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Cougars
October 08 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Considering not everyone reads these forums, it might be prudent to actually send messages to those who you think might be what you are looking for. Don't flirt but send an actual message. Alternatively you might be better off trying to find someone in the real world so to speak. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a more mature woman, I find handsome younger men very attractive.....lets face it if we were in our 20's and someone offered to show us a few tricks for a better sex life wouldn't we have taken it. Damn right I would have...and lets face it we are more at ease with our own bodies that we enjoy the experience and forget about the hang ups. Live the experience xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now as a 23 year old male, i love older women and would love older the better. they just have something about them thats just makes me so horny. i cant seem to find to many older women looking for someone my age.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz... its funny you are asking this.... I was wondering if there were really any females out there that are into older men... hehe... makes me wonder since all teh ladies seem to be bisexual, whether they are looking for hook ups with men at all.. :p .. well apart from a few obvious peeps.. hehe. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Um.................... Yes Yes YES!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry but any man who is too close in age to my own son......20........is a turn off have to have some standards xxxpandaxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would love to be a cougar!!! Just not sure about the age limits though - I have 2 sons in their early 20's and agree with pandateddy, but a little older would be fine!!xxxxxxxxxx sexyeyes2
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am only interested in younger guys 18-30, but sadly it seems that all of the younger guys have these fantasies but never act on them. I am constantly being stuffed around by hollow promises and hesitation. Give it a go guys as older women will take you to a whole new level of sexual fun. I see this from both views as my hubby only likes older women and has no interest in dime a dozen barbie girls aged 18-30 as he claims they dont have the right attitude and sexual drive...Go COUGARS lol....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Men younger than me do nothing for me. I know this is a generalisation, but what do they know of life? Sure the bodies are ok, but what else do they offer in terms of conversation, life experience?
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RHP User
16 years ago
bambi blond your profile pic looks soooo hot!just something about mature girls and their experience.
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RHP User
16 years ago
be classed as a cougar?hahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'll answer that when you start seeing a 15yr old :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
mayb..i have ;p u will never know !
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RHP User
16 years ago
i must admit...i have always had a soft spot (or is that wet spot? ) for younger guys.. there is just something about a hot young male that does it for me....yum!!! but in saying that...i stll like my older guys ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been with a few younger guys (30-34) and only one is worth remembering. I know it seems generalising but these guys could talk the talk, but when it came to walking the walk they fizzled out (or maybe I intimidated them)! They claimed they were all about satisfying their partner but in the end I was lying there wondering "What just didn't happen here"? Of course that said, I have been with some guys over 45 who have been forgettable as well. Just as the young guys like older women for their experience, the same goes for men. I prefer over 40 and now I agree totally with Pandateddy - anyone younger than my oldest son (33) is a no go! Mrs D
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Bambi_blonde' Um.................... Yes Yes YES!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Bambi_blonde' Um.................... Yes Yes YES!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I happily raise my hand...Couger here!! But saying that.....Takes a lot for me to want to be with a younger man..he really has to impress me..And I know he would feel the same too...Well at least I hope he had standards...lol... Also there are the few young men that I have chatted with... they talk n talk...But when comes to the crunch arrange to meet...they dissapear....Guess it is just the chase ego boost they like.. sweetpetite41 xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I remember when i was 24 having a boyfriend who was 40. He was over the moon as he thought his life was over when he turned 40, he actually looked closer to 50 (on reflection) Now that ill be the 45 year old - Yes young looking grandmother (*i think i look in my 30s) will post a picture for you to debate on some day (2010)? I have grown children aged 22, 23 and 20 myself and So i probably wouldnt consider going out with or having a seriously intimate relationship unless he was 30 years and over and filled out nicely, not too thin! So again agreement with 2 other ladies above. So, gentleman and ladies, how much older is old enough an age gap to be cougar - and what constitutes a "cradle snatcher" for older gents? Simone
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RHP User
16 years ago
You could be classed as my cougar..pending if u were born before me! ;)
