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First Bi MFM threesome
March 20 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Firsts.... is this your first time with a man? Is it your first threesome? I found that as a newbie you just never know how you will react to anything the first time around. Alot of men think they will love it and rush in but then they get stage fright. The reality of group sex can be quite confronting even if it is something you have always fantasized about. So don't put too much pressure on yourself the first time or have any expectations as you may be disappointed if there are no fireworks! It's something that you will probably get better with over time. But I am a newbie too... so don't listen to me. Have fun... and suck lots of cock. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
the last line... love it :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you've never been mucking around with another guy before then a threesome with your girlfriend is unlikely to be the best choice. There are too many potential causes for Anxiety. I mean, is this your first straight threesome? And your first bi experience? First thing I'd make clear is the rules... a useful one is that both you and your gf have a responsibility to each other to be mindful that you're BOTH enjoying yourselves, or stop playing. If you can agree on that and follow it through, then you'll defeat most of the newbie issues. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
http://www.pic4ever.com/images/orjnfq.gif interesting topic :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
but could say more if you tell us whether its your first threesome or your first BI threesome?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cavey!!! Whoo hoo, you are one sexy dude. LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
um read what we wrote again and you will see in there it says bi threesomeso go aheadsay more
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its the only way we play... I love cock, the man loves cock and we love 2 cocks in a bed - go for it and enjoy!
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RHP User
14 years ago
hosting an mmf 3some...with your wife, is challenging...those who have done so will agree...the first times are very nervous and tense. there'll be issues like 'jealousy' and the like that you'll experience...and its normal for one of you to feel left out at some stage...work out a signal that you both understand...that says 'what about me'......as people tend to get wrapped up in what they are doing and feeling, and neglect their partner (not deliberately).... agree to disagree at all times, as you'll both be wanting different things from the play...and dont do things you dont want to...if theres no 'kissing' say so........if theres no 'anal' say so.... dont drink too much, and dont add drugs to the play, only ever do it while you are all 100% aware and able to make responsible choices. have fun and if you can , relax, but do be aware that the first few times you indulge...that it may not live up to your expectations....that will come as experience and confidence grows.
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
We were lucky our first MFM experience was with a relaxed experienced couple, (yes I know that FMMF or something) there was no pressure or expectations they helped us work out some rules. We knew what we wanted, but we had never really thought about what we didn't want. So as Stalky said, make sure you are all clear on any rules, then relax and take slowly. Remember it should be fun for all of you. Sucking cock well is physically harder than it looks, but we found it's worth the effort. Let us know how it goes.
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rhody
14 years ago
Threesomes are great as long as you have good communication in the room for your first time either in a threesome, or as a threesome with someone new. Don't feel compelled to do something that's not comfortable or push any pain boundaries just for the sake of 'making the playtime work' for that specific threesome. I guess what i am saying, is that if you're the postman or the postbox, it doesn't matter - patience and communication will keep it on the fun side ;) We always find a good game plan of what you want to try for your first time is helpful...it sets the expectations for everyone in play then. Alternatively...just 'Go hard, go fast, go wild....and go long!'....and check where you're at after the smoke clears
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RHP User
14 years ago
careful Meeka Hunnii... I am not too far away from you you know.. Only in Orange... only a few hours east... :) *hugs* caveman x
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RHP User
14 years ago
we cant wait, very excitedthanks for all the help and tipsvery usefulkeep an eye out for the post in here or a new one on monday maybe once its all done and dustedalthough it is friday night we have it planned, we also have the saints and sinners ball on saturday night, our first party....we have a kinky weekend ahead of us
