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Fat Days :-(
April 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Foxy
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Letsgetcrazy09
13 years ago
Foxy I know what you mean, and us guys have to put up with MSB at times, it is a real worry
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Yes frequently
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RHP User
13 years ago
A big arse, big boob, extra kilos days? You just described paintme's everyday!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful.
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RHP User
13 years ago
*runs back under cover* GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
IMOE trying to describe those horrid bloated days...I think woman get it, however I don't think some men do??....like we don't feel sexy or want sex...not even oral...on these days. FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel like that ever second day!! lol Yup, much worse a few days before, hate it :( Wonder how many guys will know?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know the scales haven't changed but I look like I'm growing another person - bleurgh! It's not just pre-menstrual though, if I've had a few days of over indulgence (but not excessive), I can feel it and get convinced I'm at least 5kg heavier lol!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm feeling fat and bloated right now, nothing to do with PMS, but being sick. And isn't the menstrual cycle a cuntinuous 28 days? Ah, now I'm bitchy too!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' *runs back under cover* GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile WHY are you running back under cover?? huh??? FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
Know where you are coming from exactly and I think only another woman can really appreciate the feeling and emotions behind it. Been feeling like that on and off for a while now. But I would gladly accept a hug when I feel like that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get omg my hair and face look ugly today. :(I assume thats the same, or i would prefer a fat day. At least then its surely not true.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow'...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. Very smooth answer. MrPP gets it, we've been together forever though so he knows my body as well as, if not better than, his own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' Quoting 'anybodyjustnow'...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. Very smooth answer. MrPP gets it, we've been together forever though so he knows my body as well as, if not better than, his own.That's the key..but I don't think many men get that...knows a womens body and what she is going through or even shows empathy towards her??? I was with a man 1/2 my life and even he didn't get it...FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' MrPP gets it, we've been together forever though so he knows my body as well as, if not better than, his own. That is really sweet. But saying MrPP in my head made me snort tea out my nose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is one of the joys of post-menopause....ya can just feel fat every day
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel like that quite often, taking into account the mood swings, the fact that I am the only male at my place of work, the fact that I want to bang all the beautiful but stupid juniors I work with, while secretly hating them for being so thin and gorgeous and stupid, the twenty-seven shades of inferiority complex even though I'm practically assistant-supervisor, on top of which I count calories and watch what I eat rather obsessively, if and not when I choose to eat - all this topped off by the fact that all of the women in my life don't even see me as a sexual prospect much less a sexual being. Having to put up with that constant bitching, and the break-ups and all the new-agey talk of crystals and tarot cards is simply infuriating, even more so than the fact that none of these girls can stick to the fucking subject for more than a minute at a time. At least when I was 65kgs I was happy goddamn it. Seriously, do I look like I have anorexia? God no.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel like that quite often, taking into account the mood swings, the fact that I am the only male at my place of work, the fact that I want to bang all the beautiful but stupid juniors I work with, while secretly hating them for being so thin and gorgeous and stupid, the twenty-seven shades of inferiority complex even though I'm practically assistant-supervisor, on top of which I count calories and watch what I eat rather obsessively, if and not when I choose to eat - all this topped off by the fact that all of the women in my life don't even see me as a sexual prospect much less a sexual being. Having to put up with that constant bitching, and the break-ups and all the new-agey talk of crystals and tarot cards is simply infuriating, even more so than the fact that none of these girls can stick to the fucking subject for more than a minute at a time. At least when I was 65kgs I was happy goddamn it. Seriously, do I look like I have anorexia? God no.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' is one of the joys of post-menopause....ya can just feel fat every day Ya given mah hot flashes over the joys of post-menopause......... FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
But hey it's worth it :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
By saying "I Understand", the truth is , as a Man , I will never truly understand . . *runs back under cover* GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am used to the issue,live with it, understand it, but hey, if that's a part of being together its worth going with the flow (sorry poor choice of words) but its definitely great when it's over 😄- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Digging a hole here goodnight all 😉- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' ...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. Really?? Or are you just saying that to get big, huge, brownie points?? lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr Wilde...that rant was very very funny. I can radiate to some of what you wrote. I must however point you in the direction of the "The Co-Worker" post I put up. Thanks for the laugh though matey.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Many was the time I did the midnight run for naprogesic (spelling?) or other pills to help with the pain... the 2am hot water bottle run... the 4am hug when she was crying and couldn't explain why. Did love the chocolate and movie times :). The only thing a man can do is hug, love/care and accept whatever is thrown at them (as long as it is not a knife... that can be scary). My first GF used to freak out because I was ready with all the equipment the day her period arrived and couldn't work out how someone could know that "one of those days" was coming. Am thinking that some men do get it and just pick up on the vibes... and some men also know how to deal with it, though the dealing is different with every woman (some hate a man being empathic to the situation, as per my ex wife).