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magsluvsoral
16 years ago
I would love to be with a younger man, love watching one or two on cam with their tight bodies and try a new energy level perhaps, I am meeting a 30 year old this week and that age by me is fine, I think younger then that would probably um kill me to say the least but who knows what the future brings once I have tasted the younger vines
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RHP User
16 years ago
love being with an older women but theres not many ladys out there that want to play with guys my aga. so if your keen let me know
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RHP User
16 years ago
they Seem to go awwwright on the Tele Trish! Hehe Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
cougars who would like a younger man to go into them...roflmfao...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
who have let their standards slip and arewillin to take on a 41 yr old..............ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't tell me...I already know *sigh* Well, this Cougar is cranky! She politely responds to 22-26 year olds with a "no thank you"...and gets a "your loss" reply. And just what would my "loss" be hmmm? C'mon boys...tell me, why should a Cougar shag you?????? I'm listening..... Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho41' lolz... its funny you are asking this.... I was wondering if there were really any females out there that are into older men... hehe... makes me wonder since all teh ladies seem to be bisexual, whether they are looking for hook ups with men at all.. :p .. well apart from a few obvious peeps.. hehe. Hugs Gazza Gaz / Stalky ... as a matter of fact I'm WAY into older men! I mean younger guys are good to look at for sure, and can be yum to touch, even fun to play with, but there's always something missing. Maybe confidence, life experience, the connection, I don't know. I always feel a little 'mumsy', or even that I should be grateful that they're not repulsed by this crusty old body blah blah. It seems they're only there for pussy and boobs whereas I want something a little more, even in a nsa encounter. Give me a man in his 40s that has had a life, knows what he's doing, will take control (yes please!) and will leave me feeling all woman! Yum :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can't stand the word 'cougars'. Don't know why, just seems way tacky to me!lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I go weak at the knees for beautiful, experienced Cougars.There is just something about an older woman who enjoys sex because she knows what she's doing, rather than a younger one who enjoys sex because she's experimenting to find what she likes.A personal preference, I suppose.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It appears women(cougars) are women expressing a wish to experience young men for sexual needs. It appears men wishing to do the same are perverts.....lol. Double standards seem to be the order of the day here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
at my age I am known as a panther apparently .... (30s = puma 40s = cougar 50s = panther 60s = good luck lol )anyways ................... young boys in their 20s do absolutely nothing for me sexually .. they are great to perve on but definitiely wont go there again ... am over teaching pups and are way to close to my sons age young men in their 30s are definitely worth a perve :P but have found so many can talk the talk but fail to walk the walk :( but in saying that have some wonderful chat friends in this age group .. is soooo nice to be able to have a decent conversation that doesnt revolve around sex and sexual fantasies ...mmmmm men in their 40s :P (so long as they dont have married man sex )really do it for me MMMmmmmmmat the moment I am seeing a 41yo who really rings my bells :P and is slowly building up the stamina to keep up with me .. the sex is exhilirating .. the conversation is stimulating .. and he spoils me rotten .. what more could a girl ask for xxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
....well i can get the conversation, the love, someone that can string more than two words together, takes care of me and our adorable kids and stiill thinks i am gorgeous and fun to be with... i am lucky i have my sexy husband (who is 1yr younger than me)..but if the right, younger, not too full of it guy came long that thought i too was a little sexy also...i would say yes please... my age limit...25...24.. though i have one 22yr that i have been trying to get my 'claws' into for a while now...but he is very mature for his age.....Honest!!!.... i say each to there own and what makes you hot ...makes you HOT!!...shouldnt have to explain our reasons to anyone...men been doing it FOREVER... Happy prowling x MsC
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love younger men...from 18 up to around 30! I don't know why but this has always seemed to be the way with me. I seem to attract them in the "real world" too. I have no interest in older men at all but it still amazes me how these older men can't read!! Last year I was with a guy who was 20...great lover and did alot for me and thoroughly enjoyed by both parties. If a guy is into an older woman and a woman is into an older guy sexually...I say go for it and enjoy xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah , u r right, well said.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i do like them younger than me .... but they still need to be able to hold a decent conversation .... go all night .....know what they are doing (if i wanted to teach i would be a teacher) and know how to have fun ... laugh .. smile .. serious guys just dont do it for me no matter what tall ... cute .... lean ....etc yes i am fussy ... but really i just know what i like
