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Branding?
May 02 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
G'day Focus!! Speaking on behalf of one who has a 'thing' for branding, albeit the temporary variety. It is as you say an 'ownership' thing. Tho perhaps not in the way you may think. For me, its about 'owning' the experience. A lingering memory of a passionate and unrestrained sexual event. Both in vanilla and BDSM, however moreso in the latter. In fact, I developed my own particular style of branding/skin etching which usually lasts a day or two. It goes without saying that the undertaking of such measures is totally consensual for both parties, as it should be in all things sexual and otherwise. Different strokes fordifferent folks :-) xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I feel compelled to draw a distinction b'tween my initial reply and that of Trish's second response. Whilst my personal preferences for moderate sexual play branding is now known, I hasten to add I leave my mark where no-one without intimate access is likely to view however sexual branding or marking is not done with the intention to humiliate, harm or act in a deliberate violent manner toward an unwilling participant. Trish, whilst I know you are no longer at risk, AND, violence is not the answer, however, I for one, would love to meet the perpertrator of these horrific actions against you...and give him a piece of my mind....several in fact!! My wish is that you and your children will recover sooner rather than later and live a life free from oppression and total phuckwits. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find that a good soaking in the hot tub gets rid of most of the whip marks by morning. Teeth however, that's a whole nother story. My dick is not a salami, ladies. NO TEETH! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I feel compelled to draw a distinction b'tween my initial reply and that of Trish's second response. Whilst my personal preferences for moderate sexual play branding is now known, I hasten to add I leave my mark where no-one without intimate access is likely to view however sexual branding or marking is not done with the intention to humiliate, harm or act in a deliberate violent manner toward an unwilling participant. Trish, whilst I know you are no longer at risk, AND, violence is not the answer, however, I for one, would love to meet the perpertrator of these horrific actions against you...and give him a piece of my mind....several in fact!! My wish is that you and your children will recover sooner rather than later and live a life free from oppression and total phuckwits. xx Absolutely myname. think I will join you in giving him a piece of my mind also. but i am with Trish I bruise also easily and for some reason I have met a few people lately who seem to like putting a mark on me in a highly visible area. I guess I have always thought they were tacky and not something that everyone else needs to see. And then i have the problem of taking a while to heal - just not a pretty look. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'I find that a good soaking in the hot tub gets rid of most of the whip marks by morning. Thanks for the tip. I knew I was doing something wrong trying to get rid of those.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69'and other war wounds, acquired during my marriage. They were clearly the result of domestic violence, but no one commented on those injuries, except a teacher at my children's school.Trish Funny (well not really) you mention it. I had a gf with a black eye (a real pearler!!). The looks I got... because it couldn't possibly be a netball injury.. I must've hit her!! No comments though. Then again, how do you start a conversation with "Did your husband do that?" it's as potentially embarrasing as "When is it due?" and "Is it in? ...Really?".
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RHP User
16 years ago
if that is your real name.. ;-) I'd simply say to the gent - if you mark me visibly on the outside, we don't play again... that would be a sure sign you were serious would it not? And if they do mark you and you don't want it... then kick their ass...oh wait... that might be encouragement for some ;-) hugs Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hello stranger... nice to see you drop by. Quoting 'niceguy0068' if that is your real name.. ;-) I'd simply say to the gent - if you mark me visibly on the outside, we don't play again... that would be a sure sign you were serious would it not? And if they do mark you and you don't want it... then kick their ass...oh wait... that might be encouragement for some ;-) hugs Wayne the problem with this approach is that they are likely to want to test your resolve - so i am still stuck with marks that people can see and possibly not playing a second or third or.... time with someone who could potentially be a lot of fun. but i do like the 'kicking in ass aspect' will give that a try on the next one who thinks about marking me. and my real name? who's to say mum doesnt have a good sense of humour and named me as such. kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I feel compelled to draw a distinction b'tween my initial reply and that of Trish's second response. Whilst my personal preferences for moderate sexual play branding is now known, I hasten to add I leave my mark where no-one without intimate access is likely to view however sexual branding or marking is not done with the intention to humiliate, harm or act in a deliberate violent manner toward an unwilling participant. Trish, whilst I know you are no longer at risk, AND, violence is not the answer, however, I for one, would love to meet the perpertrator of these horrific actions against you...and give him a piece of my mind....several in fact!! My wish is that you and your children will recover sooner rather than later and live a life free from oppression and total phuckwits. xx Absolutely myname. think I will join you in giving him a piece of my mind also. Kisses Focus can i stand in that line too roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
For the special lady in my life, i love leaving a nice little mark on the inner thigh, good thing too as i tend to spend alot of time in that area. As for blokes who beat women- yeah i like leaving a slightly bigger mark on them!
