Curious- swinger parties

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We've been to a fair amount of private house parties over the years, and it all comes down to the person/s organising it, to what ratio of single guys and gals are allowed entry. We prefer parties that aren't overloaded with guys, as they just seem to hover around, which we find a little bit sleazy. Usually the host can let you know who's attending so you can make your mind up if you want or don't want to attend.. There's usually lots being organised on all of the swingers sites, so if you don't attend this one, you can always attend that one, or when it suits you.

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  gazpacho

  12 years ago

  I have to admit I don't mind when there are extra guys around, holding their wangs in their hands... wanting "a turn" lmfao... it's a very interesting social experience. Do you know that most of them will ask the guy if it is alright? I guess that's to be expected to avoid a belting around the lug, but the etiquette of men is really very interesting. Who will your lover decide can join in, and why him, and why not him? I mean, getting passed the immediate physical attractions, cause we all know what we like when we see it, did he get rejected because he was begging too hard? Did he say something offensive? Was he just too shy? What is it makes my friend choose to invite one guy to join in and not another? These are fascinating experiences and dynamics that you just do not get in the orderly couple v couple wife swap kind of swinging event. And what if the numbers are stacked the other way? Some poor wretched guy is forced to root a swarm of horny women against his will, I suppose. He probably deserved all the punishment they could dish out. HugsGazpacho

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Begging is never the answer! I would never say yes... Just on principle!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've been to a house party where there were only 3 extra guys, that wasn't the problem..... It's the fact that the partners weren't playing, they were having a lovely little social, so when I get up to look around I had 7 of the partners following........ Whilst I don't believe in the rule 'everyone must play' I do think you go to a play party to have a little fun, go for dinner another time!!........... Mind you, more often than not, we have a great time.....

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  gazpacho

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Bigmamma1' I've been to a house party where there were only 3 extra guys, that wasn't the problem..... It's the fact that the partners weren't playing, they were having a lovely little social, so when I get up to look around I had 7 of the partners following........ Whilst I don't believe in the rule 'everyone must play' I do think you go to a play party to have a little fun, go for dinner another time!!........... Mind you, more often than not, we have a great time..... Ten to one. Yep. Sounds about right for a Saturday night outing to me! HugsGazpacho

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But to me the no single guys rule is a bit mean-spirited, particularly at parties where single girls are welcome. There seems a sense of entitlement from the attached males that I've never had an issue with from single guys. If single men aren't getting anywhere they tend to be happy to just watch or go pout about it at home. The attached males seem to behave a bit differently. If you went to a pot-luck dinner would you refuse to let in anyone who didn't bring a dish, even if they paid handsomely to be allowed to come without one, and that handsome fee is what keeps the host's power bill paid to enable them to host more pot-luck dinners which you really really enjoy attending? Also a single girl I've been approached more than once by women I don't know asking me to do them a favour and play with their man so they can go off and play with whoever. No. There's no swinger code or whatever that says the charmless pouty prince in the corner gets to play just because he brought a hot dish to the pot luck and everyone wants a bite. If he can't get play on his own charm and merit then perhaps the party atmosphere isn't the best arena for your entertainment?? xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'gazpacho51' I have to admit I don't mind when there are extra guys around, holding their wangs in their hands... wanting "a turn" lmfao... it's a very interesting social experience. Do you know that most of them will ask the guy if it is alright? I guess that's to be expected to avoid a belting around the lug, but the etiquette of men is really very interesting. Who will your lover decide can join in, and why him, and why not him? I mean, getting passed the immediate physical attractions, cause we all know what we like when we see it, did he get rejected because he was begging too hard? Did he say something offensive? Was he just too shy? What is it makes my friend choose to invite one guy to join in and not another? These are fascinating experiences and dynamics that you just do not get in the orderly couple v couple wife swap kind of swinging event. And what if the numbers are stacked the other way? Some poor wretched guy is forced to root a swarm of horny women against his will, I suppose. He probably deserved all the punishment they could dish out. HugsGazpacho according to size

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