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RHP User
16 years ago
What is married man sex??? Pusscat xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i like them younger indeed ..... nothing better than a hot 21yr old going all night .... and willing and eager to please but they still need to be able to hold a conversation ... and be tall .... lean ..... and cute :P i know ... i am fussy ... but really i just know what i want
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't know if you guys and girls have done the research but there is actually less women available in the 25 -30 age range than guys of the same age and when we gorgeous older chicks get into the 40+ range the position reverses and then there is only 1 in 10 men of our age available to date, a shortage in fact.So we are actually here to make sure the younger guys dont' get into too much trouble.I am a cougar, I am proud of it.... so proud in fact that I am doing everything I can to help promote Miss Cougar Melbourne, Voula Dendrinos, win the Miss Cougar Australia title on the Gold Coast in June.Why do I like younger men? Because they are Fun! They appreciate that I have my own interests and friends, so I don't need to be their 'other half' to justify my existence. I know when to act the lady and when to demand what I want sexually in a manner that does not belittle my partner.If anyone is around st kilda tomorrow night (Saturday 17th April) we are having a meet n greet there at the White Bar..... Come along and see what the fuss is about... I promise not to bite or pounce, unless you want me to. :-)Prrrrrr not Grrrrrrr
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RHP User
16 years ago
One: Be more intelligent than a lamp post.Two: Be capable of getting hard and staying that way.Three: See two.Four: Be considerate. Ooooh, that's right boys. We're not here to function as your receptacle.Five: It IS how you use it, and it IS how big it is.;) Cougars? You go girls! We do.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we have children in their late 20's and couldnt think of a worse thing to do as a couple, let alone a single. 30 is too young. we prefer 'men' to 'boys' and really would rather meet people who were at least born in the same decade as we were. each to their own, but its not for us. we have found again and again that the more mature men at least know how to behave and how to politely and respectfully respond to rejection. little boys who throw a 'tanty' because we say 'no', just concrete further how right for us our choices are..........
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RHP User
16 years ago
puss .. married man sex to me is the ho hum hum drum boring sex that men can get into the groove of doing when they been married for too long .. there is no spice or excitment or fun involved ... I have found some newly separated men need to find the spark again
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RHP User
16 years ago
When I began this Red Hot Pie journey I steered clear of the younger man ... I thought and said to a few 'if your mum saw me with you she would slap me ... lol ... ha haAnyway, I recently had the experience of a younger man all of 31 years ... and it was fun ... and in fairness to the younger man it was an experience ... that has given me the confidence to say hell yeah I will consider you ... especially if we spark ... its just sex ... after all .... one thing I have learnt about younger men - well that's between me and the younger man. However, I still prefer men closer to my age ... we can laugh more together and we have life experience and on the same wave length....this one man is beautifully leading me to the ultra to achieve some of my many fantasies .... shhh shhh. So yeah I can be seen by the younger man as a cougar or milf and have fun .... and thats it nothing more nothing less ... So ladies if you have the inclination give it a go as I recently said to my FB - I want to be in the nursing home saying to the staff "when I was your age I was ......." ha ha .... I don't want to be in a nursing home thinking I should have had the younger man when i had the chance ... hee heeCheers AD-W4U
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find the concept quite intriguing.... personally would classify myself as a more a pussycat with big claws!lol! As long as any act is consentual and does not involve any physcologically damaging behavoiur to the young lads then really it shouldnt matter.On a moral note i myself have children and the thought of any sexual encounters with boys close to their age does not appeal.The attention however does feed my overly inflated ego,so u go boys and have ur fun!,gypsy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gosh. What to say re young guys wanting older women. Sure. Have helped many a young man on his way to manhood but they simply dont know how to behave as yet. Would be far better off taken out by an older mate & shown or taught some street smarts. Not all, but many of these young guys that have attended my parties, end up shitfaced & making a total fool of themselves, never-the-less attracting unwanted attention to the events. So, young studs, as gorgeous as you are, bodies to slide all over, develop some personality skills, brains & smarts first. There. My 20c worth lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Certainly love the younger ones.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm 41 going on 21! Lol!! It's all to do with power of attraction to me...pure and simple! Enjoy all the fruits (plums, bananas and all the above, haha!!) I say yes to the young and the young at heart! We all need love at the end the day, and awesome sex is just the icing on the cake!! Mmmmmmmmmm...........