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RHP User
16 years ago
With a long line of passengers armed to the eyeballs with assorted weaponry ready to sort out the hysterical woman. Funny movie but not so funny in this case. Anyhoooo...back to focus's topic....focus myname...foooocus.. Oh...welcome back wayne...bout time you got your butt back here! Focus....yes...righto..focusing...teeth marks...oh yum...My teeth positively itch at times..need soft, clean and pliable skin with which to ease my itch....puts a whole new meaning to 'something you can sink your teeth into' However..ONLY if they consent..
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes I agree they are likely to try to test it, but honestly, if a gentleman does not treat you the way you deserve and request to be treated (bearing in mind that some people do in fact like it rough) then they don't deserve your company either. If I was ever "abused" by a gal - she'd get one warning and then I'd leave or kick her out. Sorry - not something you mess with. Myname... yes - I'm baaaccckkkk... feeling great and ready to get back into living... well in a nice way that is :-) Thanks for noticing I was gone - hope to catch up for that drink or three one day real soon. Hugs Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to agree with you Mynameonurlips, you described it well,,, consensual, respect, understanding of where and where not to mark as well as after care are all very important.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hard not to notice you were MIA from the ooze pond Wayne. Hopefully you may notice we have done some refurbishing in your absence. New faces and ideas brightening up the place. A nip here...a tuck there... Hopefully will catch up with you guys at the upcoming hellfire night! Yeehaaaa!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oops I tend to just go for the quick nip. I don't suck so as not to intentionally leave marks. As for drawing on someones back well that's just funny. I hope it went away. Who would do such a thing?? Oops I'm gonna cop it now. Fab RFB 5 the rear gunner.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Drawing on a girls back? I do hope she kicked your arse for that one! Back on topic...... I guess its tough to restrain sometimes in the heat of passion - for some - but when a girl or guy bruises easily (and then takes a while to heal) marks can be very unsightly. I have tried the respectfully asking them not too - sure babe whatever you want ...followed by... oops i am so sorry i dont know how that got there. now to stop them before anything happens is the key. A gentleman Wayne? Hmm are you starting classes in the subject - I may have a few students for you. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Hard not to notice you were MIA from the ooze pond Wayne. Hopefully you may notice we have done some refurbishing in your absence. New faces and ideas brightening up the place. A nip here...a tuck there... Hopefully will catch up with you guys at the upcoming hellfire night! Yeehaaaa! Yup - I have noticed a few things different, and yet so much remains the same. Guess that's life in the real world huh :-) Hugs Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
G'day able! Nice to see a fellow 'gnaw'er' in the ooze pond. In fact looks like we have a few in our midst. RFB5: All I can say...is...it's about damn time! Standing ovation for you both!! Focus: you lil sex kitten you! Thanks for coming up with this post. Really enjoying the comments thus far xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
big darky on the neck. see her explain that one to the next conquest.......oh, and no sex for her.........Earl, the sex nazi.....ahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
I mosey'd on over to this post assuming it would be something about branding i.e. branding branding...like with a red hot iron leaving a permanent mark. Something that is a popular if not common process in some BDSM Master/slave relationships. Sigh. I was wrong. This post is about lovebites... Still sexy but not brandng in the true sense. Focus, just make yourself clear to your lover(s)...if it's not your thing then make it clear up front. If they still do it, turn off the tap. I find body marks, particularly those gained in sexual battle very cool, very sexy...bit then I am a Dom and my partners are submissive and are turned on by them too... Tiger stripes from the whip or cane. Bite marks. Bruises from the throes of passion. Scratches. Consensual, safe, sane and hellishly hot... BadBadDog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The title of it probably comes from my mum always saying to me as a teenager - you dont want to be marked as someones property do you? Think she was trying to scare me - and damn it she did! well kinda. Dont get me wrong, I dont mind nips and bites, scrathes etc but when I am left carrying the marks for days (and in some cases weeks) on end I dont like it at all. then of course the darker the bruise the longer it takes to heal and that yellowing phase they go through is so very unattractive - well to me. and i dont care - no amount of concealer can cover some of the ones that have managed to find their way onto my body. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Focus since you asked... yes - maybe I should start classes. I'll need to enlist the help of a few true gents here though... Mooka and Nev- you guys up for it? We shall need to first sample a nice selection of the RHP ladies with our own talents to determine from their perspective what traits they want in a gentleman before we can commence building a course outline.... so which ladies would like to be part of our initial sample? I think then once we've got the course sorted, we'll need some kinda exam at the end for the true gentleman to pass... and that means more ladies need to be able to participate in that too... volunteers? Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
