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Dealing with it
November 10 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
So....., is it the stress that is making you horny ?, or, are you using sex / sexual thoughts, to run away from (taking your mind off) or to relieve the stress. ? For me personally, stress does not make me horny, (as I am too stressed :-( but would welcome a partner to take my mind (and body) off the stress (I wish, as I may then look forward to and embrace stress). Yes, sex is a great stress relief, if you have someone that understand you and the stress, and wants to help.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wish I got horny when time stresses happen! I have those tight deadlines at work too, and I tend to just get super focused, whilst at the same time looking for any opportunity to procrastinate, usually by finding extra tasks that don't need to be done, but somehow seem super important at the time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Stress makes me... stressed. Yes, sex can relieve that. But not just any sex, the sex where the other person is really craving to be with you, which makes you feel wanted and valued, in turn helping to relieve stress at other times when they are not there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know who your true friends are in times of need...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im not thinking about sex that much.I even go off solo play. Im hornier when Im happy and things in my life are cruising along nicely.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I'm happy I'm half aroused all the time. When I'm stressed I'm not. The last 2-3 years have been very stressful for me. A few redundancies, Marriage break up, I start chemo on Friday and was let go from my current job today. I've been recently trying to get back in the saddle as a way of meeting new people and trying to unwind a little. Not that I'm to stressed at the moment. I am facing my biggest hurdle in life at the moment and I was trying to figure out how to chat the stunning middle aged woman on the train up.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I've found I take my stress out in a session or 10 of sex. Does it help? Absolutely!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't get horny when I'm stressed and under the pump per se. But If I'm in a relationship then yes, as Single guy states, it is a great stress reliever. But being single and under the pump doesn't make me horny and I agree with Willowtree.As I'm busy at work and life currently, I've actually taken the step of hiding my profile. Why? Because I don't have time to meet anyone. Not even for coffee and I don't want to lead any one on. The extent of my social calendar is these forums, but again only quick visits and maybe a quick visit to the chat room. But its great that others are. Enjoy.
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sweetgem
10 years ago
No, stress doesn't make me horny. It works the opposite actually and I can live on without sex until I'm done with stressing out lol I used to do binge eating when I got stressed, but had to change that habit for health purpose. Nowadays, I either go shopping for clothes or hand cream at my favourite shops, or go see a horror movie at the cinema, or watch some horror movies online until my eyes start gluing together lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
For me to be Annie. I dress and dissolve into my female self. I can leave the stressed male behind for a time and the world seems a nicer place. The worries are gone. Its hard going back sometimes . Few could understand that. I think l'm lucky most of the tme to be able to know But there are times when its all too hard to be 2 persons. And that adds to the stress.....touche. A snowball rolling down the hill.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.... Im with you special K ..... when the world is playing rough, sex is probably the one thing with strong enough emotions to give release ....... works better with pressure ... than say stress which has the opposite effect
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only with someone I know and who cares about me. Delving, I'm out of work and its been very stressful for me, but after reading your post I realise I'm pretty lucky in other ways. I hope everything starts to come together for you....you deserve good luck and positivity from now on xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not as resilient to stress as I should be.... I don't get horny; I get frustrated, anxious, and then I begin to withdraw as I don't wish to snap at people unintentionally due to my anxiety about the situation.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I'm stressed I become horny...well hornier. I like it fast, hard and wild to burn off the adrenaline followed by slow and tender to smooth off the abraded nerves. Does wonders for keeping my blood pressure in the normal range whereas stress just raises it into the danger zone.
