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Considering a MMF....
June 29 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey there, how is it going? Im a young, fun and fit guy who would love to help you guys out with your MMF fantasy. I have a little experience with this and have always found it to be great fun as long as everyone is on the same page and has similar expectations. Give me a buzz on 0416635922 and we can take it from there. Look forward to hearing from you. Alex
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks, will get back to you :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK... a gentle word of warning... when you say you are going to surprise him... ummm.. he may be more surprised than you bargain for. Couples who are new to this go through some very un-natural emotions, I think. For instance, he might think it's a great idea, and he might tell you that it is something he always dreams about, but in the heat of the moment, when you are naked on his bed and he is lying there with you and he notices just how hot and wet you've become, it migth appear to him that you've become this way he has never seen before, so incredibly turned on... but in his mind you're this way at the hands of some other dude (the fuck).. and he might feel inadequate, or disapointed or anxiety and his performance may be inhibited as a result making his insecurity magnify significantly.... etc.... and so on... Dont think it doesn't happen or that it wont... it really happens more often than not in my experience, until he realises that you are turned on not by the other dude, so much as the idea that there are two of you paying her all this attention... and when it is over, the fuck will leave and you and her will remain to enjoy the memory of your exploits together. All this takes getting used to .. and lots of communication... a surprise... well, in my opinion and this is just my own personal take on things, maybe that's not the best idea you ever had. It's a great idea for a second or third or whatever indulgence... but a first time thing.. that's exhilerating for sure.. but difficult emotionally to come to terms with when we a reall taught from childhood that we meet our princess get married and live happily ever after, without the complication of the interaction of various others in the fairytale. Hugs and best wishes Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey,Thanks for the words of advice, much appreciated. We have discussed the threesome thing before, and I had asked would it be a nice surprise... he appears to be keen on the idea. It's just a matter of chatting to the right guy...Hubby loves the idea of watching me with another man, he hasn't had the opportunity to watch in the past, as we have "played" alone. The swingers scene appears hot, but it's a matter of finding a compatible couple... So at the moment the threesome idea is being put out there and see what happens....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agree with Stalky.. it could be either a blast or disaster. Luckily' we handled it quite well but I can easily understand if you are not fully open and mentally commited it could be too much of a surprise.. Im a straight male so I cant help you with MMF' but if its a MFM.. thats different.. worth a message..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah,I guess I should have correctly specified "MFM" *laughs*It was a slip of the keyboard, I didn't think it mattered. Obviously it does... MMF is a bi thresome and a MFM is a straight threesome... got ya!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi there again it's cnsfelswat here we spoke the other night,if you are thinking of going to a swingers club i recomend the couples club in surry hills. me and my partner have been there a couple of times,it's a great place to start of the swiniging scene as on friday nights it's only couples only. plus males are to be with there partners at all times so the is less chance of being harrased by single males. they have a 15 person spa 5 different rooms and the orgy room where most of the fun happens.the also have a bar where you can go and meet and speak to couples before you go anywhere which i think is one of the best things about the club.there is no preasure to do anything that you don't want to so this helps to ease couples into the scene at there own pace.so think about it if you want to start of there and let us know we can arrange a time to meet up in the city first for a couple of drinks and then go there if you two feel comfy with it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont think there is a hard and fast rule about mfm or mmf meaning anything other than a threesome. mfm(bi) or mmf(bi) is obviously meant to signify bisexual activity. Is Mfm one guy with a big dick, a woman and a dude? Is MMf two well hung guys and a chick... or mFm... two dudes and a BBW.. I mean.. really... there's nothing in it in my opinion.. it means nothing to type mmf instead of mfm. People will do what they enjoy and agree to do whatever you wanna type. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey cnsfelswat,Yes you mentioned about the swingers club, sounds like a good idea. As I said before ultimately we would like to meet another couple... but a swingers club is a bit out of our depth at the moment.I'd be comfortable with hubby and another guy, and seeing where that leads...Thanks again for the suggestion... i'll flick you a msg when we are ready to go to a swingers club.Ta,Rainbow
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was unaware of all the upper and lower case letters LOL So I probably should have asked for a MFM <--- well hung guys with a BBW! ohh yeah!
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RHP User
15 years ago
After reading a few different threads in the forum over the last 12 months' it was pointed out to us that there is a difference when stating what you want. Before this was pointed out to us' we were non the wiser also' but it does make sense if you think about it. MFM straight.... MMF Bi ? We dont want attract a bi guy when we want straight and vice versa.. If this simplifies things cant see a problem..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lolz Justjuice... you're right of course... some people do put those connotations on the letters and it influences their decision.... but I just hate the labels... hehe. I mean, I hardly label my sexuality at the best of times.... I can play a threesome straight without any issues or inhibitions... or I can play it bent.... or Bi... ir whatever it takes... I basically just go with the flow, so the label and the closeness of the Alphabet or the participants... is kind of superfluous so far as I'm concerned.... So, when you think about a threesome and you want the threesome to be heterosexually orientated... that doesnt mean that if you introduce a bi guy into the situation that he is necessarily going to try and shaft your husband... hehe... so the sexuality thing can really be irrelevant, you know? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
A decent reply is in order and polite' or is this a beat up ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
The thing with swingers club is that time is short to get to know others, and the towel-wrapped outfit kinda uncomfortable to start neutral conversation. But that was our experience, and each couple certainly do have their own success in swinger club.Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Very interested and very genuine.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I recomend you go ahead with your idea. You will not regret it.... Have fun
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've been the part of the odd manwich experience before and it can be fun. I was lucky and knew the couple very well and was (still am) good friends with both before hand. We've had the odd good night and had smiles for days afterwards. The comfort factor of two guys being in such close proximity needs to be considered....ie choose the right guy. From the main benefactor of the manwich....I think she's a fan haha. Anyway, good luck and hope you post how it turns out W xx
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
Really Mild_to_Wild. I think anyone that has ever even remotely commented on this topic would know that said lady is a HUGE fan of the Manwhich. I will agree with your comments though, comfort between the guys is VERY important. Also important is the comfort factor of the main guy in the picture. I agree with Stalky. Springing it on him with a guy he doesn't know or considered before may not be the best thing. It could be great and the best night of your life but it also could be a catalyst forbringing out a whole lot of issues that niether of you had even realised existed. A tip from an experienced MFM (did I get the acroynym right????) participant. Communicate, Communicate, communicate use your imagination and have a fantastic time.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi your 3sum fun sounds like a great idea, if you are after a Care free, sensual erotic liaison, that is passionate, wild, sexy, adventurous, stimulating both physically and mentally for all 3 then I'd love to.I'm experienced in MFM and really enjoy it with the right couple. I'm single, Straight, fun, outgoing. and I am fine with MM contact, all good as long as safe sex is practiced.. I'll send you a flirtI'd love to hear more Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi your 3sum fun sounds like a great idea, if you are after a Care free, sensual erotic liaison, that is passionate, wild, sexy, adventurous, stimulating both physically and mentally for all 3 then I'd love to.I'm experienced in MFM and really enjoy it with the right couple. I'm single, Straight, fun, outgoing. and I am fine with MM contact , all good as long as safe sex is practiced.. I'll send you a flirtI'd love to hear more Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
I want a MFM as well....seems to be impossible to organise.
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