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First time Swinging
January 10 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
So you want to ease in and have a gang bang 😀 like your style 👍 I am sorry if you're genuine but you don't have a single picture on your profile and you're asking about a club that takes a lot of single men? Hmm okay
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RHP User
10 years ago
From my point of view, invite the 5 friends shown on your profile to a private party.Add a few drinks.Add to your profile gang bang.Your party your rules.Should do the trick.And report back for us to read.
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RHP User
10 years ago
no need to be bitchy about it,the girl just wants to feel comfortable and not lookout of place. golden girl there is different swingers parties/events for anyone from novice to experts. everyone remembers there first one ....I think. maybe watch another girl get ganged and see if its ur first time before u rush into anything
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RHP User
10 years ago
... go and soak up the atmosphere until it feels right ....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Turn up be polite and ask the Host,They are always willing to point you in the right direction. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
all the time and are listed on the Events Page. Firstly I did as much research on clubs/parties as I could on the internet. We started by going to Shed 16 in Seaford which was very relaxed and friendly. It doesn't have a "dress down on entry" code which was one of the main reasons we chose that venue. Fridays are couples/single female entry only nights which we prefer...there are usually enough men for a gang bang too. The other nights are open to everyone and often there are a glut of men and only a couple of women....who tend to be followed around like they are the pied piper. Our first night we chatted to other couples who had been around longer and learned a lot - we even ended up having a play with two other couples which was a blast for our first time. Meet and greets are another good way to meet people in a public environment and if you find people you click with, then exchange numbers. Private parties/clubs/private meets are all different and it totally depends on your comfort levels and if you want to test the waters, or dive in head first (lol) Hope that helps Shaz
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' So you want to ease in and have a gang bang 😀 like your style 👍 I am sorry if you're genuine but you don't have a single picture on your profile and you're asking about a club that takes a lot of single men? Hmm okay Fair call, but you have to be a little bit hidden when you are mindful of leaving online footprints, just because you clearly dont care whether your photos are here for the world to see, doesn't mean I am comfortable having everyone know exactly who I am! In case you actually want to know, I dont know how I feel about the wives watching me, hence the single men!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks that was exactly the stuff I was looking for, I started questioning if my nerves were a sign to not go! I also didnt know how i felt about the dress down thing at 9 for a few places! Is there anything you suggest to find a place or just jump in a see what happens!?
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BungCpl
10 years ago
Golden girls We had all of the same nerves and questions a year ago but have since found there was no real need for them. Try Shed 16 on a Friday night, you don't have to dress down that much when you are downstairs if your not comfortable, and then you can get as crazy as you like upstairs when you are ready. They say Friday's is for couples and females only but have always found a few single guys in there as well, that or their wives are off playing with others so there is no watching - Posted from rhpmobile
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ReyandJean
10 years ago
Another suggestion is Wet on Welliington on swingers nights. Lovely venue with a lot of naked people about, but you don't have to be. Great pool to swim in, spa for casual conversations and other facilities. A lot of play happens behind closed doors upstairs, but there's often action in the open rooms for us voyeurs. We went there at the beginning and had good nights. Attending swingers venues has helped the Jean become more assertive about saying "no, thank you" in general - a good outcome for her.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ReyandJean' Another suggestion is Wet on Welliington on swingers nights. Lovely venue with a lot of naked people about, but you don't have to be. Great pool to swim in, spa for casual conversations and other facilities. A lot of play happens behind closed doors upstairs, but there's often action in the open rooms for us voyeurs. We went there at the beginning and had good nights. Attending swingers venues has helped the Jean become more assertive about saying "no, thank you" in general - a good outcome for her. That's where we were going to go this Monday I think, but weren't sure if it was somewhere we could play or if we had to leave!
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RHP User
10 years ago
id suggest couples night , there's a great night at she 16 seaford, it's layback and people are great. I've been with a n old fiiend that nagged me to go. I sat in spa and had some great convos, people hooked up, I played and it was so nice, there's no pressure at all. I say it's like going to a friends bbq but better.😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does anyone have any thoughts on Saturday nights at the Bay City Sauna? I believe it's hosted by the Attunga Swingers Club - Posted from rhpmobile
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BungCpl
10 years ago
On a couples and ladies only Saturday night but based on their web site they don't do that anymore, every night they are open is open to all. The place itself wasn't all that bad although it was built as a gay club originally so play rooms are on the smaller side of things, hard to fit 3 or more in unless you stay in the big open area
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looking for date to swingers club this weekend if your up for it let us no
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seems you're going right way about this. Some good advice here from those who've been there and done it all before. Ultimately ' it's yours and your lovers choice.. My advice is to go with a open mind and feel your way. Only you know if a gang bang is on depending on your comfort level. Anyway , I hope you find what you want . Go for it.
