Different Women, Different Preparation?

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  austeuro

  6 days ago

  I prepare differently for each woman. it depends on how much you care about that person. what kind of mental connection you have. what she likes or dislikes in sex. everything depends from person to person. just as not all women are the same, I also think that her bodies are not the same either. I think that men should get to know their body and mental strength in order to be able to give a woman what she deserves. and every man should prepare as much as possible that day or the day before sex. now what kind of preparation is it depends on the man to man and how much they know their body and the known person with whom they have to meet

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  tothehouseholder

  6 days ago

  I always think about my appearance, beard neatly trimmed, body hair maintained, and appropriate clothing for the location and timing. If its a first meet and I don't know much about you, I always want to dress to impress, but not be out of place. Same goes for mindfulness about kissing, breath, oral hygiene and all body hygiene. As for orgasms and physical play, remaining aware ( when possible) of myself and my partner gives me more pleasure, and her too. Even applies to language, being aware of what I say and how I give flattery.

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  KnightsTale

  5 days ago

  Being well groomed (depending on the current FWB preferences). Body looked after... Limiting food on the day. Maybe the gym... Unless it's been a tough work day. Always taking care of hygiene. Washed every morning and make time before any meet ups of work was filthy. So many things to think about... And plenty of pressure. Only really go for the FWB's now that don't expect things of me. Respect my personal space. And open to experimenting with stuffff.. really I put in as much effort as the friend does :) hygiene is a must though aha

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  nutsundae

  5 days ago

  oh, preparing differently is interesting. I'd never considered that. For me personally, I don't think any physical preparation changes, but levels of excitement, anticipation, butterflies and any nervousness all vary depending on the upcoming date, party etc.. I'd always just assumed my preparation is 'normal', but now realise my only frame of reference - other than the other blokes who have already replied here - is me, so I don't even really know what 'normal' is in respect to date preparation. It starts the day before for me. Careful topiary pruning of the Lake Como gardens, shaving my noggin, and little things like making sure nails are super trim, with no sharp edges etc. I then do a second pass of everything the day of, along with a long, hot shower as close to the event as possible to relax (and get all sparkly clean). Clothing depends on the situation, but I do like to put effort in and present well, as the vast majority of women in my experience appreciate a well dressed gent. For a party, I'll have one drink prior to take the edge off the nerves and eat a light-ish meal. I know many don't eat at all prior to or during a play party, but I find I need to eat something beforehand. Finally, a spray of cologne and a a squeeze of breath spray on arrival. In terms of the preparatory question: to cum or not to cum, I'm a slow burner, so it's a no for me. Particularly as I've gotten older, I love experiences that are super long and unrushed, so I try to ensure to keep at least one day recovery in between if I know they're both going to be all-day events. The irony of gaining skill with age, but needing to be judicious in it's application.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 days ago

  This is actually a more interesting question than it first appears. I think most people (male/female) prepare differently depending on who they're meeting. Men often get stereotyped as just turning up, but I suspect there's more planning involved than women realise. Some dates get a quick shower and deodorant snd skip the nail trimming and cleaning. While others involve a full military operation, including cleaning their shoes. As for your FWB's strategy, I was always under the impression that if a man has a wank the night before or prior meeting, he's more likely to last longer. Happy to be corrected by the men if I've got that wrong. So many theories! Ms Foxy

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  MrandMrsEyes

  5 days ago

  Preparing for a meet or event is actually very nerve racking for me personally and weather it be meeting a couple or eavin just another man to join us . The wories are always the same performance and stamina are always a worying point and for this doing my self or having sex prior to a meet definitely helps but not just with the lasting longer it helps calm nerves and clear thorts witch is something that realy plays a huge part im a new meet for me . I have found it harder to come with others weather it be a comfort thing or some times it just dosent happen evrey meet is different.

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  Unbecoming

  5 days ago

  I'm really appreciating this post and the thoughtful answers given x I have a date/meet planned for Thursday and I am already prepping. I'm not sure what it is like for other women on rhp but I get asked numerous times a day if I will meet spontaneously on the day that we start talking 🤦‍♀️ It's lovely to be reminded there are some really decent men here that take the time and effort before meeting

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  lonly54

  5 days ago

  I was seeing a girl on the side and she wanted me to wank during the day before we met up that night so I lasted longer

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  PandaAndBri

  5 days ago

  I am loving this conversation and seeing that some guys really put in the effort. Panda and I prep for any play dates/ parties by abstaining for a couple of days before hand. As we are new still it is the nerves that play a part so if we are a little toey that can make a difference for climaxing /success… or not. Then the prep on the night, shower, shave for him earlier in the day do the skin has settled back after the razor. Extra moisturising and concentrating on what scents for both of us will set the mood. For both of us choice of underwear plays a big part as well as choice of outter wear. Planning and prep for us is important.

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  Talldark1

  4 days ago

  This is so true. I’ve found that it’s always better to be as charged up as possible when meeting a couple so you can bring more energy to the date, plus there is more going on to get distracted by. But when I’m having sex with women 1:1, the speed at which they can finish me off varies a lot yet is surprisingly consistent for each person. It’s hard to tell whether the cause is physical or a certain kind of energy, I just know that for some people it’s better for me to hold off for a day or two to make sure I don’t last too long, while for others I need to cum quite close to the date to make sure I can last long enough! It’s not the case that fast necessarily means they are ‘more attractive’ to me - whatever the mystery reason is, I find it very interesting.

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  Still_us

  4 days ago

  As the guy from this profile, I have never really thought about a different preparation for meeting different women. I believe it’s important to dress well, being casual or more dressed up depending on the meeting place. Also to smell nice (my preference is Jean Paul Gaultier), not to eat for some time beforehand, and trim and partly shave down below. It’s important to be considerate and respectful, and to just be yourself. I’m not sure of any benefit in jerking off the night before, so I haven’t gone down that path at all. However, I realise it may be beneficial for some guys to help deal with over excitement issues. I have been regularly meeting a woman friend for over 10 years, and still go through the same preparation beforehand. I also still feel the same level of excitement beforehand as I did before our first meet.

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  CallMeV

  4 days ago

  Confidence is the key. Every woman loves a confident guy. So I prepare myself to boost the confidence in me, physically and mentally. Physically - Rock up at their place well presented, we all know how much effort a lady would put in before a meet up, I gotta respect that, so well presented from “Top to Toe” Mentally - When there is a proper connection established, there won’t be any doubt or confusion. Go on enjoy the time. When a proper connection established, she will understand if you cum a little early. Cum on command is my thing. Cheers

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  Rogereleven

  2 days ago

  Yes absolutely, take for example a 1 on 1 compared to a 3sum with a married couple. The dynamics of the situation are often very different. The expectations are greater, certainly the anticipation that something hot is going to happen is. Hotter than usual! If it’s damn hot 🔥 then all the better. You do need to heighten the sexual tension in order to make it an erotic encounter. After all isn’t that the whole purpose of it? The taboo aspect or the sensual/erotic aspect or the spicy 🌶️ nature of it all contribute to the vibe. Bring your A game boys and save yourself for the main event. As for prep? I think that everyone has the expectation that you look and smell good. That’s a given.

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