Date finder.....

March 01 2019

Why does it always say on the date finder 'members looking for a date with you '....and when you send them a message asking to meet up or chat to get a play date organized, there's never a reply????? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Promotional crap lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lol Because such is life and it’s the right of the profile owner to no reply.. the date finder is merely a suggestion of a possible match... it’s not a hook line sinker guarantee... it’s people looking for xyz on 123 date and maybe that in some way matches what you want so check them out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well...it may have something to do with your profile.... It may have something to do with your pic... It may also be many other different things, such as they’ve already found someone or life has gotten in their way.... Who knows....no point being disappointed when there are so many other profiles that you could be messaging and approaching....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You are competing with 1000s of other men to get noticed. Take some nicer profile pics smiling maybe outside even. Add some more information to your profile and upgrade your membership and see how that goes for you?.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lose the hand signal too lol

  • brownsugar130111

    brownsugar130111

    7 years ago

    Lol....thanks for the info and suggestions! Will try and some of them and see how we go....

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    7 years ago

    Standard operating procedure for any dating site lol. "Members looking for you", "members matching with you", "members waiting to hear from you" ad nauseum :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Because 'members looking for a date with other members, keeping in mind the women to men ratio is about 1:6, and attached guys hardly get a look in at all' just doesn't have the same ring to it. Kudos to you for keeping it real and taking some of the advice given here to heart.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Its a use of "you" to lure you into thinking its specifically..... you Its just advertising copy People are not responding to you.. the actual you... for entirely different reasons

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    All networking/social media sites try to stimulate that reward centre in your brain to keep you coming back for more. The ''like'' button on Facebook was specifically designed for this purpose - people get addicted to people ''liking'' their posts, so return multiple times a day to check who has ''liked' them. It's a slightly similar (but essentially the same) tactic used here.