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lik2watch59
10 years ago
Back in January you posted you were going to wet on wellington, did you go, if so what was the outcum (Pardon the Pun) I've read through all the comments in this forum and there was a lot of good advice so I hope you were comfortable on you're first visit to one of these events. I know the first time I went and was on my own (Single Male) and not knowing what went on behind that door was very daunting. Lucky for me it was a quite night and I got to talk to people who were regulars so it made it easier the second time I went.The Shed 16 is where I meet a great little lady that I now attend these events with. It makes it all the more fun when you're aloud to play freely or as a couple. Good luck with it all.
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lik2watch59
10 years ago
Oh yeah I forgot to mention, I_touch_myself2 I love the Sarcasm in your comment. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
we are a married couple who are very very new at wanting this and have decided to go to a club in Sydney on new comers night and ease into it with no pressure, watching and exploring our rules and limits. we don't know what to expect and are a bit scared.
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BungCpl
10 years ago
Am interested to here how you guys got on with your trip to a Sydney club? Our first trip to a club was only s year ago but seems like yesterday, we were very nervous, didn't know what to expect and went in thinking we would just chat to people and watch what happens. Didn't last the night like that that's for sure, meet some nice people and had some good fun 😉 Hopefully you guys had a blast and realized it's not all that scary.... Side note that is way off topic - I love your hometown, actually grew up a few streets away from where you profile pic was taken 👍😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi there - first timers looking at some options for fri or sat nights, leaning toward saturdays, has anyone been to the Attunga sat night recently? Am concerned there will be far too many single men, we are a couple hoping for a couple to play with. We don't live close to Melb, so finding hook ups difficult to arrange...
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BungCpl
10 years ago
We have been there once last year and it wasn't too bad but that was when it was still holding couples only parties on one Saturday each month. Would be interested to know what it is like with single males allowed every night now, am keen to go back but have heard too many stories about guys getting grabby and not taking no for an answer so not sure about it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The website says that the last sat night of the month are still Couples and Ladies only. Might make a big weekend and go to shed 16 Friday night and Attunga on the last sat night.
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BungCpl
10 years ago
We decided to head out to Attunga on the weekend to give it another go and we are so glad we did, had a blast I guess there was somewhere around 20 couples give or take a few and a few single ladies, everyone was really friendly and there for a good time, no pressure from anyone and just a really good night. Will definitely be back soon...
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RHP User
9 years ago
So I'm super curious about going to a swingers club. I think it'd be hot! 😎👌👍 I've never gone because I've been either too nervous or too shy hehe xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My wife would suggest you not to be shy. IN our case it was my wife who suggested swinging. She'd ask if I'd enjoy watching another guy undress her. She fed the desire into me and soon we were swinging with hot couples or sometimes sharing her with another guy :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, Just adding a little though was written a year ago .maybe helpful. As I,m one of the older ones I did not think there would be much point joining a group or even going to a meeting or two. well we have a good well appointed home that is open to us and can have 40 and more people come our next meet up is 22 nd of this month and I,ll be going again, . The hosts are lovely and I get on well with them , I have meet 7 as friends so I,m not a total stranger I don't do much if any thing apart from a look and see whats happening around me , I do talk lots with the others I know and they will help if when I need it, I don't stare at others as I,m quite shy and don't wont to cause offence to others, Clothes worn I,m well dressed and not much is seen , as for others very different and quite show,e , there is a spar and others seem to like using that , I have not taken the dip if you like , I,m not inclined to ask about having some one be with me in the play room very unsure what is expected so stand back some what, there is a bdsm room set aside and I have a look to see whats going on and have a few ?s I can ask one chap about details as they come up or of interest. theres another room that's outside of my understanding so have no idear and have detail that you may know about, sorry I have no info. There may come a time I ...???....may be asked would I like to come to the play room .I,ll leave that in ... not answered ... as I have lots to learn . so over all a good place and some lovely people and friendly that's here in Ch Ch south isl through our swingers group. ...noeleena...
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