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Dining at the Y - Most Memorable?

May 05 2026

The delightful @nightglider recently asked what makes a memorable BJ. I'd like to flip the question, ladies. What's been your most memorable "dining at the Y" experience — and what made it unforgettable? Let me set the scene from last night. The silk blindfold. Wrists tied above her head. Nowhere to go. Nothing to do but feel. What followed was forty-five minutes of deliberate, unhurried attention — the kind that says I have all the time in the world, and right now you are the only thing in it. Lips, teeth, breath moving slowly down her body. Brushing past every place she wanted to be touched. Not landing. Not yet. There's a particular kind of tension that builds when someone knows exactly what they're doing and chooses to wait. When every almost-touch is a promise. When the restraint of the person giving is the thing that undoes you. She asked. Then she asked again. When I finally used my teeth to ease her underwear aside — taking my time even then — I had every intention of drawing this out further. Of edging her right to the cliff and pulling her back. She had other ideas. One arch of her back, and it was over before I'd barely started. Which, honestly? Is its own kind of compliment. So tell me — what's the experience that's stayed with you? Was it the patience? The surprise? The way someone made you feel like the only thing worth paying attention to? What made it memorable?

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RHP User

one month ago

Hopefully this one gets some input. It’s good to get insight from different people the whole idea and knowing that it probably takes even more mental awareness and understanding than regular sex because it’s so intimate. Hope to see some feedback it’s good for anyone to read if they are genuinely interested in the act. If you’re just doing it for them they will notice plus you’re just better at doing stuff you like and that energy will show.

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nightingale8

one month ago

I don’t have memorable experiences rather than memorable people in mind. Those great at giving head are few and that’s fine. There are so many aspects to sex one can enjoy. What separates the gods from the good is whether they can kiss your lips with the same softness, lingering and precision. Varying intensity to meet where I’m at.

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PandaAndBri

one month ago

I have a motor that’s a little harder to run, so for me patience and the want to be there (as you may be there for a while) is key. The slow and steady until I ask for more. I am a classy restaurant meal, not a quick takeout that’s ready in 10 mins. Ability helps. Some guys don’t have a clue and don’t want to learn or see it as a chore. The more mature man ie. over 30 I have found has more skill and also a love for the act. The most memorable- I have a few now recently due to the lifestyle. Hope to have a lot more.

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RHP User

23 days ago

There was a guy I met up with on here. He was the best I ever had. He was really, really into it. Like he’s been in prison for 10 years or something.

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