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RHP User
13 years ago
awww thats the day i give you lady's a big hug.and grope your chubby ass and push up against your bloated boobies mmmmm bloated boobies....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Did someone say brownies are available. 😋
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' ...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. Really?? Or are you just saying that to get big, huge, brownie points?? lolYou have got to look after the special ones in your life :) i do like brownies btw
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RHP User
13 years ago
I seem to have avoided most of these issue in my life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' ...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. And when guys can do that isn't it ironic that half that fat bloated and crabby feeling women get can just disappear instantly? Hugs can make your arse shrink. It's a miracle. I love hugs! Best medicine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why even bother going over such an integral part of being a woman? Just get over it an stop being miserable. If you felt great all the time it wouldn't give you the opportunity to appreciate those wonderful highs!I don't think its terribly sexy to go over every single detail of how miserable you feel at certain times. Talk to your girl friends. I'm sure it will help. If I was a man I definitely wouldn't want to know every single detail. Sure men need to be aware of how their lady is feeling, be empathetic and be understanding but any in touch guy would know what it was about. Feeling sorry for yourself just isn't that attractive!
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RHP User
13 years ago
And that's why we have our sheds!!! The man cave so to speak....it's because we understand, but would really like to survive :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chemo sorted that out for me lol........wait till you get the hot flushes foxy lol......they are fuckn awful and energy sapping. lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
The women who are truly special to me are, in my eyes, beautiful/sexy/gorgeous 24/7. I hope they always know that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' Hugs can make your arse shrink. It's a miracle. That is so true! And Amicus75, can I be your next ex-wife?
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RHP User
13 years ago
A few cocktails to warm up, six courses of fabulous Thai food, a couple of bottles of great wine, and the best gelato in Sydney for desert Friday night, and we both had a bit of a slow bloated day yesterday.Does that count?Mr C
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RHP User
13 years ago
that I love you both with all my heart Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' ...That I just give you ladies a hug and remind you that your beautiful. Quoting 'Amicus75' Many was the time I did the midnight run for naprogesic (spelling?) or other pills to help with the pain... the 2am hot water bottle run... the 4am hug when she was crying and couldn't explain why. Did love the chocolate and movie times :). The only thing a man can do is hug, love/care and accept whatever is thrown at them (as long as it is not a knife... that can be scary). My first GF used to freak out because I was ready with all the equipment the day her period arrived and couldn't work out how someone could know that "one of those days" was coming. Am thinking that some men do get it and just pick up on the vibes... and some men also know how to deal with it, though the dealing is different with every woman (some hate a man being empathic to the situation, as per my ex wife).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I feel like that quite often, taking into account the mood swings, the fact that I am the only male at my place of work, the fact that I want to bang all the beautiful but stupid juniors I work with, while secretly hating them for being so thin and gorgeous and stupid, the twenty-seven shades of inferiority complex even though I'm practically assistant-supervisor, on top of which I count calories and watch what I eat rather obsessively, if and not when I choose to eat - all this topped off by the fact that all of the women in my life don't even see me as a sexual prospect much less a sexual being. Having to put up with that constant bitching, and the break-ups and all the new-agey talk of crystals and tarot cards is simply infuriating, even more so than the fact that none of these girls can stick to the fucking subject for more than a minute at a time. At least when I was 65kgs I was happy goddamn it. Seriously, do I look like I have anorexia? God no. Holy crap.That is all.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AttentiveLover50' Digging a hole here goodnight all 😉- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
PMS, a bloke I know it got him his fuck'n missus shot him :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Know what a woman's fat day is & if they do I don't think they'll care. I'm having a fat day today. I have a head cold, a sore throat with a gland the size of a golf ball in my neck, a wisdom tooth cutting and its that time of the month. So I am sore, tired and cranky yet I am still asked to take some sexy photos of myself!!! Aarrrgggg you know who you are Mr lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'I feel like that quite often, taking into account the mood swings, the fact that I am the only male at my place of work, the fact that I want to bang all the beautiful but stupid juniors I work with, while secretly hating them for being so thin and gorgeous and stupid, the twenty-seven shades of inferiority complex even though I'm practically assistant-supervisor, on top of which I count calories and watch what I eat rather obsessively, if and not when I choose to eat - all this topped off by the fact that all of the women in my life don't even see me as a sexual prospect much less a sexual being. Having to put up with that constant bitching, and the break-ups and all the new-agey talk of crystals and tarot cards is simply infuriating, even more so than the fact that none of these girls can stick to the fucking subject for more than a minute at a time. At least when I was 65kgs I was happy goddamn it. Seriously, do I look like I have anorexia? God no. ummm funny to read your rant.....i think you need a big chill pill..and with that over active attitude it is no wonder