Can I please just get a response!?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  As others will no doubt mention - as a female we are inundated with messages and flirts and for us to respond, yours needs to stand out and pique our interest enough to reply.It's hard to know why people are not replying to your messages, without actually knowing the content of them.Every initial message has to be specific to each person - read their profile accurately and make sure you match what they are looking for first. Be genuine and sincere, have a sense of humour, be creative and write something that will entice.Also, in my opinion, photos 2 and 3 on your profile are the best. Your main profile pic seems very deer in the headlights and you have partially chopped a female out...this may ring alarm bells for some.I would also lose this line ****As for the bedroom, I am experienced and skilled - you'll definitely be walking away with a big 'ol smile on your face, should it get to that ****Don't make promises you can't keep - My experience is that the guys that boast their so called prowess are the ones least likely to satisfy me. Nothing puts me off more than a Man thinking he is gifted in the sack.Please know this is just my opinion and I mean no offense , I'm just trying to be helpful.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  As MissPoppins said....except...I'm not going to be as politically correct....if you're not getting replies, then you're not compelling them to read your message or reply....and it starts with the subject line.....

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Second forum post in 24 hours...................and its all about how your not being successful on this site......   Posters from your other thread have offered advice and MissPoppins has stated some great suggestions as well......however hon.....it starts with this   Life is not RHP........................reality check..............there are millions of blokes on here compared to us women and yes us woman have the advantage of being able to pick or chose..............on this site....RL is a whole different ball game....!!!....it is what it is..............   If you feel you have paid for a membership and your not getting value ...close it ........or alternatively treat this site for what it is....one medium to perhaps meet women - but I will tell you rite now..nothing puts a woman off that a bloke that whines !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Yes the subject has been done to death - did you do a search on the previous threads ?, you may have picked up some info there.........   Sorry to sound harsh........I havent even looked at your profile because I dont want to...........cause just by your forum posting...Im thinking....great ..just what RHP needs another whinger...............NEXT.........   Man up - take on some of the advice youve already received........and run with it..............or alternatively ..shut down your computer and walk away..   You have a first world problem......deal with it...........         Signed Cranky Shinas

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  1. Your profile picture is odd and not particularly attractive. 2. A number of women will miss the Anchorman reference, which leaves you with a very unappealing tag line. 3. People who have a GSOH tend to write witty profiles, rather than saying "I have a sharp sense of humour" etc in the profile. 4. Your profile says a lot about you (and how highly you regard yourself) but very little about the sort of women you like, or what you like about women, which leads a person to wonder if you will be equally self-interested in bed.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I actually found his profile quite amusing...stumbled across this one quite some time ago however I now see we have a male who is complaining about not getting responses yet when a female approaches him he doesnt respond to them....food for thought   It takes two!   Kisses Focus   Oh and forget responding to me now OP - I wasnt worth a response then I sure as hell am not worth a repsonse now.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Change the profile pic - be more honest in your profile narrative. My narrative is peculiar - but that's me - it also serves to filter the majority of people I don't want to meet....I'm sure you have little issue in the world of the Real but here you have to operate by an entirely set of unique rules.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  'different'

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Lol.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  your profile makes you come across as a bit self absorbed (not saying you are, as obviously I don't know you). Yes it's good to give an idea of who you are, your interests etc., but you also need to give the women something to think about in terms of what you can offer them. If you don't they more than likely think that you're just another guy who's going to be selfish in bed and not be concerned with their pleasure as well. And when I refer to what you can offer them, I don't mean that has to be something physical like ripped abs or a big cock, or the usual "I love to lick pussy all night" crap. Just give a general idea of what you like sexually and what you like to do to please a woman in that regard....give them a taste of what you would do if you were naked with them and why. But don't go overboard...you don't need a blow by blow account, and keep a bit of mystery so the women do want to respond to you and find out more.Hope this helps, I know it's not easy as a single guy on here. You have to try and stand out in some way or you will get lost in the masses.Good luck!!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'd just like to apologise for this awful, awful post. Don't drink and post. Thankyou all for your responses and advice, it's greatly appreciated and has been taken on board. Have a great night!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yep....harsh but true. I must admit i dont even have time to read all my messages far less reply to them all. I dont know what your messages read like but if they are anything like tge stock-standard "i want to slide my throbbing big cock into your soaking wet pussy"....instant delete!! I have found that when i have replied with the "thanks but no thanks" kind of thing i then get harassed with begging. Its harsh but for women that get inundated with messages we need to just hit delete and block. This is an extremely superficial game here on the surface...i certainly wouldnt be so cold and rude ordinarily. But rhp is just one tiny aspect of my life and i dont have the time to invest much into researching every single man that messages ne. Spend more time cultivating your own inner beauty and stop investing so much into all this....if u back off u might be surprised what falls into your lap xo

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well said. Its like the saying goes dont get making too many enemies now, because you might need them as friends later.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I'm sure Innerwest is feeling very happy with you right now, Spicyprear!

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