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First message unread, re-message?
November 12 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say this only because - I am always missing msgs due to the amount i receive and also , not too sure why but with this site .. it sends alot of them to another part of my inbox so its really annoying ! I too am pretty busy 95 percent of the week so when i logon , i try to catch up with as many as i can but - alot of them i dont see until a couple of months or more later due to this . By then though , im usually thinking whats the point in replying this late !
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RHP User
11 years ago
But generally cant read them all. The ones that fall into the non-matching folder we don't look at.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have the people you have written to actually been online since? If not, there's no point sending another message. If they have been, they're either not interested in their messages, or they are reading them via your profile so you can't tell they've opened them.In that case there's no point trying again either. Just my opinion of course, move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why would you? Just move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Why would you? Just move on. Either way just move on. Remember the imbalance between the genders, they get spoilt for choice.
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6exxy
11 years ago
The ladies here are sensitive to multiple messages. Leave it and if they contact you later great, if not keep on moving. Many do not have the same life courtesy's as they simply don't believe they have too. Good luck 😄
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RHP User
11 years ago
Plenty of other profiles out there who won't respond... So go get em !! Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Usually use drag nets.... Not drift nets to catch their haul so that they can keep moving. Same thing here.....keep moving and if you get a reply then yay what a bonus.....if not.....meh you're not going to be so disappointed about it right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
If they are unread to me means they are unread. Who knows what's happening in their lives?? People do have lives off RHP. And in my opinion, sounds like you want those you've emailed too, to answer straight away and expect a reply each time?? People will answer when THEY are ready, not when you're ready. Just because you sent an email does not mean they have to be read or replied too. When it comes to emails on here or over the net, there is no obligation to anyone as it's not reality. Reality happens when people met. :) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
if people read your profile they may be a little confused...you say you are single then say you are in a non traditional relationship and also have a couples profile...maybe change your status to attached...check that you are only sending g messages to people whose seeking criteria you meet.. many won't respond if you don't... XxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I should add generally - I can see they've been online, they haven't looked at my profile, I meet their general criteria, it's been at least a week, maybe two or three since I sent first message. Is it possible on RHP to read a message without it changing to "read"? Meander - what do you mean "reading them via your profile"? People do get busy, they have lives just like me. They may also be messaging others and my message may disappear out of the first page of their inbox without it being noticed. They just might not feel like reading new messages at that point in time. I'm not expecting an immediate read or an instant reply, and if it's read and no reply then I get that there's no interest. But if it's unread and they've never looked at my profile, what have I got to lose sending another message at some later time? g
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RHP User
11 years ago
It shows a complete lack of interest so I would not bother putting yourself out there for people who clearly aren't that interested in you. Like Meander said, maybe some have not been online but I don't think people can expect you to hang around and wait for you to reply, get on with it :) Good luck
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting foxxy "When it comes to emails on here or over the net, there is no obligation to anyone as it's not reality." I dunno what planet you're from but people's lives off RHP are impacted on at times quite severely. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are permitted to send how many messages a day right now? Why waste one on someone who hasn't replied... or opened the first message. Plow fresh fields, my friend..... and try to pic profiles of those who ARE active, and DO seem real (not fakebots)
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. In_2_u there are three tabs in your inbox and I believe that the first one will display all messages. 2. The non matching and matching tab don't work. I can't see any consistency between what is included in one and not in the other 3. living life, yes you can read an email without it showing as read. When you view a persons profile go to more options at the top of their profil screen. On the list that will appear there will be something called contact history. You can view emails this way and they will not show up as read in your inbox. 4. When I used to accept emails this is the first thing I would Sonia look at the contact history. You can immediately see if a guy has sent you the exact same message word for word and how often he has sent that email. I immediately he assume he said a it to 100's of other women so it's a turn off 5. I also could take a month not more before reading an email.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry for typos, and I have no idea who Sonia is. 😁
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Quoting foxxy "When it comes to emails on here or over the net, there is no obligation to anyone as it's not reality." I dunno what planet you're from but people's lives off RHP are impacted on at times quite severely. - Posted from rhpmobile People are still human and have feelings, just because you are not looking them in the face does not discount their value.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If unread, send again. Whats the harm in doing that. If they have read it without marking it read, or even if its read and not replied there is nothing wrong with trying again. If you annoy them you are just two clicks away from being blocked, so what. Blocked, or ignored makes no difference. When someone becomes a member here they automatically grant all other members that can the right to message them. If you pussy foot around you are not going to be on the winning side. If you let rejection get you down you are not going to win, dust it of move along. I would say the only time you should consider the options closed is if they send a no thanks or block you. When I first came to RHP I found the best way to get noticed is to click every profile that was looking for me, daily. I went so far as to automate the process. During that time only two people blocked me, and was asked once by someone in person (friend of a friend) why i kept looking at her profile. I told her and she was cool with it. Its a numbers game, you need to get clicks on your profile. Every view increases your odds of finding mutual attraction, if you are not getting around 1000 clicks a month you need to try harder. Shhh dont tell anyone, because if everyone does it, it no longer works. ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I will take closer look at trying to work out if someone is actually active or a bot, or the apps just make them look like they're online. Thanks Meeka, I see how to view through the more options tab, I'd never noticed you could click on "view" there. Meeka/anyone else who wants to pipe in: Say for whatever reason you opened a month old message and liked what you read, do you reply? Thanks for the thoughts all :-) I'm glad it's a long G20 weekend, time to get out and have a real life ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'livinglifeG'Meander - what do you mean "reading them via your profile"? Go to a person's profile, and click on More Actions. You can view their messages, without them showing up as "read" in their Sent Folder.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I saw Meeks had already responded. Meeka needs her instant posting back, mods!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I saw Meeks had already responded. Meeka needs her instant posting back, mods!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Homer-sexual; Can only be sexually aroused while watching the Simpsons..