your not getting laidbahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I feel like that quite often, taking into account the mood swings, the fact that I am the only male at my place of work, the fact that I want to bang all the beautiful but stupid juniors I work with, while secretly hating them for being so thin and gorgeous and stupid, the twenty-seven shades of inferiority complex even though I'm practically assistant-supervisor, on top of which I count calories and watch what I eat rather obsessively, if and not when I choose to eat - all this topped off by the fact that all of the women in my life don't even see me as a sexual prospect much less a sexual being. Having to put up with that constant bitching, and the break-ups and all the new-agey talk of crystals and tarot cards is simply infuriating, even more so than the fact that none of these girls can stick to the fucking subject for more than a minute at a time. At least when I was 65kgs I was happy goddamn it. Seriously, do I look like I have anorexia? God no. Love You Badly in a Man Way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Best thing I ever did!!!!! Obviously for medical reasons. I am horny everyday, my sex life and our sex is out of this world, my libido is dangerous! Sx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep know what you are talking about foxy I had 18 years of once a month moody swings my bum is fat I feel bloated and all the rest that went with that time of the month with my ex. No matter how much I tried to be sympethic,loving,caring and understanding it always seemed I did it wrong. After being with someone that had a bad monthly I was so glad it wasn't me who was getting the cramps ECT that went with it, I do take my hat of to you women who have a bad month.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's not a Fat Day it's a F%!#ed Day!!! A day when he should have you tucked in bed, pumped full of chicken soup, lemsip, pannadol and have the blinds drawn and the phone unplugged... and tomorrow he should have your doctors appointment already booked and the car warm to take you... Sexy pic's... WTF!?!?!?? Quoting 'sazzledazzle'Know what a woman's fat day is & if they do I don't think they'll care. I'm having a fat day today. I have a head cold, a sore throat with a gland the size of a golf ball in my neck, a wisdom tooth cutting and its that time of the month. So I am sore, tired and cranky yet I am still asked to take some sexy photos of myself!!! Aarrrgggg you know who you are Mr lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The fat days, and days of a woman's menstruation I'd like to hereby rename to "intimacy focus" days......no it doesn't mean sex.....nope it doesn't mean hiding under a rock or in our man cave lol :p albeit it's not a bad idea lol But days, and just one week, where us as men concentrate on the finer things..... That doesn't mean being a suck job either, waiting beck and call....you'll drive your lady nuts. But, simply run her a bath....give her a foot rub/back rub, you'll be surprised at how therapeutic it really is.....AND it really does help to shift fluid guys..... If you don't think that's all that up your alley, a gift certificate to a day spa does wonders :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
What am I to say here ? I am a bloke, I do not feel what a woman goes though physically during her menstral cycle, I can try to understand it, but I'll never experience it myself. I can empathise with her and, as sirlurkalot says, I can hug and cuddle her, but beyond her sharing her life and experiences with me, I am helpless. If you choose to block a man out of your life, then what can he do ? If you choose to open your life to someone, the the sky is the limit......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' I'd like to hereby rename to "intimacy focus" days......no it doesn't mean sex.....nope it doesn't mean hiding under a rock or in our man cave lol :p albeit it's not a bad idea lol But, simply run her a bath....give her a foot rub/back rub, you'll be surprised at how therapeutic it really is..... If you don't think that's all that up your alley, a gift certificate to a day spa does wonders :p- Posted from rhpmobile It truly is a good idea!!!!! Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
When women have these days, I suppose some men would feel rejection??..I for one know when I am having these days just want to be myself because feeling rather unsexy. Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
yea.....i remember them, but......age has its benefits, and no more 'fat days', is certainly one of them.... now every day seems like all the others....sexy....no cycles equals no changes...yippeee!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fat days? No I sometimes have fat weeks, you know when you can't stop eating!!! I still feel very amorous though. To be honest I just say I am feeling really bloated and fat and I feel like a huge rolly polly but it usually doesn't put me off sex. Not with people I know well anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now someone mentioned the scales haven't changed. I don't know about that although I have always been to scared to test the theory. All I know is one week something will fit and the next week I can put the same thing on and I can barely breath in it and feel very uncomfortable.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That happens to me with jeans...that's why I own about ten pairs of them (8-12)...I always put it down to the zippers...I reckon they are faulty some days.. FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
Awwwww! You really are a very caring sweet Guy aren't You .Your vibes are telling me so too . If you do that, Man are you in for a treat when she's at the Peak of her Sexuality . Because your Kindness will be rewarded in Spades for being so comforting when she was feeling ugly teary and like crap.. Way to Go You Tiger :) Enjoy Lu
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RHP User
13 years ago
With two young women in my life, I SO get the "fat arse, bloated boobies, bloated stomach feeling" that my girls go through. All I can do is give them a cuddle, tell them that I love them, and ask them if they've done the washing up yet? Probably explains why I have so many broken plates :-P But on a serious note, a big hug and a listening ear followed by a word of encouragement helps them to cope with their ever changing body and moods. :-)
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