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RHP User
16 years ago
well back then i never had a name more like I robbed the cradle etc I married someone 7 years younger seemed like a mature man and could have mature convo's and bedroom wise well won't go there out of some privacy but I never complained but maturity level emotionally unbalanced. If they say lived out of home for years did stuff by themselves whilst young had to grow up quick and lived some life which say others hadn't yet at their age then perhaps. I kinda see it as gross Men in mid 30s up ga ga over young women like 19- 20s so every time I see men checking 16 year olds out as they look old enough and hot but ewww what if it was your daughter so I try to see it what if it was your son. Then again if woman treated him right but still nahhhhh. Look I have had many younger men send flirts and messages, I've looked and replied same with messages quite some HOT young tackers on here, but reality check comes in No. Maybe one drunken night and something happen which I doubt but no. Yet Ladies go for it men treat young women like objects and meat why not... least these young men have the sex drive to match ours.Bubbles
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm starting to think that I might be a little too young for most Cougars.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Iceman Have you had much experience with older women? If yes what was it that got to you?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most women I go out with tend to be older than me (not intentionally) from a couple of years older up to 10 years older and have never had a problem regarding maturity or being able to hold a convo, etc etc. Hooked up once or twice with lovely women in their 40's but nothing more. (Unfortunately). One thing against older women however, is this attitude of "Younger guys arent mature enough or cant hold a decent convo" without even giving us half a chance, which to me just shows that it is HER and not HIM that is struggling with maturity/ego. Each person is different, young or old so Im not going to say all younger guys are mature, just like I wouldnt say all older women are awesome in bed. Its a mixed bag n both cases.
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i had my first cougar the other night(or did she have me??) and it was mind blowing.We both had lots of fun and may go there again.there is no substitute for experience!!lots of lust-steve
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' 76, i have been to 22 and it was loads of fun so yes, you are very much Cougar Bait :) xxxx Mrs S I just wish I knew where to go hunting for Cougars...or how to make myself more appealing to them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
younger guys are definitely more attractive these days. alot of the older guys don't look after themselves. we have no choice. young and firm is the go.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'adinhb' One thing against older women however, is this attitude of "Younger guys arent mature enough or cant hold a decent convo" without even giving us half a chance, which to me just shows that it is HER and not HIM that is struggling with maturity/ego. well i guess you could be right there...... hmmmm i can only talk from my point of view ...... but whilst I would deff hook up with a younger guy and would prob have a fling with one ...... i doubt that I would persue a relationship with one ..... I guess that is one of the appeals of the younger guy ..... there is not alot of chance that he will want a relationship ....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think older women can be attractive because they are the whole package,they know what they want, when they want and and aren't afraid to take ,young women yeah there hot ,and for sure its fun chasing them,but only for a while. Younger think there gods gift to men ,and frankly good on them if thats all they have, mature women are fun ,dont mind i little cheeky ness and enjoy a flirt ,having said that ,women in general are good fun ,long as there not talkin themselves up then end up beeing boering or a starfish ,lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
i ma only 20 but one thing i would love to do is be with an older women. there is something so sexy about some of them. would love to find any on here who are keen.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey chicky-babe, love ya work, shiuld be more women like you!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
love your style. text, ring or e-mail me if your keen to catch up, i am?????
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah sure...I generally find I can't eat a whole one though.
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RHP User
16 years ago
HI sexyeyes2 , Nice to see your comment !!!! I agree with you completleyYou may feel yourself to be my cougar anytime [email protected]
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RHP User
16 years ago
ask your mum...????
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