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Badbabe469
10 years ago
Hi guys and girls, how are you all? Stress plays a major part in every ones life wether they like it or not. It also effects every one different.I am a BIG supporter of sex releases stress. Can't support it enough. Even to the point I am driving to Vic this weekend to pick up another Sybain to hire out to those who cant afford one. These machines are UNREAL!! Nothing beats stress relief like an intense orgasm! And as most ladies that have tried the Sybain will tell you that they had many of them on it lol BUT more then that - I want to make people orgasm. Release the endorphins within the system. Why? you ask.Releasing endorphins in the system gives you a natural high. Makes you feel better about life and your self. Deeply intense orgasm can help you sleep. These things put together not only reduces stress, but more importantly if had a major effect on depression.I want to help people in the world deal with depression. The only way I can is with jokes and sex..... am I being stupid?Cheers G
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madotara69
10 years ago
Stress is worry about something that has not happened yet, the past is dealt with can't change it and the present, the now..wooops it's gone and in the past already, back to the future worrying about something that has not happened yet. Rather think about sex Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
One of the best ways to relieve stress, is sex and orgasms!While at the same time generally, the more stressed you are the less horny you are!Strange creatures us humans.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can't really say that stress makes me hornier if that is possible but as someone without that regular sexual release from another I let music do the soothing. Like others have mentioned though it is more the company than the sex that helps release that hidden tension known as stress.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' For me to be Annie. I dress and dissolve into my female self. I can leave the stressed male behind for a time and the world seems a nicer place. The worries are gone. Its hard going back sometimes . Few could understand that. I think l'm lucky most of the tme to be able to know But there are times when its all too hard to be 2 persons. And that adds to the stress.....touche. A snowball rolling down the hill. I have found that sometimes living with a stressed woman can be very stressful in itself (not all relationships mind). So..... perhaps you reverting to your female self when stressed, then causes additional stress back to you male self, therefore triplicating the original stress ??? (perhaps try just having sex as your male self to relieve, and hopefully this is taken as light hearted and not sexist, or anything else)
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RHP User
10 years ago
bury myself in novels when I am stressed (preferably whilst in a hot bath). The escape is what I am after, often its the only thing that can make my brain shut the hell up. Sex is as much in my head as my body, so when I'm stressed I have a lot of trouble turning off to enjoy the experience. Though in saying all that, one or ten drinks (even if stressed) works wonders for my sex drive. Shaz
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RHP User
10 years ago
does not make me horny. My OCD kicks in and I become task orientated but not on the job that needs to be done but the thing least needing to be done, like cleaning behind the fridge. To quote the show Raising Hope which coined the word 'procrastibating', I tend to do a lot of that when stressed. OP, like you this is crazy time at work and I'd love to be having sex but if my mind isn't relaxed and clear of other thoughts, I'm not going to get into that sexy space I like being in :) Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Only with someone I know and who cares about me. Delving, I'm out of work and its been very stressful for me, but after reading your post I realise I'm pretty lucky in other ways. I hope everything starts to come together for you....you deserve good luck and positivity from now on xx At the moment I am being told that it's likely I can be cured but of course they still say it with.......margin for error, if you will. I suppose for me I am looking for the warmth of another soul tangle with rather than out right hard sex. I am certainly masturbating a lot probably trying to enjoy that incredible 10 seconds of orgasm. It's not the same as a slow build deep primal orgasm that sex brings though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
well said.....here here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hope the kemo goes as smoothly as possible for you.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes all the best for your challenge. Stay positive
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
quoting Single Guy-: I have found that sometimes living with a stressed woman can be very stressful in itself (not all relationships mind). So..... perhaps you reverting to your female self when stressed, then causes additional stress back to you male self, therefore triplicating the original stress ??? (perhaps try just having sex as your male self to relieve, and hopefully this is taken as light hearted and not sexist, or anything else) Took me a few reads to get my head around it. Not quite what i meant but you could be onto something. Have noticed a correlation between when i go shopping and my male's stress level when i change back and he sees the new dresses and shoe boxes on the bed
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' quoting Single Guy-: I have found that sometimes living with a stressed woman can be very stressful in itself (not all relationships mind). So..... perhaps you reverting to your female self when stressed, then causes additional stress back to you male self, therefore triplicating the original stress ??? (perhaps try just having sex as your male self to relieve, and hopefully this is taken as light hearted and not sexist, or anything else) Took me a few reads to get my head around it. Not quite what i meant but you could be onto something. Have noticed a correlation between when i go shopping and my male's stress level when i change back and he sees the new dresses and shoe boxes on the bed Yes I did have good intentions. Your response was perfect
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RHP User
10 years ago
We were in your shoes this time last year! Hubby had a kidney removed due to cancer! He is well on the road to recovery but I wanted to wish you all the best honey! Good luck with the treatments and hope to see you way more in the forums. Mwah Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I always remember visiting the Killing Fields in Cambodia, and in particular the ''Killing Tree'' at Phnom Penh (Google it if you don't already know), this brings my ''problems'' into a much sharper focus. Which is to say, they're not really problems at all. Works every time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Hotwives_Inc' We were in your shoes this time last year! Hubby had a kidney removed due to cancer! He is well on the road to recovery but I wanted to wish you all the best honey! Good luck with the treatments and hope to see you way more in the forums. Mwah Mary xx It's put my little journey on hold till I get better but when time cums I will be making up for it.
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