just the two of us but we don't often play with others. At least not as often as we'd like. We both work. I do ten hour days monday to friday and Jen has an ever changing casual roster for between thirty and fifty hours. Between us we have seven kids which doesn't make things easy. In the past twenty months or so, Jennylee has had eight playdates and I've joined her for three of those. How often do you play?

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14 years ago

Probably 3 or 4 years for us as a couple. Around 2 years for me personally.We used to play 3 or 4 times a year.Like you guys, we have a good sex life, so we never acted out of desperation.Time is always the enemy now days.Cheers Felonius

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14 years ago

Like you and Jen, we both have busy 'standard' lives so when we manage to align (Mr has no early start the next day, Mrs has no early start the next day, kids away etc) it is an all out effort to arrange something.Added to that we are fairly specific about our requirements (female aged 25 to late 40s) and don't have the most compelling offer (a bit of socialising followed by NSA sex/intimacy) and we're not exactly installing a turnstile at our front door.That said, when all the planets align (a syzygy) it can be a special night. ;)

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14 years ago

It dose change through out the year. At times we go a month or two or more without anything happening. Then we have had weekend's where we have played with a girl Friday night then Jane had had a guy over sat night and then we have played with a couple the following weekend.Given we can only play Friday and sat nights and there is always one weekend a month that's out of the picture (girly thing's) Add to that other social and family commitments and just time to our self to enjoy each other and you don't have as much free time as you think.I would say on average once a month or 12 times a year but not always spread out evenly.Thats between guys, girls and couples.So when you think about it even if its a regular couple or regular girl or guy we would would only see then 4 times a year.Perhaps our ideal would be to play once a month with a regular people but mix it up each month guy, girl or couple and it tends to work out that way. for example Last friday we played with a girl and I think jane is making plans for a guy next month. Couples we usually leave it in there hands to make plans and it tends to work out.That's more than enough to keep our fantasy's aliveTim

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14 years ago

sometimes 3 or 4 times in as many months......others more often....sometimes less............it varies as we have 2 free saturday nights out of 8, and kids, grandkids, parents, friends and each other to squeeze into those 2 nights............

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RHP User

14 years ago

About once a month , Sometimes more if I am not working so much , but mostly one night per month - when planets Aline and we are both relaxed and in the mood to party :)

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14 years ago

never dont need too , too busy ..lol

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14 years ago

i was listening to 99.3 and changed to 720 for the news

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14 years ago

Me2Quoting 'Krissy_G' Increasing

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14 years ago

We play when we have easy babysitters and that can be a bit hit and miss depending on our overseas visitors and good muggle friends (who also have busy lives). But it does seem to go in waves where we play very regularly and then nothing for ages! And it's all good...keeps us looking forward to our next encounter. There's a lot to be said for the joys of anticipation

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14 years ago

Thats a good point. For us as a couple often 1/2 the fun is the warm up and cool off periods before and after a play night.where we are at each other like rabbits anticipating or reminiscing togeather Quoting 'InAdditionTo' And it's all good...keeps us looking forward to our next encounter. There's a lot to be said for the joys of anticipation

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14 years ago

Had a fair year last year.. only reasonable this... Meet a cute girl trying to sell me stuff in the local shopping centre today.. didnt buy anything but we exchanged business cards... promising' so who knows..

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14 years ago

Once this year so far - but that was back in January. We've one couple that we've played with 3 or 4 times a year for the past 4 or 5 years, and we've some other friends that may normally turn into something one or twice a year. It's probably been a couple of years since we met somebody new though. The intent is still there, so we still enjoy coming on here, but it's more for the perve than anything else.

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14 years ago

I had a rather interesting tutorial on electro-magnetism the other day.Quoting 'wowwow11' i was listening to 99.3 and changed to 720 for the news Cass xxx

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14 years ago

We try to play once a month.

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