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Chances

December 07 2012

I am just wondering other members views on the topic of how many chances you give a person/couple? I understand it is a personal thing and there is no set or universal amount but just thinking i may have become a little lenient. I have been chatting here and over the phone with a few couples on here and seem to be continually chatting with the male end of the couple, due the female being out, away, at work etc. Now these couples are paying members and verified so i think its safe to assume they are the real deal but i find i am starting to think it cant be that coincidental that most times we talk she is not around? This all came to a head last sunday night when i organised a meet with a couple for drinks at a local hotel and again the male arrived but the female had to work, even though we had organised the night before to all meet. They are both really nice I guess what i really want to know is this commmon practice out there and have other members had this happen? And if so have you continued to give the benefit of the doubt or moved on?

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RHP User

13 years ago

I (the male half) am the one who takes most correspondence over here, web chatting and phone, however I wouldn't dream of meetin with anyone without Mrs ShowStopper. It is difficult to organise time for us both to be free which I can understand some people not bein ok with, but being the tech savvy one of the two of us doesn't mean that it's only me any prospective play partners or friends will deal with in the end :)

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RHP User

13 years ago

what I call ''the singlemale couple''...a man whose wife doesn't even know that they have a profile...she is the bait for other couples and single women.It is not uncommon,never arrange to meet if you haven't spoken to the wife,unless you are happy to just meet up with the man .x R

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hiow often do you see on the webcam chats a title of C-XXX and you view their cam only to see a guy jacking off? I think Freya is correct in saying that there are a lot of single males pretending to be a couple.

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RHP User

13 years ago

So "we" haven't been on here for a while. Just moved on to to other stuff and only recently decided to pop our .....my head in! Ahhhhh you see I am the male of the couple and do almost all of the checking and chatting. BUT I have to say to date I have never meet anyone with out my partner. .Now I say this never get old because after being around here for near on five years this is a common complaint from single gals like yourself. For the record it also happens to couples ......"oh sorry my wife couldn't make it (WTF) do you want to play anyway" ?? (Enter "No fuck off") Guys have been doing this scam for years and sadly its gives them all a bad name!.There are definitely some great couples and singles on here - "WE" have meet them. Again BUT we will 9.5 times out of 10 only meet at a swingers club - now that sounds like pressure but surprisingly there is little. It also allows both of the (YOU) the single Girl and us to be in a safe environment SINGLE GUYS can not enter swing clubs in Sydney ........... Yaaaaaah so as soon as we suggest this if they are a guy posing as a couple they tend to start back peddling! .Good luck this can be a great sexy fun world ........ but as your learning you need to be wary ! .Brae.

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RHP User

13 years ago

we are a couple, and at this point we give people one chance only. we already have what we each want and desire, so everything else is just a little extra......and we wont be dicked around by inconsiderate or unreliable people..... unfortunately there are many many couples where its just him, a keyboard and his imagination.... sad and sorry fact of the internet these days..

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RHP User

13 years ago

Unless I've had contact with the woman. Loving the suggestion of meeting in a club too, Brae!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hi Milf, Your post struck a chord with me as I learnt very early on to speak with both the male and female of couples before any meeting. In fact, I don't meet single females without a phone call first. Even with verified photos - you'd be surprised with the number of couples who contact me with messages like... " I'd like you to pick my wife up in a bar and seduce her..." , when questioned its often evident the female has no idea her "man" is even online Or even worse, would you suck me first and then I'll let you fuck my wife... lol lol Smart move meeting in a bar... Unfortunately I've met some people for coffee or drinks that have been far from what their profile portrays So my policy is always a phone call with both, before any type of meeting, and a public meeting first before any potential playtime. A

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playful4u

13 years ago

We have been known to give some a second chance, but being time poor with a young family we do not have the time to waste on no shows. Perhaps insist on speaking to the female half before plans to meet are made.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Sounds like you haven't met the invisible woman of the pair (well invisible because she is unaware of the profile her husband created).

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