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CDs and Couples

November 29 2018

Hi everyone, Im a bisexual crossdresser and i have a few questions for any bisexual male/female couples. I have been dressing for about 4 years and take it pretty seriously as in shaved body, nice dresses, lingerie, heels, good makeup and high quality wig. Im not a transsexual so dont have natural breasts or live as a woman but do wear silicone breasts. Sexually i am versatile and into men and women equally and quite experienced. Being a CD isnt just a sexual thing for me; dressing up makes me feel good and sexy too. As just a guy i have had very limited success attracting females or couples; yet as a CD i get a lot of attention from just guys. But being truely bisexual i still want women just as much as guys. Just attracting guys was fine for the first few years, but only getting half of what you need can only last for so long before it starts questioning yourself Why women are not interested. I have actually asked a few women about this, and some have said they can feel threatened by passable CDs, but more so transsexuals. I am a very genuine person and extremely respectful, especially when it comes to playing with couples and always abide by any and all ground rules laid down prior. And im also very friendly, open and talkative; on top of that im a non drinker and dont take drugs. But how do i approach bi couples, what do they want and what am i doing wrong? Any help or suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Alison xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Hard enough for a guy to get green light with a couple but even harder for a CD to get a call up with the small percentage of couples that may be open to it. I've plenty of offers but usually I'm not attracted to one or the other or both. And also trying to avoid the novelty actscenario. Most of my success is with couples l socialise with where the connection develops between personalities and attraction from the person/s beneath the genderbend . I've never heard that the couple may be threatened by a CD/trans. More the opposite where they think their partner would be far less likely to take off with them, over a cis person. It may be 2018 but we have a way to go before we are openly invited to be in a traditional open arrangement over a traditional partner that they dumped for a cd/trans. Just my take on it. Good luck

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RHP User

7 years ago

Unfortunately Annie i think i may have to agree on the majority of what you have said. It genuinely seems the only people interested in CDs are other CDs and some bi guys. Im honestly lucky if i have sex 10 times a year as Alison which does make you question things, and yourself.

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Dont give up. Best way is to develop a network. Go to clubs etc to meet couples. There is Allspice coming up shortly where bi couples and cd/trans are welcome.

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LetsFrolic

7 years ago

Women shouldn't be threatened by it though, they get the best of both worlds in 1. That's what most say that like it

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RHP User

7 years ago

You'd think so, but im yet to meet one. I think a lot get put too when they realise you're a crossdresser, not a transsexual, because a crossdresser doesn't have natural breasts. I get fucked around far more by couples than other CDs and guys; but of course you're dealing with two people, not one.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Think im just going to go back to playing with CDs and bi guys. Would have thought one couple would have responded here. Lrsson learned here is CDs and women just dont mix.

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