After writing on this girls back. It said " kiss here" with an arrow pointing to her butt. Ha ha very romantic. I licked it off. Of course. See I'm a nice guy. Mmmmm it was so much fun. But then I noticed I could still see it. I'd used a biro and could still see it but now it was a red line. I hope it went away. I don't need nice guy training. I've been nice my whole life. Wayne. Aka Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
But I've not seen enough of your posts to know - been here for 6 months myself, but on break recently for a few reasons.. Nev and Mooka I KNOW are nice guys, quite a few others I suspect are nice guys and I'm probably setting myself up for hate mail now but anyway - sorry for those I've left out. At least you didn't use permanent marker on the girl... that would not be cool FAB69 - I guess you must be a geek with a name like FAB - from the Thunderbirds? Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes I am a bit of a geek. But I'm more. I'm a bit of a charmeleon. I can pass as anything with no fakeness. I guess that is one of my strengths. I can go to a heavy metal gig, a rough truckers pub, a five star resturant, a gym, a rave party, a gay bar, the surf, an aboriginal activist march, the hip trendy skivvy cafe's or even out country with out feeling out of place. A man for all seasons. I think the poor girl would have left a few marks on me if I had. She was going to get some photos taken later that day. Lol. I just can't help myself. When we are chillin to sneek up on her and give her a random nip. Especially when she squeals. You might know what I mean. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its like the fine line between just the right amount of drinks and too many.... push it too far, and you'll regret it in the morning. (Sexy as hell at the time though)The actual phsychology of the branding part feels very juvenile to me. If its in the moment, its different to pre meditated.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Focus, Invest in some Arnica cream....if ever you need to get rid of bruises...this stuff will clear up bruise within a few days. SINcerely. Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'BadBadDog' Focus, Invest in some Arnica cream....if ever you need to get rid of bruises...this stuff will clear up bruise within a few days. SINcerely. Dog. Thanks baddog will give this a go if I ever let some nasty guy/girl do this to me again. You truly are a gem. Wayne & Wayne - do you guys need a room? Offering mine Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't need yours Focus... got one of my own... with my own party too... a threesome... me, myself and I... ;-) Oh well - at least I know all three will be equally pleased... and I don't have to worry about doing the wrong thing by one of the three. hugs Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey focus you don't go for water sports. You just wanted to be Wayned upon. Hahahahahahahahaha Plus I've never seen your room. Is that an offer.? ???????????????????????????????????????????? I bet it's more like a dungen.lol. I don't think you could handle two nice guys. Plus all the time will be taken up with us saying. "no after you. "" oh I insist. No after you. "plus could you imagine how schitzophrenic it would be. "Oh I like your butt Wayne" "thanks Wayne I like yours as well Wayne. ". Plus the other one has got the me ,myself and I thing going on. Your Wayning fantasy might be a nightmare. I might teach him the art of nipping. Then where would you be. Xx Wayne aka Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' Don't need yours Focus... got one of my own... with my own party too... a threesome... me, myself and I... ;-) Oh well - at least I know all three will be equally pleased... and I don't have to worry about doing the wrong thing by one of the three. hugs Wayne at least you know you are in good company wayne. but seriously i have some friends that could help you with your personality disorders just let me know when you decide to seek help Quoting 'fab69'Hey focus you don't go for water sports. You just wanted to be Wayned upon. Hahahahahahahahaha Plus I've never seen your room. Is that an offer.? ???????????????????????????????????????????? I bet it's more like a dungen.lol. I don't think you could handle two nice guys. Plus all the time will be taken up with us saying. "no after you. "" oh I insist. No after you. "plus could you imagine how schitzophrenic it would be. "Oh I like your butt Wayne" "thanks Wayne I like yours as well Wayne. ". Plus the other one has got the me ,myself and I thing going on. Your Wayning fantasy might be a nightmare. I might teach him the art of nipping. Then where would you be. Xx Wayne aka Fab. Ah fab what does a girl say to that apart from : someone please pick me up from the floor when I finish laughing An offer for you to see my room? hmmm where else do you think I was going to lock you into? With the prospect of 2 nice guys nipping at me I ma off to buys ome Arnica cream as suggested. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
This wayne will make a quick withdrawal before he gets into too much twubble figuring out which personality he is... Hugs Wayne (the Original and best NiceGuy) :-)
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