Conversation advice couples please

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  madotara69

  6 years ago

  To start with, the guys are messaging you and pretty much all which ever way the introduction is put...they want to fuck your wife foremost, then you have a chance with finding a guy that suits just how your wife wants to fuck him ? Where you want to be during the moments is probably a good place for asking him if he’s cool with whatever suggested. We feel it’s important the guys are able to feel comfortable being themselves, doesn’t work otherwise anyhow, the guy is as important as you guys, it’s a sharing thing and in mfm the guys are seeking the highly aroused nature of the woman who has chosen herself also along side her partner a lust, pressing her buttons, her fantasies, kinks or the sky’s the limits so many things to do. If you get it right and therefore the guy joining you is one of three in spirits. Guess the meaning here is...respectfully invite his thoughts to your thoughts and be prepared for your wife to behave in a way you may not have seen before, or been a while to jog your memories. If so it’s worth keeping in mind.. it’s working together in whatever nature of the threesome where no one gets hurt, because the sex is heightened beyond imagination when the woman is enjoying herself, you guys and her buttons pressed one by one into total loss of control and flopping about like a fish out of water until she comes back and it’s nice to hold her a while, admire the privilege and Compliment each other to bond the experience only the three of you keep for the Dreamtime. How are the two of you going with the communication towards the idea, the understanding, are you both comfortable with whatever and anything happen when it happens ? Respectfully Mado Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I see conversation very primitively.... At some point you folks were strangers....something you folks did was talk.... Same theory....drive the conversation yourselves if the conversation is starting to stall...it helps with confidence, and it helps to steer your journey in the direction that you wish for it to head... Pardon the pun 😂 Mr dragon

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  teamaj2

  6 years ago

  Everyone is different but for us , we like to get to know someone via chat first . Then we can proceed to meeting for a drink , with the hope of bringing the party back home . We find that if the chat JUST consists of hopes , fantasies and what we would love to play out in the bedroom . The chat dies fairly quickly . It is important to be open and honest about boundaries , no go zones and what you seek . Just as it’s important for the guy to be honest about what he seeks . For us , it’s about all three of us relaxing , all enjoying the experience . I’m fairly chatty so I don’t find it difficult . We usually chat about how they are finding RHP, I ask if they have been to any events , just general banter . We get either a good feeling about someone by their responses . For us , someone that ONLY chats about what they want to happen in play , isn’t for us . So far this has worked for us and we’ve not been disappointed with anyone we’ve met up with . Goodluck on RHP New !! Be patient in finding the right guy , the wait is worth it . A x

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  XBonnieClydeX

  6 years ago

  MFM This is pretty much how we operate: - exchange pics via RHP and kik - if we like what we see/read start a three way chat via kik - Talk about both ours and the guys desires, kinks, experience, boundaries etc Build a bit of rapport and sexual tension via chat - meet for a drink in a public social setting to ensure everyone is comfortable to take the next step and play - if everyone's keen we invite him to play, either same night or a future meet depending on time and availability

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  Sawadee

  6 years ago

  ... from XBonnieClydeX and teamaj2. Initial contact here , move on to meet for a coffee / drink .. chat, weigh up if all parties are happy , then take it from there .. The face to face chat is the telling point. If it feels right ... happy days..

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I'll second everything teamaj and Bonnie and Clyde said. And also add, maybe add a bit more about yourselves in your profile to give anyone who wants to chat a bit more to be able initiate conversation in what you want or any similar interests

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  How do you all have time for a meet up before even deciding if you want to play? Usually if it gets to the point of meeting then we have sussed out our offsider/s completely. Basically saying “we’re good to go”. The only thing that would stop that is if my partner said no in real time or something like hygiene with the others was an issue or similar things along that line of unforeseeable. Each to their own but

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