superfumi

superfumi

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Does she like me?

August 20 2017

There's a married women at work. She's asked me out for coffee twice (not work related) and always lingers longer than the time we allowed, she seems to always notice me and laugh around me, she emailed me when she moved desks to tell me she can see me now from her desk and she got my number off the company directory and texted me when she was running late for coffee when she could have just emailed. These are the main things but there are others. Does she like me, or am I imagining this? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Have you asked her? Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    She thinks about you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't know but what if her and her hubby are swingers? They might be okay with it and that would not be cheating at all. Perhaps bring up the subject of swinging and see what are her thoughts. If her and her hubby are swingers, would you take a leap and share her with hubby? Food for thought. Just saying, there are closet swingers out there, that closet that if they come out and admit it to others they may be judged. What if she is a hotwife?

  • superfumi

    superfumi

    8 years ago

    Thanks - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Maybe that'll help?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Knowing she's married.... but not the circumstances within the marriage...... ... what are you prepared to do. I think you need to have a conversation with her about this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Take the admiration for what it is, enjoy her company and hopefully it doesn't turn into anything awkward - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    She does indeed. Careful of the work dynamic. Best of luck!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Its kinda creepy, the way she has got your number from the company directory and what she said when she moved office desk. I think she's kinda obsessive over you. I would watch your back there. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It definitely sounds like she's keen on you from what you have said. Particularly the comment about being able to see you from her desk. Fun :p

  • superfumi

    superfumi

    8 years ago

    Thanks everyone. She's not creepy though, she's lovely. I'll have to be careful sounding her out given the work setting. I'm open-minded about a hotwife arrangement, done that before. Superboi82 - typo get over it. You're very clever though, well done. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I say go for it. Married women really put out 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Are notoriously thick at picking up signals even blatant ones (yes personal experience!). And yet (some) women can lead you on and then deny all responsibility when you call them on it. It's work, tread carefully, I do think it's time to call her out just be really careful your response can't be used against you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I dunno if she likes you or the interactions you two share.... But... My way of seeing it is that she's married....you know she's married, so does she....whilst she may not be happily married it's a good sign for me to just enjoy what you share without ever progressing it....after all You don't know their situation and often concussions from upset husbands aren't a laughing matter.... If she's that hell bent on having you, she'll make a move herself....then it's up to you to then address the marriage stuff....until then leave it the hell alone.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I saw some statistic once, it was like 80% of affairs start at work.Adding that to the 70% or so of marriages that end because of infidelity, one could surmise that 56% of marriages end at work lol best call worksafe about her

  • superfumi

    superfumi

    8 years ago

    Thanks all, appreciate the advice. Think I'll tread carefully and see if she makes it more blatant. At least I know I'm not imagining it now. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    Its all about receiving acknowledgement that we are attractive to others. So some flirting, suggestions etc in the safety of the work place where it is known she is married may only be her seeking some vaildation that she is an attractive and desirable woman. Be careful....very careful.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You could stuff up work and/or her marriage. Big load to carry

  • superfumi

    superfumi

    8 years ago

    She was the first person I got a birthday text from today - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Only just saw your above post. Happy Birthday for yesterday. Hope you had a great day. Where's the love here hey? 😜 So she sent you a birthday text hmm keep us posted on any developments lol 😇

  • superfumi

    superfumi

    8 years ago

    Haha, thanks! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I recon SUPERFUMI wants to see bout 90% percent of himself IN HIS female hotwife co-worker. And if he leaves 10 percent out he won't get"right up in her" and get her preggers.😆 I love stats.. just makes crazy work crew sex more believable . Have you mentioned about married people who are swingers yet???? Something might be brewing and you have not tappped that thought yet. That question would eliminate so many unknowns. You can always start by....a friend of mine... who is a swinger...what is you opinion about swingers. All jokes aside HAPPY late B-day bro.👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't think you're imagining anything Superfumi.