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Desperate?
May 06 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wouldn't it be better that HE tell you what's up???
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of course he's jealous, and with that ugly emotion comes the need to make someone feel bad about themselves. It is completely up to you how you take this behaviour...I hope you can see it for what it is and just shrug it off. Whether you are having sex with one person or 200 people is not the point, how YOU feel about yourself is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guy sounds like a dickhead, please tell him for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
just being a bitch. Which given the golden rule of "don't fuck the flatmates" is pretty juvenile. Which of course just proves you were right to cum to us in the first place !
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RHP User
11 years ago
As the Poms say, well out of order regardless of what his mindset is. Sounds a bit like he waiting for you to come home one day and declare your undying love for him. I don't know what his problem is - I have an occasional booty call with a former tenant of mine and we're friends but she's well within her rights to do whatever the hell she wants. Maybe it's time for a frank and open house meeting....
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are a slut if you are sleeping with everyone except him. Wow what a dick. You know it doesn't matter if you have hooked up here or not, he's a dick. No need to be confused about where he's coming from - he's jealous. The hook ups may have meant more to him than they did to you. The way he's expressed it though means he's also a total dick. Ideas? Don't put too much thought into it at all, he's not worth it. Put the effort into finding a new housemate instead. Try not to discuss it again in the meantime, unless he's still a teenager he won't change. Find whatever excuse you need to and move on. You're in a small town and I imagine you have a few friends in common. It's sad, but he may be the sort of dick that will cause trouble for you. And definitely continue to enjoy your sexuality and the single life any way you choose.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You mean that you have had sex with him on occassion..There is a problem right there...he obviously wants more than to just be your housemate..did you not figure this out before?...time for one of you to move xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
He is probably thinking ... why, I am not good enough for you. Don't even discuss it with him, you are not partners If he brings it up again let him know his place. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
pretty much the people who say your are a slut are the ones that are a) jealous cause they are not the one receiving the sex b) mysoginistic aholes who are hypocritical resort to shaming women for wanting and enjoying sex at their own terms. As Simon says (lol) you can avoid him as its none of his god damn business or call him out and say Yep "you will never ever be getting any pussy from me with an attitude like that" Stick to your guns I say and don't let idiots like that change the way you want to live your life. Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jealousy only comes about when someone else is getting what they want. The options as I see them are (as already mentioned), its time for a new flatmate and possibly becoming the object of gossip. After all he has to build his ego somehow and he will sacrifice you as a friend because he wasn't man enough to satisfy you. OR Introduce him to RHP and educate him. If he can't see past his own biases and insecurities then you have no choice but to move on anyway. Good luck and hope it works out for you. LG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks everyone for the replies :), Trust me i wont let him change the way i wanna live. I'm a single women who loves sex. I am picky, but i guess my judgement was way off. Hooking up with him off and on wasn't my smartest move. I did make it clear from the the start we were friends/housemates and nothing more was ever possible. I always wondered if he wanted more, cause he has done this before, guess i got my answer..or maybe its cause im getting sex and his dating his hand.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
has nailed it. Bring him in to rhp, help set him up and guide him. Saves the hassle of new flat mate. And you'll both have a common interest to talk and laugh about along the way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
he's in love with you . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
He is jealous, and obviously likes you much more then a friend and occasional hookup. He's pretty immature tho if he is saying that shit. Sounds like he is the desperate one. He wants what he can't have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
was he snooping? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
To be honest I was a bit disappointed to find out how normal everyone on here was. I was expecting some real eye opening debauchery. And i do know that a lot of people consider this site a hangout for sex crazed sluts (males and females). Turns out there's only a couple of those in residence (you know who you are). It does sound like your housemate is just jealous that strangers can (in his skewed opinion since he doesn't know us) hit you up for casual sex and he cant. I think he's more into you than he's letting on. Happened to a mate of mine. He had to ask her to move out because he couldn't deal with it. Its all just prejudice leading to jealousy from what i can see. He'll get over it, whether he learns more about RHP or not. Or he won't be able to deal and eventually one of you is going to have to make a hard decision.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Firstly you find a site where you can be openly sexual and learn, yearn and develop...but yet ye be cast with the stigmata.... RHP Havent you heard its a sex site So judgemental, its sad the world is so judgemental, I was blind and hiding for years and every now and then there is a man who makes me feel like a slut/whore/wrong for being here.......even if I am just reading and participating in the forums. I heard you say it in your comment OP you defended yourself saying you had never met anyone off here like it was a bad place. Ive done some bad things...but I tell you not enough.
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RHP User
11 years ago
shit, I thought this was were all the sluts hung out? sheeeertttt now i have go look some place else. ya just a bunch of bloody , forum posters goody two shoes. Whats a slut to do? hey hows your flat mate going, can you give him my details? slutsareus dot cum
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your flatmate...... needs to grow up from the brittle and bruised ego with entitlement and ownership mentality. He is projecting his own dissatisfaction with life onto you.
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ocean_man
11 years ago
Sounds like there might be a difference in how you and he see your house sharing relationship with each other.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't hide anything from her, I'm just here for flirty fun. I'm no fool, this isn't tinder or whatever people use. Go to want2bang, now that seems full of NSA woman. Sorry back to OP. Yeah it's an ugly streak I'm afraid. Your friend clearly wants more and as was said really is asking himself 'why don't you want me?' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
in line with the message society gives him.. He as a guy can have several partners and casual sex as part of his "maturing" "growing up" "exploration" "natural sex drive" cos he is a MAN Whereas, if you as a woman have several partners and casual sex you are labelled as a "slut", "easy" "cheap".. Beats me why but I have given up worrying about it :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was in my room reads the forums, and he walked in
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Love_2Please' He is jealous, and obviously likes you much more then a friend and occasional hookup. He's pretty immature tho if he is saying that shit. Sounds like he is the desperate one. He wants what he can't have. He says he doesnt like me anymore than a friend/housemate..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flirty..... heres the explanation He says that is because........ his ego is shielding him from the truth. And that truth is that he wants what other guys are getting.... whether form you or from other women.. and he's not getting it. To him, you are flaunting in his face... what he wants but can't get. So its easier for his ego to protect his insecurities around his own perceived failings...... by criticising you for your life.... than it is to objectively look at, and correct his own. If he was happy, and living the life he wants, of abundance...... he simply wouldn't have time to care. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to agree with twisted mister. NOOOOOOO arghhhh
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