Define a "hardened swinger"

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  How much he was still into it. I renember talking to one guy who said that one on one just didnt do it for him anymore. I prefer one on one so that did put me off.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  We dont swing often. So we prefer couples like ourselfs. We find the excitment and nerves are also good for passion , once the play begins. And have found something missing, with others that play alot. All abit workmen like. But hey thats just our view. Different strokes for different folks - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  A hardened swinger is someone who swings at every given opportunity, with complete strangers / random hookups at clubs/parties , no holes barred, group action scenario. Someone who is not in it to make friends and get to know the others, but is simply after NSA sex and plenty of it. For us, off putting. We would not want to engage with nor play with such types. Different strokes for different folks . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm just grabbin my popcorn for this one 😀

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I don't think a softened swinger has much to offer ?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I would prefer a partner who is somewhat new to engaging in various experiences (assuming they are interested at all). I see many people listing "been there, done that". Which is of course fair enough, but if I'm looking to explore, being with someone who has finished their exploring wouldn't help. And in my opinion, sharing any new experience together (sexual or non-sexual) would be a good bonding activity. Just like travel. You go to new places together, or places you've already been if one or both people liked it enough to return. I've held off on much travel because I would like to share some of that experience with someone, however I have in recent years decided not to hold off on certain sexual fantasies if/when the opportunity arises. As a single male, the only regular events for play are players parties and they attract the "seasoned swingers" type of person, although I certainly have seen many newbies there too, but only because they have made other connections with regulars that attend and/or the particular event has gained a good reputation. But as such they are not necessarily good places to find "a lover or a fwb" as OP mentioned.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  May be I was or maybe I wasn't. But because of my medical condition and erectile dysfunction these days I'm definitely a "soft" swinger

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Well I'm thinking, if it's not hard then there won't be much swinging happening :D - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If someone wants to dish out some abuse or criticism that doesn't take a week to think about !

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Wrong thread.

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