RHP

RHP User

M37

Ego Booster Profiles

May 27 2012

As my time on this site continues to grow I have noticed more and more that there are a lot of users on this site (and others of similar nature) that are here purely to recieve compliments and not make any move. Now this isn't a bad thing, that is if they clearly state it in their profile, but they do not. I like many actually read profiles in detail before I make any move, whether an innitial flirt or message, I make sure that I have a shot at getting along with said user. But more and more I do not recieve responses although comparing profiles we are a direct match. Now I am not here to start flaming anyone or any gender in particular, but I am sorry to say many of these users are females. And from people I have spoken with this isn't a one off thing. Now like I said above I am fine with people having ego booster profiles, it is not a bad thing, if your feeling overly self conscious through out the day, what is better than coming home logging onto this site and reading a tonne of messages telling you how gorgeous you are, but let people know that you don't intend on making any moves, because there are users on this site that use it for meeting people, and these users may find it hard to interact with people they don't know in public, whether they are shy, low self esteem, or medical or pschological conditions that makes meeting new people difficult.   I know I may be rambling and seeming quite angry, but I just want people to be honest and corteous, if someone sends you a message and your not interested send a reply, they went to the effort of paying for the account, reading your profile, typing a message and sending it to you, the least you can do is thank them for the message and let them know whether they have a shot or not.   Thanks Dream   P.s. One of the main reasons I use this site is because I have had depression for over 10 years of my life and find it very hard to approach anyone in public that I do not know personally.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If you are male and suffer from depression this is not the place you want to be. The same anonymity that affords you confidence to approach a female allows the female to totally disregard common courtesy. Or maybe it's just the overload of attention females seem to get on here.If every guy on the street was coming up to me and asking me if I wanted to meet/have sex it wouldn't be long before I dropped my typical polite responses. And you shouldn't take it personally, but there will always be richer/better looking/better built/hung/more confident guys approaching the same girls you are.If I were you I'd be working on solving the problem (depression/lack of confidence) rather than trying to find a way around it.