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Face pics
April 10 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
Dubious.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
And nope. I would not meet with anyone where I hadn't seen face pics. The old "I can't show my face" excuse just doesn't cut it; there are many people on this site whose workplace wouldn't be thrilled with their presence here, but it is an adult site for people who wish to engage in consensual acts with others. My advice...remove access to your gallery. Politely but firmly let them know you won't meet unless you can have face oic access. Likely result...they will disappear. Highly doubtful they would ever show up for a meet, even if you agreed to it without having seen their faces. So move on to people who don't put barriers in place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
For me it would be a no. Whilst it’s great to connect mentally and be stimulated that way - faces pics are a must. Who do you know who you are talking to otherwise: One and only time it happened in the past was a definite miss.. the couple showed up, spoke in front of us in another language to each other more than once and then after some talk left. It’s about respect. Everyone requires discretion. Everyone potentially has something to lose here in the confines of normal day to day life I’d discovered however respect each other enough so that if someone shows you face pics then it’s reciprocated. And no it’s not about tit for tat - it’s about respect - mutual respect. You want something from someone then you give them the same in return, man, woman, couples, single , other - don’t ask of someone what you aren’t prepared to give back.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Let’s focus on the facts.... 1. They have your face pics 2. They are seemingly interested in meeting. 3. Meeting would enable you to see their faces Exactly what is their issue??? My guess is they’re never going to meet you....
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RHP User
7 years ago
So they won’t even show their face pics via other means? Not looking good, but if it comes to an actual meet being organised well what have you got to loose. If they don’t show have a plan B and it they do show and they are not your thing at the very least you had a night out.
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privatecpl4u
7 years ago
Suspicious, but what the hell its a fifty fifty chance of how it will turn out. Go for it what have you got to loose? We have met a few nice people in this same scenario.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
NEVER do it. Completely suspect.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
I'm actually taken aback that you've been chatting for a few weeks WITHOUT seeing face pics. If they're not shared willingly after about 2 or 3 messages, i will request. If at that time they don't share then I jump ship. I wouldn't have indentured "weeks" of my time on someone that could be Sloth from the Goonies or a colleague.
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abab1
7 years ago
We're one of those ones that didn't show face pics online. Until recently we ran private parties in Townsville and met a lot of local people. There are lots of awesome people here but a few odd ones too. We met everyone that came to our parties for a coffee or cam chat instead to make sure everyone was genuine and friendly. They got to see our faces there. It worked really well as a face pic on a site may not be theirs, be photoshopped, really old or 30 kgs ago!
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Hhhmm weeks of chat .... that's a longtime if it's consistent chat ! I don't understand why the excuses of not wanting to show face pic's from a private gallery which you can take away access at anytime YET they will say I can send you a pic via email which you will always have (screams married man playing alone to me) We/I won't ever meet without seeing face and full body shots, basically we just end up saying we will be at a club hope to see you there or if they are worried about being seen there too then a quick drink to meet before we head out. If they don't show no loss to us. There is also video chat on several apps to verify someone and this is a must for us with singles (M or F), if it turns out to be who they say they are a definite boob flash is going to happen Mrs H
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RHP User
7 years ago
Abab1 - cam chat is ok.. at least everyone gets to see everyone before fronting to a face to face situation and not being sure who they will meet.. I understand people not wanting face pics on here (even given the private galleries and the control over who views them) but given the copious messaging apps available there’s really no reason to not share via one of those methods. And for me again, it comes back to mutual respect. If you want and ask something of someone then you give them the same respect in return.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks every one for your thoughts As I work fifo the chats have been ongoing and via another app.... Every one is different, but we prefer too see a face pic before we meet
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privatecpl4u
7 years ago
Hey abab1. You guys do hold awesome parties and you are correct sometimes a face to face meet, Skype, FaceTime is the way to go as pics online are not always good representation of people or yourself. If they don’t agree to any of the above. Walk away.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you are so worried about showing your face because of “your work” then don’t get onto these sites.... simple.... and honestly, it’s Cairns, no one is THAT important (except in their own lunchbox maybe) that they have to remain hidden.... and IF they did actually turn up to a meet, would they be wearing a Donald Trump mask to hide their identity? Some people are far too full of their own self importance to be given the benefit of time let alone anything else
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Cuckcouple and OP.... Are you the same couple?
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
StueyJay well said👍🏻 I won't FaceTime or cam or phone call with anyone..... not even people i know, let alone people i don't lol If a person is interested enough to message me and they dont furnish me with a facepic then I'll NEVER be interested enough to put any time or effort into meeting them face to face.... its ok, that's a no from me, enjoy the site and i move onto the next message. Simples.
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DonnaBrett
7 years ago
They are time wasters. If people don't share face pics with first message we aren't interested...sometimes we'll wait for a second message if their profile seems amazing but that's it. One couple actually messaged us some time ago, and even gave a phone number so we could text. They saw our faces upfront but wouldn't show theirs. They said they prefer to meet in person. When we insisted on seeing faces first they got really nasty with abusive messages and then had the audacity to call us rude. It was bizarre.
