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Coersion v Enticement

August 13 2022

We see, hear and experience plenty of instances of negative experiences on here, it’s only natural to want to vent but let’s have a post about positive experiences! What’s some of the best offers you’ve had? I’ve had many that I’ve rejected thinking they’re probably too good to be true anyway, some that I definitely know are not true and probably just want my credit card details at some point and a few that have been genuine and lovely and completely surprising. Probably the sweetest enticement I’ve received recently is in real life, I had no idea until a workmate told me a customer has bought a $65k motorbike to take me cruising. Of course he really bought it for himself and I’m never getting on it but awwww, it’s sweet that he said that to someone else 😅 it was like high school, the workmate scoping out the situation on behalf of the customer, sweet childish games at play is such a nice break from gaslighting and manipulation that so often occurs when getting courted. I wanna hear your sweet stories...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    A guy I had met a couple of times asked me out to lunch one Sunday. He wouldnt say where we were going, so I just went with the flow. He drove us down to the riverside and sat me down at a picnic table, laid the table with nibbles, poured me a chilled wine, and cooked a BBQ lunch as I relaxed and watched him. It was a lovely afternoon, a gesture I wont forget. Thank you Harry xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 years ago

    Such a great post, Thank you! I'm blessed to have had so many. My most memorable is the friendships I've made. With these friendships I had many adventures and experiences. I've had people fly from WA just to take me out to dinner, travelled the world etc. It's the small things that have made it special. Most funniest memorable I'd say, was the offer I got, to be flown to Africa and he would fuck me under a Baobab Tree while the Tigers/lions watched. TRUTH: I dont think he was expecting my reply that I was actually flying out the next morning to Africa. Sadly I never did met up with him. PROAAAR! Ms Foxy 🐯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I had a funny one last night, he made me an Indian dish for dinner, it was more like attempted murder than a sweet gesture with the amount of spices he used 😂 later on we saw some local police officers who I know through work so me being me I told them all about it and that they should probably watch this one 😂 death by dinner will be his MO. My poor date was flabbergasted, hahaha, can’t believe I accused him of attempted murder in front of two police officers. We live and we learn 😅

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Our nice story is how we met. We met online. We lived in different towns and were texting then talking then FaceTime sex LOL This went on for months as every time we decided to meet something came up for one of us. Until one day, one perfect day, we saw a NBO party advertised. I had been to one before and asked if she wanted to go. She said Yes. So she hopped on a train. I met her at the station. When she was walking towards me she did this little funny crooked smile and I thought, "Ooo this girl is special." So I hid the axe and chainsaw :-) She gets in the car with a total stranger and we drive off. Chatting away, but clearly Im a bit nervous. So she puts her hand on mine and we were holding hands nearly the whole way just talking. We went to the party and that was the first time we had sex along with some others as well. Over 6 years later we have never looked back :-) Hard to tell vanilla friends and family that story LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    This is our sweet story of how we met by me the husband. I had been working away for a period of time and had been enduring to online dating world for sometime. Anyway I clicked on this profile and liked what I read and she responded and we started chatting for it seems weeks but in reality it was more like days. A lot more messages and phone calls passed as well tried to set up meeting as she lived on the Sunshine Coast. The day arrived and finally we were to meet. I waited anxiously at a park at the coast. I can still remember her walking up to me with sunglasses on and nervously saying my name. We went and got a coffee and when she sat down she took her glasses off and my heart melted, she has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen ever and to this day I still remember that moment. There is more to this story but feel I’ve gone on long enough. She is my beautiful and gorgeous wife now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    One that comes to mind for me was my ex when we first started going out together so we weren't super into each other. We were out at a pub and some lady was flirting with me innocently and at one point touched my arm but it obviously raised the big green demon of jealousy in her and she flat out said to her: "Dont touch what you can't afford... " My first love came onto me one night by licking the top of her index finger and placed it on my shirt and said: "Let's get you out of those wet clothes...." I got hard pretty much instantly in both those situations....

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    3 years ago

    We met online, as we are both quite camera shy we just chatted for months. Messages turned into phone calls and every waking minute we seemed to be in contact. I jumped on a plane so I could see what this person looked like. All I remember is seeing her beaming smile. We held hands in the cab which seemed to take an eternity to get to our hotel, the electricity was palpable. Somehow we managed to go out for some dinner but neither of us remember the food. We returned back to the hotel, she had never been with anyone and I was adamant I was going to be a gentleman but the urges were too great and we torn the clothes off each other’s bodies and made mad, passionate love then slumped into bed to sleep together. I awoke in the morning to look over at her sitting on the couch looking at me, she looked nervous. I thought “oh shit what have I done” I asked if she was ok, she replied that she loved our night but was it bad she wanted more right away. We had more! We have been with each other ever since.