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D&D free
May 15 2024
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RHP User
2 years ago
Or maybe something non specific and let the imagination come to life. Mostly we like to be intrigued, drawn in watch a magic trick and hopefully draw a smile. With a bit nakedness of course..🤭
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NeoAndTrin
2 years ago
I love D&D. But the roleplaying game. Not the one you're talking about 😜 And yes I'm with you, now that you bring it up it does seem like a redundant thing to say. Unless you're into collecting all the diseases. "Have herpes and syphilis, looking to add gonorrea and genuital warts to my collection"
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RHP User
2 years ago
They think by saying that they will sway more people to meet them. Saying those things means absolutely nothing because none of it could be true. I wouldn’t trust any profiles with those types of words used
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RHP User
2 years ago
Interesting, cos your profile states that hygiene is of the utmost importance. Are there people out there who want to sleep with people who have terrible hygiene and smell like a tip?
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
Well yes actually. There's been a profile floating around RHP for many years where the member openly states she has active STDs (HPV if my memory serves me correctly) and is only seeking fellow "infected" people to play with. I have seen a similar profile from a man on another site. Each their own I guess..... On the whole though, I roll my eyes at profiles that say "seeking D&D free" because, lets face it...... How many of us are actively seeking STD ridden folks to have sex with 🤦😂
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Alex_Lover
2 years ago
We were confused about 'professional' in many bio's at the start too. As you note, professional what? But these days we take it as a marker of the type of people they may be. Which can be handy. Ie a doctor and a brick layer may not have a lot of common ground to connect over. If it's just sex, that's easy, but if they're looking for more connection & friendship, maybe not. Caveat: anyone from any vocation can connect and have an amazing relationship. But on average we're gonna connect easier with people from a similar walk of life. All this coming from a 'professional' photographer. Not sure that makes me a 'professional' though 😆 - Alex
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RHP User
2 years ago
Like you, I get amused by ‘professional’ which I interpret as ‘no bogans’ A lot of women would say men do not read their profile at all. The extremely long text ones amuse me as, while I appreciate they are aiming to explain who they are, it also looks to be all about them. I have met people from all walks of life through online dating. People who would not normally be in my circle of life. Meeting them expands my life. The majority have been lovely people too. Be happy and have fun
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
D&D = Down and dirty. Ms Foxy 😎
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Professional = professional at what ever they are stating they are good at. AKA: Humble bragger. Might be: A professional swivel mop tongue twister, (AKA I wont stop till you tell me too), might be a professional Traveller (Aka professional uber driver). A professional under wayer pottery maker (AKA good at washing the dishes), A professional chef (AKA professional at ordering uber eats) Who knows 🤷♀️ Ms Foxy
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Andrea_Sydney
2 years ago
Hm. Yes I often wondered about professional too. Maybe they are trying to say they have a job and are not free to meet during the day? I agree, seeking d&d doesn’t make much sense, but if someone states that about themselves, I don’t mind it. To me, if someone takes the time to write something I always prefer that over the profiles that say “new to this” or “hate writing bios, just ask me” 😂
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Andrea_Sydney
2 years ago
Regarding your profile though, even though it has lots of info, it reads like a job ad. For me, it sounds like “job requirements” and doesn’t read sexy to me. But that’s a different topic. Each to their own.
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Apples_N_Oranges
2 years ago
SweetSerenade - ‘looking for a diseased and conflicted minded match’ love it 😅. And doesn’t being a ’professional’ make you so much more appealing to everyone, I mean if you’re a professional you must be good in bed 🤔. ‘Like minded people’, ‘D & D free’, ‘professional’ are all terms that people seem to latch onto and repeat, repeat, repeat throughout profiles. We have a ‘professional’ story - A long time ago we were chatting with a couple a little bit older than us on RHP, attractive and easy to talk to, travelled between Sydney and Melbourne for business. We were chatting with them for about a month trying to organise a meet up. Out of nowhere they said they were seeking a couple with a male who was more of a ‘professional’, business type, that wore a suit to work and could meet up at fancy hotels and restaurants. They used this ‘professional’ description as a means of saying they were not interested after all that time chatting. The way they let us down sounded so materialistic. Each to their own I guess.
