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Fantasy Is Reality Not Lived

June 14 2010

Fantasy is nothing more than Reality not yet lived by it's creator. S&M, Man on Man, Female on Female, 3somes, 4somes, Orgies, Dominace, Submission, Role Play, Masturbation, Voyerism, Pornographic Photagrapy. We all have some fantasy that has lingered in our minds, our dreams, our subconscious mind for days, months, years, a life time. Timid, or scared of what someone may say if they knew our fantasies. Conformed to believe that we as a society must be proper, pristeen, and honorable. Yet, have you ever asked yourself these people who feel this is how you are to be...What is their fantasy? No one can deny having some passion unfulfilled. Some desire burning inside them to get out. Wether we choose to keep these buried deep under cover or accept they are just an extension of us is our choice.Raised catholic was a brutal, strict way of life. It took me along time to realize this is my life. My Choices, My Dreams, My Desires, My Reality. I have the right to choose and be who I want. I have the right to indulge in my desires, my fantasies without worry of who doesn't approve. My choices may not be what someone else would do, but I'm not them and they are not me.Yes, I have had female on female, role play, S&M, and more. To me these are just expereriences of life. We wont know what we are or what we will become unless we are strong enough to first take the chance to live out some of our dreams and fantasies. There are somethings I would take back, others I wouldn't trade for anything. All in all, I allowed myself the choice to take "MY" fantasies, some anyway, and make them "MY" reality.Are you ready? Take the step. Allow yourself to be you. Remember, Our Life, Our Fantasy, Our Reality. Kisses, Hugs, And Ass Slaps!! Shae xx

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well said Shae... I totally agree with what you say about taking the step, you'll never know if you don't give it a go... personally I have few sexual fantasies remaining as I took the plunge into the depths of my own fantasy resolutions a while back... and yes I would have done some things different, but all in all they were all experiences, some allowed me to understand better, whilst others allowed me to realise the "that's not for me" understanding. I am now on a different track in my sexual life... I've stepped out of my "comfort zone" and starting (well trying to start) something I have always thought about doing but didn't have the courage (or means) to try... although in its early stages, I am enjoying myself and having some fantastic fun... so peeps... it's not going to sort itself if you don't put yourself out there to find it... and follow your fantasy mind and turn it into reality!!!! Tiger xx

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tamworthguy46

16 years ago

Well said shae, and great pics on your profile, and I'm sure you probably fit into most peoples fantasies that are on here anyway... Love and peace, And Ass slaps !....Tam.

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RHP User

16 years ago

yeah shae,,,,,i couldnt have said it better ,,,,,,,,,,,a fantasie unfullfilled ,,,,,,,will always be an unfullfilled fantasie ,,,,,,,,love your kink baby .............

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RHP User

16 years ago

You are so right Shae..... We do get constrained with what is considered right or wrong .... it's something that I find myself doing from time to time ..... and then you have to stop and think ... and go .... you know what ... it feels good ..... I have been single for 10months ... after being in a very long relationship ..... and that relationship with very "straight" for want of a better word ..... we did not even have porn in our house .... cos is wasnt the 'right' thing to do ... So now ... i am trying to be comfortable with me ... and what I want .... to try new things ...... testing the yeah ok not ok boundries....

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RHP User

16 years ago

It can take you anywhere, you want to go, especially with the right attitude (and playmate!)Choose your own adventure, turn to page? 69, stop over at?, climb aboard for? with? and keep smiling :)The challenge facing most of us, is to find genuine people, who want to join us, in making these fantasies a reality...some people have their own hidden agenda and prefer to poke their noses into the fantasy genre but specialise in time wasting...

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey Shae... Wow... Im impressed.. what you wrote was very well thought out and expessed so well. Fantasies can be anything you want them to be..' whatever it is the mind creates makes it special and unique to the dreamer. Yes' a fantacy is a unlived part of our life and if left as a unforfilled fantacy becomes a waste of our individual needs. We live by society rules which too often have a limiting effect on the things we want to do vs the things we are expected to do. Over the last few years we opened our mind to a few of the things we only use to dream about. Some of the things we dreamed about are now a reality and we have a overwhelming sense of acheivement and satisfaction. Coming face to face with your fantasies is a unreal adrenilan buzz' a lil frightening sometimes but never regretable. We have never indulged in anything that would hurt anyone and there will always be those you just would never let in on your adventure's.. anyway' it ceases becoming a fantacy if everyone knew exactly whats on your mind...huh ? Dream on babe' I see many many arse slaps coming your way... Mr JJ x

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RHP User

16 years ago

Wow I love that impressive to be bound by desire to explore the forbidden fruit Of our minds is it not where we all want to go xoxo

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RHP User

16 years ago

As others have said, your comments are well thought out and expressed clearly. Some fantasies will remain just that, others . . . .I hope I get the courage to fulfill them. WILDly impressed

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RHP User

16 years ago

mmmmm theres someone who knows how to live :):)

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RHP User

16 years ago

your a very expresive and inteligent young lady shae ,,,,,,,,must be the chatholic upbringing ,,,,,,,,,food for thought ,,,,,,,

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