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think it matters whether it's your first or not it is about you guys and what you are into and where your heads are at and the other person and how compatible he is. That is pretty hard to work out until you give it a go. If it feels right go with it if it doesn't adjust things :) Our first threesome was MMF (bi) oral only- was all good for us (massive understatement) I say jump in the deep end! Only thing for us is that straight MMF doesn't much appeal now seems a little boring without that extra level of sharing making it not all about the girl (which I love).Hmmmm a lot of rules and preconceptions I think sort of get in the way, make things uptight because you are in your head constantly making sure you are "in line". To me that limits going with feelings- I think go with the flow, be free and see where it leads and as long as everyone agrees and feels comfortable to talk up along the way if they are not into something then it's all good and you just work around it. It's hard to say what you will be and wont be okay with when not in the moment ;) There is nothing you should or shouldn't do except if you are super nervous let the other dude know so he is somewhat mentally prepared that you are unsure of your level of participation and want to see how you feel oh and of course don't forget your missus- for real. Things to consider and I think neither rule in or out, hazard a guess but stay open and go with your gut.Male pashing/ cuddling and what not I call it man love and mine is not into it.Oral giving and/ or receiving. I call it damn sexy and what guy couldn't if he could reach. More can take it.Anal- giving and/ or receiving. I am not sure about this one haven't been there yet. More can give it ;)Cass xxxHappy adventurous or learning curves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
My ex lover and I have been in a couple of these situations and both absolutely loved it! There's nothing like giving a blow job with your man and kissing each other all around a hard cock. The problem I have now is that there don't seem to be a lot of bi men around :-( I do recommend that you know your boundaries in advance. Hopefully it'll go smoothly for you and you can relax and enjoy it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
one more sleep ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have had a couple bi MFM, loved it. Again firstr time was sensory overload haha. I look forward to more, have fun, I am sure you both will
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RHP User
14 years ago
Agree with SacralChakra, MF performing oral on a guy simply awsome. I found the couple seducing the male to be the perfect lead in....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Can't wait to see how it all went!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
hmmm: maybe it didnt go so good huh?? they should have gotton back to us all already..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' hmmm: maybe it didnt go so good huh?? they should have gotton back to us all already.. u never know tho.....it mightve been overwhelming...and they have been struck 'dumb' as a result...........
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RHP User
14 years ago
sooo friday night, the player was a no show didnt mindwe went to saints and sinners ball on the saturday night, another first of ours, and omg what an eye openerwhen we find the next amount of time and a male that wont stand us up, or a female... (if theres one out there) we will post here...sorry for the delay
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mate:... I LOVE the profile pic... but.. it just DOESN'T quite come up to the standard of your last one... :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' Mate:... I LOVE the profile pic... but.. it just DOESN'T quite come up to the standard of your last one... :) shh...apparrently some dont like bikes being shown in profile pics...... its telling them we enjoy things other than sex....the only reason they are there is that my wife finds bikes, and bikers, to be extrememly sexy....as a aphrodisiac, its sensational as well......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don't you just hate it when people stand you up .....gggrrrrrrI have been bi for a long time now and suppressed it for ever. Only recently indulged in that side of things as my wife finds it erotic to watch.My advice would be to find a bi couple first that way the girls can have fun in bed with you too. Just start out with gentle touching and see where the mood takes you... very erotic to be sucking a nice cock and fingering your partner at the same time. If the nerves get the better of you then you have the ladies to fall back on ... ( so to speak !!! )I have a male friend that sees me occasionally and we play alone which is fun but the best part is telling my wife later what happened..... ;-)Bi male experimentation can be a fantastic addition to your sex life, its just a pity that there is a lot of homophobia associated with it. I say ........just have fun and do what feels good at the time.BenPS in Melb on the 23rd May if your interested !!! LMAO
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh gawd. What a shame. That's so ridiculous. You know, the more I get into multiple partner opportunities the more I realise just how inhibited people are about sex. It makes no sense to me at all. Such a beautiful expressive caring and sharing activity that should come naturally to us all and yet here we see, time and time again, that people are mentally inhibited by their fears. It has to be fear that stops them doesnt it? HugsStalky Quoting '2forh34' sooo friday night, the player was a no show didnt mindwe went to saints and sinners ball on the saturday night, another first of ours, and omg what an eye openerwhen we find the next amount of time and a male that wont stand us up, or a female... (if theres one out there) we will post here...sorry for the delay
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RHP User
14 years ago
well said...it was our fear to i guess, it made it easier for him to not show up than if he did...either way... would have rather an honest person
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