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Breath Play????
November 20 2009
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2more4fun
16 years ago
Breath play is just a nicer and easier way of saying (auto)erotic asphyxiation. In short, stopping your breath during sexual play in order to supposedly heighten arousal or orgasm due to the lack of oxygen to the brain.Either your partner chokes you during sex or if you're on your ownsome you can tie a rope around your neck or stick a plastic bag over your head. Yes, people have died doing this and a lot of people still believe that's how Michael Hutchence died.You can probably google the topic for more info.I personally liked your idea of breath play better lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Knowing she has stated an attraction to breath play.... Soph, Did you kill Michael Hutchence ? PS - knowledgeable as always 2more4fun
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes... I agree with 2more4fun... this is a topic that it best left to google... you can find a lot of information because it belongs in a quite controversial area within BDSM called Edge Play. With a partner, it is as much about control as it is about arousal from lack of oxygen and there are many different types of breath play... none of which experts and doctors recommend trying... I was actually quite surpised to find it on the list of fetishes on RHP when I joined... it's universally considered one of the most dangerous BDSM practices.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lmao....which one of you knows me so well...... :P LOL or is it both???? mmmmmmm yummy.... both.... ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Everyone is different and takes it to different extremes.Mrs rough loves nothing better than being taken,(Seems common amongthe submisive women)Although we do not live the Dom/Sub bit every day, when we get fubky she loves to know her man is in control.During these times we do partake in light breath playCan be a hand around the throat pinning her down to the bed while i give her oral or it might be a leathe belt around her neck.If you do engage, it is absolutely important to be constantly aware of your partner AT ALL TIMES. If you are prone to getting carried away, or only concrned with your own needs, then this is not for you.Remember, even if you have a "Safe" word, it will not help you if you cant breathe and verbalise it!!!!That said in the right context, with the right partner, it can be very erotic!good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL I'm glad sophie has explained this as you were definately on the wrong track NewWa_Jul (no offence)....quite understandable if you are knot experienced in this area.... Like everyone else I would encourage you to google breath play as there are some obvious care factors that need to be taken into account for anyone wanting to experiment in this exciting but potentially dangerous area of consunsual edge play. What I can say is that breath play, which can be as simple as putting your hands around someones throat for a sensual "rougher" experience during sex or as complicated as autoerotic asphyxiation, CAN be incredibly erotic and bring on orgasm or intensify orgasm. I would urge that you research the topic thoroughly before participation. As sophie sez....not recommended by professional health experts. In my experience, with consenting partners breath play is awesome because of the heightened "danger" factor and I have used it in role playing Dom/sub scenarios like "kidnapping", "play rape" and even general play. As with all BDSM play, in my humble opinion anyway....play should be safe, sane, sexy, fun.....and of course fully consensual and with predetermined safe words/signals. Stares intensely into sofie's eyes as My big hands encircle her throat....hmmmmm if only...lol BadBadDog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i feel like a dick!!! my thoughts of breath play was fartin in bed and forcibly holding the mrs under the covers? shit!!! did i get it wrong :-( Mr_KK
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well thanks for the feedback Guys and Girls we certainly feel more enlightned on the subject. Besides it has stopped us both running to the bathroom mirror to see if we could fog it up ( a form of asphyxiation too in these hot days lol). But we are a bit cute in our naive way lmao Thanks again guys W & J
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bwahahahahahhaha MR KK!!! Ya dag....love ya humour!! miss ya both kisses n breathe play fun...mmmmmmmmmm sweetpetite41. PS...Dog...grrrrrr....stop talking about breath play..getting me excited here ..lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I often take a deep breath, hold it, then hyperventilate when knocked in the balls... That certainly achieves a different sense of reality... lots of stars... and nearly black out. Not recommended...
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RHP User
16 years ago
My girl loves breath play.She loves being choked around the neck, before and during orgasm, and also likes having her chest pressed down on. She doesnt really like fingers down the throat or a dick shoved down there, i do. lol. But it still comes back to the denial of air.Its a pretty touchy topic really. I dont mind doing it to get her off, but the last thing i want is to have her pass out or die. I refuse to tie anything to her neck, unless it can be undone straight away. Holding your breath during orgasm does work tho, works pretty well.
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Hmmm...I know im blonde...but...Im with u MRKK....i thought breath play was where ya had a play with someone who actually had a pulse....lol...and u could feel their breath on u....lol... Hmmm..way off the mark arent i...lol.... Plat.. xoxox
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RHP User
16 years ago
Breath play is a very erotic form of controling your submissive during a sexual act or advanced slave training. By using various methods such as hanging, strangulation, chest compression or even just a simple verbal order your submissive must focus on her body and its reactions making her more aware of everything that is happening around her. it is also used as a form of training sometimes as it requires the submissive to hold their breath and/or controll their breathing providing them with more self awareness. While i have nothing wrong with breath play I do not think it is a practise to be used by inexperienced people ( or even the expereienced ones sometimes) as it can be risky and no matter how carefull you are accidents can happen. be carefull when trying it and only ever consider it with a partner you would trust with your life because if something goes wrong they will be the ones you need to help you!!!! (a fist aid cert helps too lol) hope this helps ember
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mmm... Breath play is a regular and very horny part of our playtime, but as others have mentioned it is a very dangerous activity if done incorrectly. It causes increased genital bloodflow and sensitivity as well as a 'high' as blood rushes back to the brain when the choke is released. You need to be intently aware of your partner, especially if your version of breathplay is (like ours) a bit more serious than a light grip around the throat. We have clearly established signals for 'enough' and 'stop' (single and double tap on the grip respectively). Also, if you are planning on choking your partner unconscious (and I make no judgement if that is your mutual choice...) then make sure you get some advice from someone with experience and training in how to do this safely.
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RHP User
16 years ago
in response to the candle wax query (as well as breathe play). dont use bee's wax or dark dyed candles, as they heat up far more than normal church candles and actually scorch the skin. as for the breathe play it is awesome, but i wouldnt do it with just anyone. it can be very dangerous and it is very easy to go to far
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sexslaves
16 years ago
if looking to get into breath play i would recommened you guys do some research or get some advice from someone that participates in this feetish as can be dangerous and can cause perminete damage if done incorrectly and most of all have a safe word or touch that comes natrully to you like red or a tap on the shoulder or leg
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sexslaves
16 years ago
i wouldnt recomend a rope something a bit wide and softer like a scafe folded in half to you get use to what your into and it is a real good turn on of power over a slave
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