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Freah Meat

December 20 2012

We were talking recently with a friend who knows a lot about the party and swingers scene. They mentioned players who leap on the 'fresh meat'. It got me thinking as I think I actually prefer revisiting a new friend once I have a bit of an understanding of their interests and style, I can see that some might like the freshness of a first and only time, and I guess there are the bedpost notchers who see it as a sport. I doubt anyone who really sees others as fresh meat would pipe up and declare it here but I was wondering how others saw this kind of mentality, and about your past experiences, personal preferences, 2 cents etc. Personally I don't like to be used in anyway which leaves me feeling hollow and knowing someone had this mentality would be a huge turn off...

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RHP User

13 years ago

disappointed,I thought this post was all about me and you just spelt me name wrong...sulking now.

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RHP User

13 years ago

??

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RHP User

13 years ago

I don't see anyone as meat, only as a potential friend/lover/etc, however It's only logical to move on to the next/newest person if you have been rejected/ignored or have already played and decided you don't want an encore or maybe your dance card isn't full enough. Who knows? No doubt there are always the notchers and people who just love a shiny new plaything, but maybe it goes deeper than that? Maybe they like experiencing the newbies before they become cynical and jaded, or maybe they get off on being the one to introduce shy newbies into the fold?

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RHP User

13 years ago

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

I hate typos too...

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RHP User

13 years ago

me at ?

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RHP User

13 years ago

Paradisepair, the term is not very nice that is true but what they probably meant was they pounce on new people because often the swingers scene can be relatively small and if you go to the same parties or clubs after awhile you get to know most of the people. So new people are exciting. ;-)

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RHP User

13 years ago

Sounds awful but probably not meant that way is what I was trying to say.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Paradisepair I was just giving you a bump

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RHP User

13 years ago

I thought it was about Freya too. Maybe we should start this conversation again?

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RHP User

13 years ago

but YEAH !!! it's about us

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