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RHP User
11 years ago
talking to a friend about demisexual and we came up with a few of our own. Credit to her as she made most of these up. retro-sexual; only turned on recalling sex.repro-sexual; only turned on by sex for procreation.multi-sexual; only aroused by group sex.hydro-sexual; Only sex in water.Hygro-sexual; only hot sweaty sex turns you on.Tri-sexual; threesomes, no more, no less.try-sexual; only turned on by sex with sexually inexperienced people.noctosexual; Only aroused at night with the lights off.gyno-sexual; Only aroused while being examined, or thought of being examined.anono-sexual; Only turned on by people you don't know and dont want to know.sympo-sexual; Only into sympathy sex.theo-sexual; Only sex with nuns, priest, monks of any religion.photo-sexual; Only attracted to photos of people.inebro-sexul; Can only be turned on when drunk.possesso-sexual; Only sexually attracted to people who are sexually desired by another.daio-sexual; Dam forgotten what this one was.and lastconvo-sexual; Only aroused during interesting conversation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Posted in the wrong thread sorry everyone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Viewing someone's message without letting them know that you've read their message is just being a smart arse and tricky... "I know how rhp works" Yes the sender may have messaged you before... OMG !!! Is that a reason to not allow them to "see" their message as being read ? And spare me the shit about "...it's the Internet, I don't have to reply..." (Wanna fuck being the exception!) Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Viewing someone's message without letting them know that you've read their message is just being a smart arse and tricky... "I know how rhp works" Yes the sender may have messaged you before... OMG !!! Is that a reason to not allow them to "see" their message as being read ? And spare me the shit about "...it's the Internet, I don't have to reply..." (Wanna fuck being the exception!) Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... Umm so you think that a woman that doesn't feel it is necessary to reply to all emails would go through such an elaborate ruse to let the man think she hadn't read his email? I doubt it quite frankly. I would say we all use it because sometimes you want to read your emails to see if someone really tickles your fancy, most of the time it is just a heap of nice guys that I want to think about what I will say or maybe think first if I am keen to take things further or not. But once you have read a message it stays unread and quite frankly a chickie at my age is not going to remember all those emails I should still reply too. So it is much easier to have a quick look via the history first so it gives me some time to think. I also used it when I had lots of messages piled up but I wasn't in the mood to start a conversation going but I wanted to reduce my unread emails. So by viewing the contact history it was a quick easy way of replying to the blokes who I knew I would not be interested in but still keep the maybe emails unread so that I could go back to them when I had was in the mood for replying to emails. And this is why I almost never did the online dating thing. Just not my thing, going through emails was just a pain in the butt. Lots of really nice guys but nothing to distinguish between them. Capisce HP? Not all woman are bad you know. I haven't had my emails open in so long I am not sure if there is a function now that gives you the option of marking it unread again so that you can come back to it later.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't read my messages that way, because RHP will keep telling me I have an unread message and I'm far too OCD to be comfortable with that. :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just wanna hook up n have mad sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm ready n hard all the time I'm a male nymphomaniac I just can't help myself - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka . Yeh , i thought that also but for some reason it doesn't with mine . Maybe a technical glitch , no clue why to be honest lol .. or .. maybe my lack of inbox navigational skills are to blame :o - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women are quite sensitive and even the married ones too!!! The amount of emails or flirts given and received... I always end up going back to see if I missed anyone. I have made many friends through persistance from both parties involved. Stay positive...
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RHP User
11 years ago
...noted :-)
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