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Timmers
7 years ago
Nope just nope. I mean how would they feel if you turn up and be like um no thanks. Sorry but that could happen then who’s fault is it 🤷♂️
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RHP User
7 years ago
YOu would have to go with your gut feeling on that
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thecatsmeowaus
7 years ago
Delete access to your PG and check if they have the black tick icon from RHP. We only chat with verified or validated profiles. If they are, then push to meet. If they delay significantly just delete their dumb ass. Many times we have had our time wasted by catfish profiles and uncommitted participants.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The guys who say " But I HAVE pics up". Yes mate but they are out of focus, blurred face or wearing a cap and shades and standing a mile away from the camera. Still dodgy.
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RHP User
7 years ago
??? This is coming from a Guy,that seems to be a couple that want to meet us when we go to Cairns.. But his wife cannot be there to join in as she will be at work?????
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RHP User
7 years ago
Personally.. we qont meet without seeing face pics.
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anieelad
7 years ago
Def a 'no go' from us. We both have careers where disretion is detrimental but still share face pics before meeting.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If they can't show you their face sets off red flags for me. Are they really tho they say they are? Are they even a couple?
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like2watchNplay
7 years ago
Is their profile verified or validated? If not they are mostly likely fake or super time wasters. A lot of us on here are in professional jobs and or business owners so that excuse is a cop out, and not that that should matter anyway, it doesn’t matter who you are, discretion should be given to everyone on here. And to be honest, if they think they are all that and above everyone else then they certainly wouldn’t be the sort of people we would be interested in meeting.
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the2ofus4you
7 years ago
Soft couple Thanks for that feed back It was a polite way of saying the wife was not interested in you
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RHP User
7 years ago
Be out and proud face on your profile. This is a lifestyle not a crime!
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RHP User
7 years ago
While I do understand some peoples privacy, I absolutely hate when we get asked for more pics (even after allowing access to our private album) and not see at least a nice normal face/profile pic. I usually delete profiles that do so because I feel that the respect is not mutual. "I'll show you mine, if you show me yours" 🤣
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Deep_Love
7 years ago
Quoting 'stueyjay45' If you are so worried about showing your face because of “your work” then don’t get onto these sites.... simple.... and honestly, it’s Cairns, no one is THAT important (except in their own lunchbox maybe) that they have to remain hidden.... and IF they did actually turn up to a meet, would they be wearing a Donald Trump mask to hide their identity? Some people are far too full of their own self importance to be given the benefit of time let alone anything else I disagree Stuejay45!!!! there are primary school teachers in the lifestyle that work for religious schools that risk being giving the sack, day care providers, youth counselors, psychologists, people that work for serving members of parliament or council... the list goes on.Me thinks you haven't thought too deeply about this.~ Mrs Deep_Love
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Deep_Love
7 years ago
Quoting 'softcpl' ??? This is coming from a Guy,that seems to be a couple that want to meet us when we go to Cairns.. But his wife cannot be there to join in as she will be at work????? Bahahahaha
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sensualcple2play
7 years ago
That'd be a no for us! If they're prepared to meet show the faces. Time wasters most likely
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sounds like a fake profile to me.
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
So many people on here are so quick to judge with such little information, I do hope their performance in bed lasts a little longer! With a little more information we can see that only the man was willing to meet as his partner wasn’t interested in the other guy...but hasn’t even seen his face yet...and if the description of “fit European man” holds true then why wasn’t she interested? So I’d be more suspicious about the party that was happy to share pics of his wife but she wasn’t “available” to meet. I have mentioned in another forum that reverse photo searches can easily lead to identities being found so it’s no wonder people who want to keep their private lives private may be reluctant to give out their digital fingerprints!
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Readyfors0mefun
7 years ago
We once took a gamble on meeting a guy without him giving us a face pic, we did chat extensively and it worked out a great afternoon of fun for the three of us but would we do it again... No way . I so understand some may work in sensitive jobs but there is just too many dodgy people around.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If a couple or an individual don’t want to share face pics then we just move on and politely say goodbye. No one has time to waste with people they are not taken by. We love making friends and meeting new people but no face pics, no chat. Simple.
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RHP User
7 years ago
No way
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RHP User
7 years ago
No face pic no meet. Some people have great bodies but then the face isnt what i like and its better to know that after the first message then when you are out. The face is the most important thing.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We’re happy to share face pictures from the start as we no longer really care who sees us. We do go a little cold on the couples who don’t like to show you their faces and turn our time to those who do.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have come across guys sendinding photos and its not them? How do you know if photos are of them or someone else?
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RHP User
6 years ago
We exchange face photos with people from the start. If other side doesn’t respond in 24 hours, we cancel access to our albums. We just got approached by a single dude who sent a cock picture and asked if we are looking for mmf, when we asked to see his face, he just said “nah”. I blocked and erased him. Plenty of fish in the sea. Same with couples and everyone else. If we started to talk and face photos are refused, it’s all over. Worst case scenario send them over KIK. With couples we ask to see both people together in a photo as to prove it’s not a single dude. Little things like this makes a difference.
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