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Obi1kenietzsche
2 years ago
I have “professional” on my profile in part to describe my job without having to be specific. But being “professional” can also encompass more than just a job description in my opinion. It can also include being articulate, committed, honest, punctual, socially aware and financially responsible. Whilst those attributes may be inferred, it’s a nuanced term that can resonate with some people, whilst others couldn’t care less.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I get what you say and it’s kinda funny… I say D&D free tho A couple of reasons… It’s to flag the importance and start the conversation with prospective partners I get tested every 4 weeks and if someone can’t show me recent results it can be a problem. I prefer other regular testers … Likewise lots of people are into party drugs and I don’t think it’s taboo anymore. I don’t use them though and I don’t like them in males because I have a particular fetish and party drugs can really interfere with a guy’s function. So other drug free people are preferred… I find it helps with the awkward “why do you want to see results” conversation. Ultimately everyone should be open about this stuff prior to banging and the high rates of STIs in Sydney atm probs suggest more people need to be having these conversations. So for me - it’s a conversation starter… I’m with you on the “professional” thing tho Not sure what that means or why I should care … or how it’s relevant to fucking …. I mean maybe if I wanted a sugar daddy?? Or “we’re a loving couple” lol
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TheMinx
2 years ago
#tradiesgettheladies
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RHP User
2 years ago
I think in an RHP profile we're trying to communicate as much as we can about ourselves in as little words as possible to build up our attractiveness. So, to me, these statements have longer, unwritten meanings. D&D free, for example, could be to convey something like "My physical and sexual health is a priority to me so I really only want to meet with people who have the same view" But that's a bit long winded and bios can get a bit long if you were to put all the info like that in there. I've always understood 'professional' in this context to mean a white collar worker. Like a lawyer, doctor, or more contemporary office jobs like working for a digital agency. It probably conveys a bit of status in society, which plays a lot into attraction. It probably also conveys things like a certain level of intelligence, maybe a bit of wealth, and sophistication. It's not really true anymore though. These days tradies can make just as much as a "professional" and be just as intelligent, sophisticated, and classy. It's just still hanging about a little bit from the old days of the British class system. I'd say it's still in our cultural psyche enough that if I was a so called "professional" I'd probably put it in my bio too.
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TheMinx
2 years ago
D&D I take with a grain of salt. 1st D (sti) if your in the swing or coming along for the ride get tested regularly it's ridiculous easy with online referral. D to me means you are getting tested regularly just starts the convo. I have had fwb with herpes (ohhh the shock and stigma attached) he education me and answered all my questions and Trust was given. Herpes numbers in this country are extreme. Just be honest! Nek minut minx inbox is either flooded or all my chats are blocked 🤣 And as for the 'other' D it can definitely play a part in this naughty debauchery world. And create some new next level fun. So I don't say must be D&D and I just don't see that as a minimum requirements. I'd like to say mustn't drink Carlton beer or white wine I don't like the taste when I kiss 💋
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RHP User
2 years ago
There’s a lot of dull, thoughtless, obvious shit on profiles which makes it easy to filter. But yes, I’ve always come from a marketing perspective of whatever you state, would you state the opposite? If no, then think harder. At the same time, it isn’t easy to be brave and bold on profiles, especially figuring the site out early on. The problem with statements of “like minded” is they don’t state the mind they have so you don’t know if you’re like minded. Highly paradoxical.
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couplewanting
2 years ago
My partner and I are both HSV positive. So yeah we would be looking for someone that also has it 😊 but we prefer not to say “diseased”
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Mrs_Deep_Love
2 years ago
Not me, I love me some ice scabbed lovers with super gonorrhoea! D & D free, such a statement is a bit silly.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Maybe they are just meaning in a hygienic way or prefer someone who isn’t into drugs etc
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SomethinPositive
one year ago
Unfortunately we got hsv a long time ago and the last thing we want to do is pass it on just for abit of fun one night, we like people that say D and D free and expect the same so then we know to move on and not waste their or our time. Our preference is finding people in same situation as us so we can relax and not worry about that little burden on the night.
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